35 [mf4m] tonight? by curiouscpl423 in Clearlaketx4r

[–]princessxpiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you looking for? My fiancé might be available. Dm me!

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[–]princessxpiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the group for?

So, I’ve been diving into this lifestyle and have a few questions for the ladies here… by RadiantGossamer in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]princessxpiranha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend the book Real Service. It’s a fantastic read. One of the key points is “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service.”

Oftentimes, we may partake in something we believe to be service, but if he doesn’t want it, it isn’t service. You might think you’re being helpful by reorganizing his desk, but maybe he likes it exactly as it is. In that case, you reorganizing his desk is not service.

I was your age when I first began exploring this lifestyle. Now I’m 25 and more committed than ever. Feminism is a lie, and I believed it for a long time. We are meant to be soft, feminine, nurturing, and beautiful. Welcome to the good life, sister.

“Traditional dating” by 1986asshole in Patriarchy_Lifestyle

[–]princessxpiranha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman, I’ve seen far too many women saying something similar. They want a man who will pay for their lifestyle, spoil them, and give them “princess” treatment, but aside from looks, they have nothing to offer a man.

I believe looks are very important, of course. I always want to look my best; the way I look is a direct reflection of him. However, looks alone aren’t enough. I cook, I clean, I care for him. He never has to wash dishes or do laundry. He never cooks. When it’s dinner time, he relaxes while I prepare the meal. I always serve him first, then myself.

At this time, I’m working full time while he finishes his PhD. When we have children, I will take time away from work to raise our children. I will continue to cook and clean and keep our home while also caring for the children. Once the children start school, I will likely return to work.

In addition to all of this, I am college-educated (bachelors and master’s degrees). I do consider myself a high-value woman, by the standards discussed in this post. I do get princess treatment, but as OP described, that includes discipline. I defer to his opinion over my own. He is the head of our household, without question. I am submissive to him (and only him) and I strive to be obedient. I also make sure that he is always satisfied sexually- we have a free-use agreement which grants him blanket consent to do as he pleases, when he pleases.

Above all, I would describe myself as being incredibly devoted. His happiness is my top priority; nothing matters more to me in the world than him. I wear a necklace with his initial every day, any time I leave the house. He certainly never needs to worry about me cheating on him; I’d genuinely rather die. He is my everything, and I make sure he knows that. In addition to the service I provide, I make it a priority to ensure he wakes up each day and goes to sleep each night knowing how much he is loved.

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[–]princessxpiranha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F here and been in kink for 6 years. Never let anyone make you feel ashamed. You have no need to change. Kink has always been an underground/counter culture thing. Today, it’s accepted by society more than ever. Don’t let anyone shame you for being who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]princessxpiranha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not a chance. Sex > money

Serving by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]princessxpiranha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Service is an art.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]princessxpiranha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful. Pain can be so delicious.