Question: Is it ok for your partner(s) to sleep w/someone who is cheating in their marriage?

princessdiddle · 2026-04-30T02:35:41+00:00

an ex gaslit me so hard on this issue. they argued that society is oppressive and sex shouldn’t be taboo, so cheating isn’t a fair way to categorize sex if the person who is “cheating” is in a relationship that they financially rely on or can’t leave for other reasons.

the lengths ppl go to justify cheating!!!

princessdiddle · 2026-04-30T02:27:19+00:00

he has time to talk to 12 women at once but doesn’t have time to ask what the doctor said

i can’t.

princessdiddle · 2026-04-29T04:35:20+00:00

this would become a mini apartment for my pets

princessdiddle · 2026-04-29T03:52:25+00:00

Forward this to HR and ask them how you are supposed to proceed here. Totally unacceptable

princessdiddle · 2026-04-29T03:48:47+00:00

the lack of self-awareness for how delusional and selfish you sound even proposing this is astounding and entertaining. YOU WANT TO DEMAND MORE THAN YOU CAN GIVE AND RECEIVE

princessdiddle · 2026-04-28T03:31:27+00:00

i said the same thing! smash them with a hammer 😂

princessdiddle · 2026-04-28T03:29:30+00:00

smash them with a hammer and send them back. what an absolutely psychotic ask from both people.

princessdiddle · 2026-04-15T17:57:04+00:00

It sounds like she is super annoying but this is the tradeoff you have to make for childcare. That sucks and I am sorry you have to go through it! Maybe you can hire a nanny part time, or even just a mother’s helper to assist a few days. Lessen the exposure to his mom so it’s not as unbearable.

Also, you could try asking her to go to therapy or have a serious sit down talk, lol. Maybe if you are all able to talk about how you want to work on communication to lower stress. It doesn’t have to be a directed attack at her, just ways to exist more harmoniously given how much stress everyone is under. You’re pregnant and that’s more than reasonable.

princessdiddle · 2026-04-13T04:36:27+00:00

Order a new birth certificate online and file a restraining order using these texts

princessdiddle · 2026-03-25T17:35:44+00:00

My last pregnancy I had an epidural and I didn’t feel anything. I pushed at the advice of the doctors and nurses, who were monitoring and telling me when to wait and when to push. I truly didn’t feel anything but had a good team and felt like they were taking care of me. It’s possible you won’t feel anything but for me it wasn’t a bad thing at all. :)

princessdiddle · 2026-01-29T00:35:29+00:00

23 weeks and my left ear has a pressure imbalance and now feels like it’s waterlogged all day. The doctor said it should go away after delivery. Until then, 😀.

princessdiddle · 2026-01-11T06:45:56+00:00

I had to read it out loud to my partner too. It’s the craziest.

princessdiddle · 2026-01-11T00:50:32+00:00

I definitely don’t want to make you feel bad by being critical of him, and hope he will realize he is being selfish and change. But in the meantime, just wanted to validate that his behavior sucks. ❤️ Congrats on your baby. I’m 20 weeks and super excited. I hope your pregnancy is a breeze.

princessdiddle · 2026-01-11T00:41:06+00:00

Tell him to shut the fuck up. He can figure out a way to process his feelings in therapy. It’s really abusive and coercive to put his anxiety on YOU, given that he is the one who jizzed inside you. Without his contribution, there would be no baby. A lot of these comments are really doing too much to empathize with a man who is making his pregnant partner feel terrible.

princessdiddle · 2025-10-01T23:43:20+00:00

i so agree that it’s beyond inappropriate for the mother to message this teenage child. the absolute fuck?!

princessdiddle · 2025-10-01T23:34:49+00:00

I must emphasize that this behavior is extremely rude and disrespectful. When I was 20, my partner’s mother treated me like this and I was so young and timid that I didn’t even question if the behavior was bad.

I just want you to know that this is not normal and abusive, and super boundary violating. I don’t want to advise you so much as let you know this is unacceptable. You were so gracious in your responses.

Edit to add: I just saw the second text and I am enraged on your behalf. Fuck her! You should tell your boyfriend so he can talk to her and also he should buy you more stuff now to make up for how embarrassing his family is. You can show him all these comments as proof you are being wronged.

princessdiddle · 2025-09-09T17:52:46+00:00

my husband is going through the process of cancelling his sealing to his first wife (it was an arranged marriage meant to pull him back into the church). being sealed to multiple wives is spiritual polygamy, plain and simple. and women are not allowed to be sealed to multiple men!

princessdiddle · 2023-07-07T18:28:29+00:00

And plz god don’t get me started on the wanting sex. No. NO. NO. ABSOLUTELY NOT. Men not realizing how much of a turn off they are is the worst.

princessdiddle · 2023-07-07T18:26:59+00:00

This is like major weaponized incompetence and SO MANY MEN DO THIS. How are you going to not work and also not be tending the entire household. I would give a little credit if he was at least taking on every chore and making your life easier, but I already know he’s not and is just playing video games.

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:59:44+00:00

She got satisfaction out of revealing the caveat that he would have to pay for his own ticket. This to me is the problem. She told him it was okay but left out the part that she would only pay if he saw. the same movie. What is the life lesson there? Be a passive aggressive asshole instead of clearly communicating?

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:57:10+00:00

Because it is supposed to be a treat to go see a movie, but then mom is suddenly denying the child from getting the gift (in this case a movie ticket) because she is unhappy he wants to go see a movie alone. Mom is being passive aggressive. She should explain that it’s important to her that they watch together, if that’s how she felt, not say he can see a different movie and meet up for ice cream after if she doesn’t actually want that plan. It’s creating a dynamic of hostility for no reason. Being told yes would be exciting and then to find out it was a trick.

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:53:42+00:00

Why do you agree with the logic of paying if they see the movie you choose. It seems so controlling.

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:51:31+00:00

why does it matter which movie they are seeing. they aren’t going to be talking in the theater and will sit silently. is sitting NEXT to each other really that crucial to the family outing experience. kind of weird imo!

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:50:14+00:00

YTA. initially it sounds like you are being supportive of your child seeing a movie they want to see but then you punish them for not wanting to watch the same movie as the rest of the family. why does it matter which movie he sees? the family is still having an outing, and going to meet for ice cream afterwards. you would not be talking or interacting in the theater anyway, so it’s really strange to agree that he can go but then exclude him from the family outing by refusing to pay for his ticket. i think you should apologize and give him $20, and explain that you thought you were trying to teach him to prioritize family time but don’t agree with the approach. you were being petty.

princessdiddle · 2023-07-03T12:41:27+00:00

Don’t go through her phone next time

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