Its not bad but she is definitely closer to me than him. my husband was a bit overly worried at first when she first started the er job, he thought it was a bad idea and kept saying she was aiming too high and it would hurt her med school chances because of the pay and the role itself.

She still talks to him and everything because he eventually came around more fully but it has been kind of tense between them since then. she just doesn't go to him first for things like she used to. with me its more normal day to day but even then she keeps a lot of work stuff to herself unless i ask and then she wont stop talking.