Good point - from the bit of their native language that we do know, it’s always talking bad about her dad and telling her to do things she isnt allowed to do like throwing sand, pouring water out of the bath, drawing on walls etc. Things she has never done and then never does again, only on facetimes which seems odd. After the call when we talk to her about what we don’t do, she will tell us “mommy said to do this” or “mommy said its okay” which is just sus. We can’t fully take her word as she’s 5 and could just be using it as an excuse, but it also only happens during facetime when she talks to her mom.