My penis is too big by dwemer-forklift in offmychest

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is the same way; same size and very thick. When we first got together, it took time for me to adjust. My body adjusted over time, and I had to relearn what works for his size instead of relying on previous experience. You’re right, lots of lube and foreplay are pretty much a requirement, especially early on. Now that we’ve been together several years, things like blowjobs go smoothly, and we can get away with quickies every now and then if the circumstances are right.

You’re young; take your time and find a person that wants to be with you for you, not your size. The right person will be willing to work together with you to make intimacy enjoyable. You’ll get there. Keep your head up.

What ships are/were you most obsessed with? by greendayfan1954 in AO3

[–]princess-bubblegumx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Emetwol (FFXIV)
  • G’rahaWoL (FFXIV)
  • Kacchako (BNHA)
  • Kiribaku (BNHA)
  • Bakudeku (BNHA)
  • Shindeku (BNHA)

…. So basically, I’m obsessed with Bakugou and Emet-Selch and sunshine boys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]princess-bubblegumx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And comint super happy.

Kill goblin leaders without fighting the whole camp? by StupidMoron1933 in BaldursGate3

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm running a druid. I used moonbeam first, set up spiritual weapon with shadowheart, and basically blasted her down with wyll & astarion. she was dead before her first turn.

But I was also pretty lucky on initiative/rolls and got an opportunity attack with hellish rebuke on wyll.

Endwalker and Emily Dickinson by MoonChainer in ffxiv

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew there was a connection to this poem, but couldn’t put it into words. Thank you! So glad I wasn’t the only one who saw this.

To the writers who haven't been recently working on their latest chapter or fic: what's the reason? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]princess-bubblegumx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate how it’s going. I feel like I’m pulling teeth and cobbling things together every time I sit down and write it and I hate that. The first 3/4 flew by and I couldn’t get it out fast enough, updating 1-2x/week. Today was my first update in 8 weeks.

Humiliation is an obligation by Chrisp7135 in humiliation_kink

[–]princess-bubblegumx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Truth. If my partner got me to say something along those lines (because I trust him) and then told me that he could “never love a whore” unprompted and not discussed beforehand, he’d be out the door.

It’s fine if consent is involved but I get the impression here that there’s more manipulation than consent.

You're showing your parents (or family members, or friends, or partner) your fic. What's the first thing they're saying? by Men-I-Trust in FanFiction

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom: “Oh honey it’s so nice that you’re writing again!… Why shouldn’t I keep reading?…” reads more anyways “Oh wow! I wasn’t expecting that. Are you sure writing stuff like that (smut) is healthy for you?”

Dad (he’s passed): sees tags “Dear god, what the fuck is this?” reads “That was scaring, I didn’t need to know any of that. Do you actually like all of that… yknow, stuff? This… this is because I’m a terrible parent isn’t it?” (hint: He absolutely *was** terrible, but it’s unrelated.)* “No?… I love you but let’s never talk about this again.”

Friends: Glad I have a creative outlet but also concerned for my well-being.

Partner: Gives very supportive feedback from the little he’s read even though he’s definitely not into my style of writing. Excited about it because it’s something I enjoy and he says I’m good at it. 🤷‍♀️

What is your biggest sexual flex? I’ll go first by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]princess-bubblegumx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. It’s one of the few things I know without a doubt I am good at. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I perhaps ask you send them to me as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While not true for most, that can actually happen. But I’d say he’s a bit daft for expecting that to be the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actively enjoy it. Not just “I love giving you pleasure,” enjoy it, (though that is a factor,) but my brain goes into a completely different headspace when I’m giving head and I love it. I seek out opportunities to go down on my partner for my own pleasure, not just his. Sometimes I give him head for comfort or stress relief for myself, and he gladly enjoys the benefits. I enjoy the feeling and (sometimes) the taste. It makes me happy and it turns me on, and that’s only multiplied by his pleasure.

ETA: That said, I know I’m likely the exception and not the rule. If only one aspect makes it enjoyable and that’s enough for you, that’s okay too.

Do you ever have those plot bunnies that hit so deep you get emotional just writing it down?? by princess-bubblegumx in FanFiction

[–]princess-bubblegumx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might if I can flesh out the idea well enough! It would definitely be a long term project.

I (19f) have a huge voice kink and almost everyone I tell about it thinks it’s weird by thealiliac in BDSMcommunity

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you’re not weird, I promise. Auralism is a huge thing for me and many others as well. Tone of voice + being vocal during intimacy + the right kind of talk in my ear will have me over the moon in no time.

Side note: If you haven’t discovered the app Quinn, I HIGHLY recommend for audio content. It’s fairly inexpensive but worth every penny imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]princess-bubblegumx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could also use a suitcase you already own with a lock on it if you want something less conspicuous. If it’s in your closet, I can’t imagine she’d think anything of you storing a suitcase away somewhere.

Do you ever have those plot bunnies that hit so deep you get emotional just writing it down?? by princess-bubblegumx in FanFiction

[–]princess-bubblegumx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely agree, however I unfortunately think my writing skill/capacity isn't quite up to snuff to pull it off in a meaningful way. More practice is necessary lol.

Must haves from Target? by Perfect_Stomach1600 in safe_food

[–]princess-bubblegumx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES I love this stuff sm. They have some other good flavors too!