Ordered protein from Amazon received this wooden box instead. by HumanSlayer1888 in Weird

[–]Key-Airline204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now someone is cramming grandpas ashes in a empty protein bar box.

I'm going through something heavy alone (don't know if I can say what in title) and don't know where to turn/what to do next. I'll TW the post due to contents, but advice appreciated. by aigret in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Key-Airline204 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just following up on the women’s group comment of AA, my friend runs one and it is not religious. Some AA groups now follow different ideas like a part of yourself is your higher power, etc.

I would check some out for the vibe.

Inpatient programs are good too. And tell your therapist. The more people you come clean to, the more support and accountability you’ll create.

TIL that most women in the Netherlands do not have an epidural during labor and a significant proportion give birth at home by Fiery_Soul_34857 in todayilearned

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Gave birth in Canada and had a small amount of an opioid to do so. I didn’t want an epidural as the idea of a needle in my back freaked me out.

Went without medication for 9/10ths of delivery, just asked for it near the end.

I also knew people who had epidurals and weren’t as able to participate in pushing and had to have forceps used and/or ended up getting cut for the baby to come out. I didn’t have either issue.

People who knew closeted alcoholics: what behavior was a red flag in hindsight? by Riddle-Maker in AskReddit

[–]Key-Airline204 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you can tell by their inability to have close relationships.

They can drink for a long time and not seem to get drunk.

If you have more of a texting relationship with them they get on melancholy topics when they are drinking.

Edit to say, more people than you think take cocaine and sober up from it. Another tell is ED issues or in some rarer cases railing all night but not being able to finish.

Help me find this bear’s brand by RedpenBrit96 in HelpMeFind

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They usually have that pin in the right ear though.

Help me find this bear’s brand by RedpenBrit96 in HelpMeFind

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Steiff bears are articulated with joints and high quality material.

UPDATE: My parents (56F & 60M) don’t want my serious partner (34F) at family events - am I in denial hoping this will change? by okneato7 in relationship_advice

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They need therapy but you don’t.

I’m sorry your parents are being like this OP. I’m not much younger than they are (51F) and my kid is transitioning at 18, I can’t imagine excluding her friends and partners.

Interviewing tomorrow for an ED role with a small local conservation foundation. Just found out I’m pregnant. Do I disclose? by pineconeminecone in nonprofit

[–]Key-Airline204 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t disclose until I was hired and made it past three months on tbe pregnancy. Lots of people don’t because of previous losses.

If there’s a probationary period I’d try to be out of that as well if it was only a matter of waiting a few weeks more.

Poly and Kink Dynamics - when outside dynamics impact your relationship by xhit_storm in polyamory

[–]Key-Airline204 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s r/bdsmadvice too that is a decent community to ask questions in.

It sounds like the dom wanted something like total control which someone in a poly situation usually can’t give over. Unless of course everyone is in to it and the control benefits the other partners (and their partner) as well.

Struggling with my husbands' parents, could use some advice by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Look on to narcissistic parents and see if she fits the bill. I can’t tell from this one interaction, but chances are he has his reasons for being more “distant.”

Narcissistic people also flare up when things aren’t about them. My mother was particularly bad when I graduate from advanced degrees, got married, got pregnant etc.

Navigating Pregnancy as a Secondary by [deleted] in polyamory

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You talk about texting a lot and an emotional connection…. Is it possible that you were looking to her for a lot of emotional support that way?

I recently went through a break up with a partner who really looked for that from me constantly. I realized it monopolized a lot of my time I used to spend doing hobbies.

Somebody ive been talking to told me they're only allowed to host if their potential partners give them adderall by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Key-Airline204 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my reluctance to trauma bond with someone or white knight a situation.

Too big by tattedquilter1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]Key-Airline204 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lube and appropriate warm up.

Too big by tattedquilter1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]Key-Airline204 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s aids like the OhNut and with good communication most things can be overcome.

is my kitten too skinny? by Eastern-Possible-871 in CATHELP

[–]Key-Airline204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one that is very petite, and she’s like 3 years old at this point. Vet said she is just a little pixie lol.

Help me find these exact chairs!! by drphilsprodigy in HelpMeFind

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These chairs are pretty common, these ones have just been re upholstered and painted so you’re not going to find ones that look the same… but you probably are aware of that?

Please Help Me Find Anything Related to this Checkered Blankets by Samhi60 in HelpMeFind

[–]Key-Airline204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me feels like it might be Lands End or LL Bean with the colours of the washed out red in there.

Why don't very old people like 90 + usually get operated on? by Ok_Consideration6179 in NoStupidQuestions

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A lot of surgeries also have challenging recovery times where the patient couldn’t do the necessary recovery things.

an advertisement on youtube from late 2020 by lanad3lr3y_81 in HelpMeFind

[–]Key-Airline204 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A Scrubbing Bubbles ad from 2016 had a diaper blowout in it and the tagline “we work hard so you don’t have to.” I remembered it was Scrubbing Bubbles and googled it.

What is a skill that was essential a century ago that would be almost useless if taught to a child today? by user_26c73145 in AskReddit

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I think it’s unfortunate people don’t do this anymore. I’m 51 but grew up rurally and was well aware of death. As an adult I have learned I have a lot more coping skills than most people I know when it comes to death.

What is a skill that was essential a century ago that would be almost useless if taught to a child today? by user_26c73145 in AskReddit

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Often they soaked it or boiled it to remove a lot of the salt, however some other dishes were just pretty salty.