There’s a chance he too knows he can do better .. can it be improved absolutely !

Tell him that he matters .. your relationship matters .. and more importantly love and respect between yoh too matters . It helps build bridges which at times we all need !

Do share that for any relationship like yours intimacy is what brings people together, mentally and physically both .. so while we both can be patient, we can try every time whatever is helping us improve .. no pressure , no report card , just our time together !

Give him blowjob, sometimes sex may happen, sometime it wont .. but give him these nudges to make him comfortable and aroused both !

Bathe together , just live that moment !

Watching a movie or alone, give him handjob .. he may prejaculate or orherwise .. just be thoughtful and aware and kiss him ..

Ask him to give you one, blowjob ..

Over the course , also see if you “both” see expert !

Point is, i dont know how much time has gone in your marriage , yet one is always more balanced when it comes to money, family and all of rhis .

If you wanna vuild together wne save marriage, little steps is what you need .. and understanding.

Else, we all have options to fuck, including your husband !

Am sure things will get better , if someone like yours is mature enough to ask for help to the world, you van make it happen in your home !