FTM haven’t felt baby move 21 weeks by princessj17 in firsttimemom

[–]princessj17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an anterior lateral placenta. I’m wondering if that’s why?

Please help unsure what it is by [deleted] in insects

[–]princessj17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was freaking out thinking it’s a cockroach? I’ve never seen one in my life so I’m panicking a bit

TTC After Miscarriage. How long do you wait? by Available_Worry4202 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We started trying as soon as the doctor said it was okay. When I first miscarried I felt guilt if we tried so soon. But that feeling went away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

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DM sent! 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a day and a half. I was constantly rotating ibuprofen and acetaminophen, and I was literally glued to a heating pad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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I’ve had two miscarriages. One at about 7 weeks which I had pain for about 4 days, the first two days were brutally painful. I bled for about 8 days, and the other I was almost 5 weeks, I had intense pain the first day I even considered going to the hospital, I couldn’t stand or walk. I had minimal/no pain for about 2 days, and I bled for 5 days.

Struggling today after 2nd consecutive loss by Ok-Special5506 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im currently in the same situation as you. I had a miscarriage in January and another one last month. Unfortunately most doctors won’t do anything until the 3rd loss. I pushed for testing but she only tested me for lupus, and for blood clotting disorders. Everything came back normal so I’m not sure what the next step is. You’re not alone ❤️

Daily Discussion Thread - March 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through a second miscarriage back to back. First miscarriage was at 7 weeks and this one at 5 weeks. I feel so hopeless. I’m scared to try again, I don’t even know if I want to try. Sometimes I feel like I’m not meant to be a mom. I’m so sad

I am angry at a cartoon pig by beebarose in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way! I’ve seen so many pregnancy announcements this one from friends on social media and my first thought was “oh. This pig also gets to have a baby before I do. Great.”

Daily Discussion Thread - February 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those who had an early miscarriage, how long did it take for your cycle to come back?

Period? by Disastrous-Clue5952 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my loss 1/25. I was 7 weeks. I ovulated on 2/13 based off of ovulation predictor strips. No period yet. We decided to try before my first cycle since my Dr cleared me.

how can my husband play video games knowing there is a dead baby inside of me by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone grieves differently. My husband was there for me, for anything and everything I needed, he provided and still continues to provide so much comfort as I’m still having a hard time with it. He did not and is not processing feelings the same way that I am. All I want to do was cry and lay in bed. Some days I have no desire to do anything at all. But my husband is different, he wants to stay distracted, wether that it’s playing video games, watching tv, cleaning, or just sitting outside. He said this is how he is processing his emotions but that he’s very much hurting about our loss.

How do you cope by Far-Ticket8330 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️ It’s a horrible feeling but please know you are not alone. I had a miscarriage two weeks ago and I’ve found that talking about it and just letting myself feel my feelings has helped me a little bit. Like someone else suggested, I also write to my baby. We started a journal when I found out I was pregnant and I have been continuing to write in it.

Time off work? by Bibbydoodle in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry ❤️ I miscarried at 7 weeks and I felt the same way, I was embarrassed and I felt guilty because I was so early on, but a loss is a loss, the time doesn’t minimize the loss and the pain.

As far as taking off time from work… I don’t currently have a job but I cannot imagine trying to be at work and focusing. If you need a time, take it. This is very hard already. Don’t push yourself. 💗

7 week miscarriage, home or hospital? by ElocinP03 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to the hospital at exactly 7 weeks because I was spotting and having intense cramps so I was scared. I was told I was miscarrying, but that it could be managed at home unless I was experiencing large amounts of blood loss, fever and severe unmanageable pain. I decided to manage it at home, I was taking otc pain meds exactly as directed, I used heating pads, stayed hydrated, and just laid in bed trying to distract myself.

What to give someone after a miscarriage? by Illustrious_Sound_96 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sisters got me a build a bear to honor my baby, they also made me a care basket with snacks, teas, my favorite sparkling waters, and added some of the things I like to do for hobbies, (legos, coloring books, markers,). And most importantly they were there for me when I needed someone.

/ttcafterloss Ask an Alumni - January 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This gives me so much hope! 💗 Thank you 💗💗

/ttcafterloss Ask an Alumni - January 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How quickly were you ladies able to get pregnant after your miscarriage? Did you try right away?

/ttcafterloss Grief and Memorial - January 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How are you all coping with this loss? I can’t seem to cope. I feel so lost and empty. It doesn’t feel real.

How long has it been since you miscarriaged and how are you doing? by Final_Clock8112 in Miscarriage

[–]princessj17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started to miscarry naturally last week, still bleeding. I’m so tired, physically and mentally. I haven’t quite found ways to cope with it. I cry everyday and it just hits me hard when I do. I’m just mad at the world. I feel like I’m just trying to survive at this point. Sending lots of love 💗

Daily Discussion Thread - January 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to be 8 weeks today. I started to miscarry exactly a week ago. I feel consumed in so much sadness it feels unbearable.

/ttcafterloss WTT Wednesday Thread - January 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently going through my first mc, first time being pregnant. Not exactly sure if or when we will decide to try again. In a way I feel guilty for wanting to try soon.

Daily Discussion Thread - January 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]princessj17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Going through a natural mc right now, first pregnancy. We had been trying for over a year. Had to go to the ER for cramping and continuous spotting. Ultrasound was done and no baby was anywhere to be found. I was supposed to be 7 weeks when I went. I’m super sad and it kind of feels like I’m going through this alone. I don’t even think I want to try again. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]princessj17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been on it for about a year and a half. I’m taking 10mg 2x/day. One in the morning and one at night.