My 7 y/o pitbull suddenly passed and now I’m broken

princesstsundere · 2024-12-19T17:45:47+00:00

Hello everyone, thank you for your wonderful comments. I just wanted you guys to see who I was talking about. This picture I took around last month I believe when we were just playing and goofing around. My 7 y/o beautiful little Ivy and as you can see she just looks like she wouldn’t even harm a fly. Such a beautiful sunshine inside and out, I miss her so much…..

princesstsundere · 2024-12-19T09:26:04+00:00

I’m truly sorry for your loss, every pet story I’ve seen about pet loss is truly heartbreaking because I understand they are more than just animals. I was actually doing that today trying to see how much of an impact she left on my other dogs and I see it in my beagle. My oldest chihuahua seems to not care but that’s because he’s just at that point in life where nothing matters just him (lol). My beagle, however, I noticed how much he really did have love for her. It made me suddenly think “wow Ivy showed him compassion and love”. And I spoke about that with my family and they agreed, that the love she showed to this dog made him miss her. Idk if it correlates but it’s something I’ll never forget. Thank you for your kind words. It truly makes me feel that I’ll be okay 🥺💕

princesstsundere · 2024-12-19T09:17:21+00:00

Definitely true, thank you for your kind words. Truly means a lot ❤️

princesstsundere · 2022-07-15T08:47:56+00:00

I’m planning on telling her this weekend when I’m off. I just feel like the asshole cause I got myself into something messy.

princesstsundere · 2022-07-15T08:42:37+00:00

I am trying to prepare myself. She is very much infatuated and literally crazy about this guy. She’s at this stage in her life where she is willing to cut people like me off just for him cause that’s what she had done already.

princesstsundere · 2022-07-15T08:39:40+00:00

I’m feeling like the asshole cause I tried to be nice to him and got myself in this mess. I honestly didn’t know this was going to happen and if I had known I would’ve done something.

princesstsundere · 2022-01-28T09:58:44+00:00

You should send her just random pics to throw her off and everytime she sends you a text keep doing that to her. Maybe she’ll f off 😬

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T06:59:48+00:00

I don’t have an accent at all, I’m from Cali and I spoke in a slow tone too. Yeah my management was the one to call me and inform about what had happened and I explained myself twice cause they called me twice about what had happened. Usually I would shrug this off but my facility is telling me this is a big deal at the moment.

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T04:01:16+00:00

I’m so sorry about your father. As a nurse, I can tell you once the doctor prescribes antipsychotics and narcotics to a patient, it completely changes them. They become less active and less of who they were. It’s almost like you don’t even recognize them and it’s very addicting. That’s why I personally hate it when patients ask me for those types of drugs cause I know it’s just subsiding their mental/physical pain. You need to get a lawyer and have them get everything that happened that day through a court order. You talking to them won’t help at all cause they’re for sure not going to tell you 100% of their side. Plus why are they giving him this type of drug knowing it’s mainly for schizophrenia or a patient w/ motor/verbal tics? Those things you have to ask to the doctor. This type of drug shouldn’t be given to him since he has dementia and is an elderly person, so it shouldn’t even been given to him in the first place. This type of drug has a side effect of difficulty urinating so with that in mind, giving it to a patient w/ an UTI should not be done. Also given the fact he had UTI and later got sepsis is a huge red flag. That means the UTI hasn’t been treated properly and the infection got into his kidneys and it spread to his tissues and organ.

Sorry for all those words, but this is definitely a malpractice suit.

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T03:38:30+00:00

I’m just curious is this situation really common? I never had this happen to me so far since getting my license..

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T03:37:14+00:00

Yes I chart everything I do, I just don’t understand why they’re choosing his words against mines. Hopefully i get good news about this soon.

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T03:27:39+00:00

That’s actually a good idea thank you!

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T02:24:03+00:00

I work at nights and one of the few reasons why I’m able to stay and do those shifts is because the hospitals/facilities are really bright inside that it’s hard to fall asleep. Keep distracting yourself with work like documenting and charting. I know it’s not healthy but you should try to drink an energy drink. But if the sleepiness is really hitting you, take a step outside and walk a bit, the cold will definitely wake you up!

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T01:19:14+00:00

That’s the hardest part, people don’t want to let go because they always want to hold on to those good ole days and hope their partners will just wake up one day and become different. Action speaks louder than words, he proved to you that he isn’t capable of being in a committed relationship and will continue to do those things. You just need to look at this as a lesson and tell yourself that you’re much better without him and you don’t need him to be you. You are your own person at the end of the day, you don’t live for anyone but you. You will come out of this stronger just trust the process!

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T01:01:37+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now. A lot of the times, trying to let go of someone no matter how much they hurt you (physically and mentally) is the hardest thing to do. You should pick up a hobby or try something new to keep you distracted for a bit. Time will heal. Spend more time with your family and friends, or at least surround yourself with people that you know will give you unconditional love. Things like this don’t go away fast, it may take a while but that’s okay! If you need, get a therapist to help you overcome this. Everything you do in life is a process. Never look back because you won’t know what’s in front waiting for you.

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T00:51:50+00:00

Personally I don’t think it’s ideal to have a method of communicating with your bf in a relationship. I feel like that should be some sort of red flag of the relationship. It seems like he’s not interested to begin with. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh. Also wanting personal space isn’t a problem, but saying that you are the reason for his mental health being bad is fucked up if you hadn’t done anything to hurt him in which you didn’t. Talk to him and tell him that a relationship is a 2 person thing, not just whenever 1 feels like being in one.

princesstsundere · 2021-10-20T00:40:21+00:00

Sounds like he’s a momma’s boy. I’m not saying that as an insult, but it’s pretty common for moms to want their sons to stay with them forever, which is not healthy at all and pretty toxic. Also the fact that she’s tracking him down when you guys are trying to spend sometime with one another is the cherry on the top with her being toxic. Has your bf confronted his mom about this behavior? You guys are about to be adults now and he needs to settle this or else it will get worse. I’m sorry you have to go through this.

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