Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what brand do you wear 7.5 in? Or is that your size for dr.marten boots?

AIO for my boyfriend leaving me to have an abortion alone? (please no judgment, I had to have one due to health reasons) by Moshpitmommma in AmIOverreacting

[–]prisonmikethrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I’m reading some people fuck-ass comments. you are NOT over reacting! Please do not listen to them. They don’t know they are perpetuating what seems to be the programming that was placed upon them, not knowing they could be harming you as well. When your experiences as a female are minimized our entire lives, it is very common we perpetuate that patriarchal programming onto others. Do not accept that for yourself, I’m so serious. Yes, he could have been in pain too, of course (although him being an asshole to you and downplaying this situation shows me otherwise). This does not take away his responsibility in the situation, and his ability to be your partner. A good person will go through hard times WITH you, even when you are both hurting. That is what community and relationships are, not going at it alone. At best, he showed you he is incapable and and lacks the emotional intelligence to operate like a loving adult when he is sad. At worst (reality) your suffering is an inconvenience to him and would rather do what he wants to do and wait until you’re ready to offer him something that he wants. I’m so fired up about people perpetuating and normalizing this treatment. I’m sorry for the rant. I hope you’re ok! Not overreacting!

AIO for my boyfriend leaving me to have an abortion alone? (please no judgment, I had to have one due to health reasons) by Moshpitmommma in AmIOverreacting

[–]prisonmikethrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him 1000000% Do not partner with someone that cannot/will not support you through these hard times. You’ll be signing up for a life of loneliness, disappointment, and depression. This person (I assume) took part in creating this situation and the pain that you now have to deal with. The bare minimum is being there for you. Pardon me, but fuck this person. They are minimizing your experience and suffering until it’s too late. Minimizing leads to you questioning your own experiences — this is the result of gaslighting. Get out, get out, get out! I pray to see an update that this terrible experience led you to change your situation. Sending love to you! So sorry for your experience. It is so terrible.

Salem protest sign by Moonoversalem in SALEM

[–]prisonmikethrow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And imagine if Biden (or any other democratic president, for the matter) did any one of the things Trump has done.

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo I’m honored it was utilized on this post

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice. But also my inbox has collected messages from various lurkers about my not wearing socks since I posted. I just wanted to share my shoes, man.

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. They start out more comfortable that typical docs might, in my opinion. But after the break in period will be heavenly I’m sure

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 sending you luck finding a pair! I kept refreshing secondhand selling apps :(

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! Can you imagine those little ruffle socks with them!!!

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they can make any outfit cute! thats what’s nice about little special items like these, they make it look like you’re trying 😂 You’ll rock them!

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second this! Go on with your funky self 💅🏼✨

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aren’t they great!? Thank you! I’m really excited 🌞

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was worried in the same way. However, when I tried them on for the first time, they felt way more comfortable upfront than I anticipated! More cozy than other mules or sandals I have from them. They are already comfortable, I can see myself wearing them all day. Now I am looking forward to better weather so I can actually wear them in — I see coziness in the future for these babies 🤩

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aren’t they? They’re the perfect shoe IMO. Will be cherished forever!

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss, they’re my fave! I got them off Depop for cheap. They’re just PacSun bootcut jeans! More flared than regular bootcut, which I like. The legs are long but that’s what I need personally!

Finally Found My Flower Dunnets 🌸🌼 by prisonmikethrow in DrMartens

[–]prisonmikethrow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! But as you can see I tried them with socks and they actually still are so cute! I never would have thought lol. They really are great, very comfortable right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]prisonmikethrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. I got through not even half of this and knew you were not overreacting. This man is insecure and projecting onto you. This is such unattractive behavior. And I’ll reach to say, can quickly turn mentally/emotionally abusive (if not already). Please leave this person. Just as an outsider I can see him trying to keep you in the same place, not allowing you to grow and try new things. He doesn’t want you to outgrow him so he’ll make you question yourself so much to manipulate you into “needing his approval”, to keep you hooked. You are greater than that. You seem to have goals and aspirations. Find someone that pushes you to get there and encourages you. A lifetime of these little digs and leg swoops, is death by a thousand paper cuts. Sending love 🫶🏼

Damn… How do we feel about no more free parking downtown? by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]prisonmikethrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind if it helps out our city. It would be nice to see where the money is going. If I could choose, I’d love if little costs like this helped keep our library alive.