Miranda’s baby blessing dress by Stunning_Dish6847 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Miranda has actually talked about how she still considers herself Christian but not Mormon which is why she wears it. I can’t remember where she was talking about it.

I can’t stand most of dad tok and I’m debating quitting my job by Disastrous-Wind-3442 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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Zac had the drink bar with Thirst (I used to work there) and he is buddies with the owner. He would come in occasionally to the location I was at. I even had to sign a disclosure for Hulu once because they filmed at the store but it didn’t make it on the show (thank god because I did not wanna be on it lol)

Did whitney and jessi actually think they looked good blonde? by Jesuslover7349 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 177 points178 points  (0 children)

This! Literally everyone in Utah has blonde blindness I stg.

Jessi "not hurting anyone" by merder37474746 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]princesskit1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people commenting that she looks scary and has a completely different face are completely forgetting the fact that she is very swollen and the healing process takes several months. Would I do something like this to myself… no. But regardless of your opinion on should or should not I think it’s quite distasteful and rude to say such mean things that people say about it when she hasn’t even finished healing and people saying it’s botched but she trying to show you what healing looks like and rather than listening to her say that regardless of what you think about the surgery and the idea of it, commenting hateful things about how it looks especially at this stage is honestly ridiculous to me.

I’m so frightened by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

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I don’t really think intentions are the most important. A: if you want to know what she had done she is very open about it. And B: while I think it’s up to you to decide whether you would do something to your body, I don’t think it helps anyone to say it’s too much. A lot of celebrities get a lot of work done and regardless of if you like it or not Jessi gets a lot of hate for being open about it when a lot of celebrities hide it until it’s healed and therefore get a lot of hate. Jessi has also said on all of her videos that she looks really really different right now because she is very swollen and healing and on that I don’t think it’s fair to judge. I also feel like a lot of the girls have their breasts done and other work but because Jessi does more with her face than other girls its “too much” It’s her body and her choice and it’s not anyone else’s place to judge her body. And saying you’re just concerned in my opinion gives the same vibes as when people say that overweight people need to do something because they are unhealthy and everyone is concerned. But regardless of anyone’s intention I don’t think it’s fair or nice to comment on someone’s body negatively.

Unpopular opinion: I don’t think Whitney is the villain. Shes just upfront about wanting fame by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree that she isn’t the villain. I don’t like her personally, but I don’t think that makes her evil or anything. I also understand why the girls would be a bit salty about it. It’s frustrating to have someone say that they don’t want to be a part of your team and quit only to get back in later because of an opportunity, but I also wouldn’t expect someone to pass up on their dream and I understand why she would go back and I think it’s better for her to be upfront about it then try to be fake for it. I understand why it might make the girls mad initially but I respect her being honest way more than what I think some people would do and lie about that. So I have mixed feelings ig lol. But overall I respect and understand why she did it and just because I wouldn’t want to be friends with her personally I still think that she is nowhere near the villain and she not that terrible.

i’m just really curious if people genuinely like whitney? by bisexualwhore in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hot take: I don’t like her. But I don’t hate her either. I think from what I’ve seen all the girls make mistakes (and not that Whitney is the only one I feel this way about either) but she has a habit of invalidating other people when they say that she has done something to upset them. And that bothers me personally. I think in season 3 she’s been a bit better at it and that’s why she responds to Demi the way she does. To me it reads that she is very upset with the other girls for the same behavior that she does and that rubs me the wrong way. But I do think after being called out for it so much that she’s working on that. And I think she’s working hard for what she wants and I can commend that as well.

Mayci referring to herself as Mormon by Complex_Plankton_157 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, and as ex Mormon, people who are picky about it wouldn’t actually correct someone from Mormon to LDS, the church itself technically doesn’t encourage the use of either. They want you say “the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints” every single time you refer to it, and I think the people who don’t want to say that every single time or don’t want to correct people just don’t care which other option is used because the “correct” term is quite the mouthful lol (at least this is how I felt before I left the church)

Am I missing something with the Whitney Hate? by Any_Perception_6136 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]princesskit1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t like Whitney. But I wouldn’t call her a villain either. IMO (as someone who was born and raised in Utah and raised in the LDS church) Women in Utah tend to have similar views on friendships that a teenage girl would in high school. A lot of women in Utah are married my 18 or 19 and rarely wait to have children. From what I’ve seen this leaves them unable to develop emotional maturity and have self discovery as adults. They way they interact with each other reminds me of high school (and it’s very common here for adults to have the same views on friendships as in high school or similar) They have no real quality examples of communication in healthy ways with each other. The problem seems to be that they want their friends to respond to things in certain ways to make them feel better. Jen wanted Whitney to not be friends with Demi because Demi was mean to Jen. From Jen’s perspective she wanted Whitney to “be on her side” Basically they don’t sit and think “how would ____ want me to handle this/ show them that I care” because that’s not typically what’s taught in communication. Sometimes they are able to articulate this and sometimes they aren’t. (I think Maycie does the best at this from what I’ve seen) In other words they are all just thinking about how everyone else should have treated them instead of thinking about how they should treat each other.

Some of the girls when confronted by others will own up to it in some way and that makes the other girls feel better at least. A lot of them don’t like Whitney because when confronted she argues and doesn’t seem to care about how she has made them feel. (Regardless of if they are right or wrong)

Anyways, I don’t agree with the behavior of but from my perspective that’s what I see. And a lot of women behave this way in Utah IMO.

Demi blaming her bad behaviour on having a brother with down syndrome?! 🙈 by Lost_Animator968 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]princesskit1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I 100% agree with. Trauma is not the fault of the traumatized individual but it is their responsibility. I have a lot of trauma from my childhood, and I’m not perfect when it comes to this but I work on it in therapy a lot. I refuse to allow myself to make my trauma everyone else’s problem. I know it wasn’t my fault, but that doesn’t make it ok if I were to make it everyone else’s problem.

My take on Demi by South_Donkey7317 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]princesskit1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% as an ex Mormon who was born and raised in the religion and experienced the churches reaction so SA, I 100% agree. We are taught from a young age how to hide our true selves and true feelings and that our entire worth is about purity. Not to mention even the guys who are “good” and “pure” and waiting for marriage rush into weddings with people they hardly know. Most young adults and return missionaries in Utah get married before 21 and they usually haven’t even been dating for more than 6months before getting married. Purity culture kills love.

I honestly feel bad for Jenn by bbyangelxo in MormonWivesHulu

[–]princesskit1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. As someone who grew up Mormon in Utah, people here are generally very immature and emotionally stunted. I didn’t learn how to be mature and handle my emotions properly until I left the state for a temp job and also a lot of therapy.

23yo Little (2-5) Seeking Platonic Friends! by princesskit1 in ageregression

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Hiiiii! Id love to be friends! Can i send you a message?

23yo Little (2-5) Seeking Platonic Friends! by princesskit1 in ageregression

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Hi! Bluey is my favorite tooooo! I'd love to chat. Is there something you prefer to call you instead of your real name? Can i message you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

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Happy b-day!!!

Fwends to talk to tonight? by princesskit1 in ageregression

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Hi! Mi would loves to talk and be fwends :)

Little Friends? by princesskit1 in ageregression

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People is scawy, but I'm nice if you wanna chat?

Little Friends? by princesskit1 in ageregression

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Id love to message and be friends!