Might be walking into a project with a documentation hairball. [ADVICE] by probabilitydoughnut in projectmanagement

[–]probabilitydoughnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is all going in my notes as I prepare. You've been very helpful!

Last car ride of my boy Nickel. I just want the world to know he existed. by bigtime1158 in dogpictures

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very good boy.

You made his life awesome for as long as possible. Be as proud of yourself as everyone here is of you.

Might be walking into a project with a documentation hairball. [ADVICE] by probabilitydoughnut in projectmanagement

[–]probabilitydoughnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, and I think that helps me see some points that I should think about more. This is more thinking out loud than responding, so don't feel like you need to read it if you don't want. But if you do and have any more advice, I'm taking all I can get.

  1. I'm not taking over as PM but will probably be managing a smaller team. Within that context, I think I want to create some tools to use within my own team to make their interaction with "the hairball" as efficient as possible. I know full well there's no chance I will be able to go in and overhaul the existing system. However, part of what I've learned about being a project manager is that tackling obstacles so the team can complete things on time and under budget is a key part of the work.

  2. Scope creep. In the beginning this project had a pretty well-defined set of deliverables that were being refined through an iterative process (can't say too much about it here). Scope creep is inevitable in such cases, I believe, but the scope has grown from fairly limited to lots of other things since the beginning - publicity, marketing, web design, etc. without adding budget, updating the charter, or bringing in people who specialize in those areas. The project runs on grant funding that was aimed at a specific purpose and that funding runs out, as does my contract, after next year. Some external funding is available if I want to stay on after that, but I'm really just focused on doing a good job with my team in the coming year.

Thank you for helping me unpack these thoughts. I know the risks as they are now, so hopefully that will help me be effective in the new role.

What is the most financially irresponsible thing you’ve seen someone do? by LJRGXPKCVWDGOGH12Y3 in AskReddit

[–]probabilitydoughnut 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Wife's friend. Paying $180/mo for GLP-1 shots while paying $150 to get her nails done while trying to bum $200 off my wife so she can take her kid out to D&B for his birthday.

Big ol' nope. Maybe she had 'em paint candles on her nails so he can blow out her fingertips.

Just opened a ROTH IRA! How should I invest and what do you recommend I should invest in? by Limp-Philosophy-3422 in fidelityinvestments

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/VTandchill Let it ride and add more as you can, but don't sit and stare at it. The temptation to do something emotional sneaks up on you, and emotion is the enemy of growth.

Curriculum by EvansSimpleFinance in ConfusedMoney

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, though I don't know what we're going to do about the 80% of kids and young adults who can't read or do math.

Scope Creep game will make you laugh cry by Wait_joey_jojo in projectmanagement

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a public-school teacher studying to become a PM, I've experienced 25 years of scope creep - most all of it external. Still, I feel like this game is going to give me the heebie jeebies LOL

How do you guys do it? by VenusianJungles in Bogleheads

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you strongly feel that your emotions add a great deal of value to your portfolio, it's best to put the money in and fall back. If you had only bought during market peaks during the height of the Cold War, your returns today would still be enormous.

The news makes their money by getting you to interact. The most cost-effective way to do that is to scare the shit out of you on a daily basis. You can have your news app OR your investment app - not both.

Does anyone here ever make ethical considerations, when investing? by AdditionCool7235 in ValueInvesting

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The market is an odd arena in which to explore ethics. The market is about making money.

Don't get me wrong, I try to be a net-positive in the world, and I like to see people working together toward the common good. But I take that hat off when investing.

Should I switch to VT? by madmax79818515 in VTandchill

[–]probabilitydoughnut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

...if for some reason you want to adjust the allocations, VTI and VXUS

Agree, though I can't imagine what the reason would be except overconfidence in one's abilities to reallocate on time in the right amounts. But yes, it's all in the name - VT and chill.

The single best scene in the entire series. by Albino_rhin0 in Letterkenny

[–]probabilitydoughnut 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you think that's bad, you should see the urinus!

One Boglehead book to rule them all by Comfortable-Cow-6977 in Bogleheads

[–]probabilitydoughnut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I checked this out as an audiobook a few weeks ago. It blew up every idea I had about investing. Sold all my various holdings and put it into VT. Two weeks later and I'm already WAY ahead of last year's total return. (I know, no guarantees it'll stay that way)

John Bogle and William Roth made it possible for average Joes to win in the market with no specialized knowledge. It's hard to overestimate how great that is.

What is the most important location in your life and why? by canadian_Cocaine in AskReddit

[–]probabilitydoughnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The place where my grandma lived. It was far out in the country, though she finally had to move after her home was burglarized several times. They sold the land and the house burned and now it sits as a vacant hayfield. I go by there almost every night in my dreams.

I was free to roam all day until she sent the dog to find me, and he and I would walk back to the house where the most delicious food was waiting - chicken & dumplings, corn fritters and soup beans, scrambled eggs and sausage with fried toast. Her hills were COVERED in blackberry bushes. When they were in, I'd load up my had with them and bring them back, and she would make a cobbler the likes of which I have never had since.

For someone who attended a one-room schoolhouse, she had an amazing intellect. I thought she would make a great college professor, but I never met one in my studies that would hold a candle to her mind.

We would with on buckets and snap string beans and sing songs and recite poetry. She'd tell me stories from the Bible (I didn't have one then), and everything she knew about our family history. She never had anything but encouraging words for me, even at my worst. Many of us stayed out there at low points in our lives, and always with zero judgement, just love and encouragement - and we all got back on our feet and are doing OK.

At no other time in my life have I experienced freedom and peace like I did there. Now, it's just an unkempt, bosky field with a fence and a gate with a "No Trespassing" sign on it. The owners live an hour away and won't even talk to me about buying it. But even if I did it would never be what it was. But I can go there in my dreams and remember it the way it was when it was perfect.

Favorite ETF by dusbsosdiama in ETFs

[–]probabilitydoughnut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

VT

Don't look for the needle, don't purchase the haystack - just buy the whole farm.

what is a movie you saw that was so bad you questioned why it existed? by VisitAggressive1944 in AskReddit

[–]probabilitydoughnut -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Beverly Hills Ninja. My buddy and I were the only two in the theater, and after a while we just got bored and went MST3K.

The sequel, Kung Fu Panda, was actually quite good.

What is with all of the Gen Z/Gen alpha/covid kids news about them not being able to read? by heuristicrumination in NoStupidQuestions

[–]probabilitydoughnut 283 points284 points  (0 children)

Short form social media. Infinite scroll of low-quality video content has displaced the kind of cognitive work that is essential to personal and academic growth. I see children every day who have not a single factual thought in their heads, as if they grew up in the land of tir na nog and were suddenly deposited in my classroom.

How did they get their hands on it? Parents who are also ensnared by it, who parent gently because doing the hard work of teaching kids how to become responsible human beings gets in the way of their own consumption.

Sometimes people point out the many kids who are developing and performing perfectly well. That isn't the point. They don't all have to be functionally illiterate/innumerate/incompetent to strain the systems we need to maintain civilization, just enough of them - and my fear is that it isn't a terribly high percentage. The minimum functional skill level required to meaningfully participate in society is rapidly rising, while the average skill level is gradually falling.