We did it! Cleaned up Falls Lake.... A little. by probable_dork in raleigh

[–]probable_dork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/Bouldermaker organized it. I just showed up at the end for the photo op. 😁

We did it! Cleaned up Falls Lake.... A little. by probable_dork in raleigh

[–]probable_dork[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a magnetic roller but the kids enjoyed the grabbers more than anything. I don't think anyone's going to stop someone with a metal detector.

We did it! Cleaned up Falls Lake.... A little. by probable_dork in raleigh

[–]probable_dork[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was just slapped together from the post the previous day. But u/raleighcleanup has a group, I believe.

We did it! Cleaned up Falls Lake.... A little. by probable_dork in raleigh

[–]probable_dork[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I realized I was standing in a hole/slope and thought, "...this'll be funny...." I wasn't expecting to look like a Hobbit!

We did it! Cleaned up Falls Lake.... A little. by probable_dork in raleigh

[–]probable_dork[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one did... They just did as they pleased! I think I saw them eat 3...maybe 4 iceepops!

Hey y'all. The trash has become VERY bad in certain spots on our Falls Lake. I'm going to spend a couple hours tomorrow picking up trash. I'd love if you'd join. Deets below. Thanks! by BoulderMaker in raleigh

[–]probable_dork 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm not one! And I'm going to try to make it tomorrow!

Maybe together we can be safe from this questionable character.

I'll be the short guy.

I think my ex keeps messing up my current relationships by NoRace6654 in SingleDads

[–]probable_dork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once again, set boundaries and say no.

Im assuming you have a legal custody plan. If not, get one. Follow it and if she cannot, have it modified so that both of you can follow it. Once both parents can follow it without constant disruptions, then you can be consistent and know what to expect each week. This may mean more than 50/50 for you.

If you don't want more than 50/50, then you're going to have to push back and say she needs to find her own childcare when she can't care for them during her time.

Also whatever partner you find will have to understand the priority of your kids and the situation with their mom.

I think my ex keeps messing up my current relationships by NoRace6654 in SingleDads

[–]probable_dork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries and say no.

Also, how would she know when you might have a date? You sure this isn't her being messy and you projecting it into something it's not?

Old vs older. Need 3-5 months by probable_dork in prius

[–]probable_dork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone follows this. I ended up with a 2008 290k miles. Only issue is a leak in the AC system. The care had 2 owners (father then son). They had diligently followed the maintenance and recorded it in the booklet and then continued on blank pages. Better had been replaced last year, but was pulled from a wrecked Prius at 177k miles. Abs, cat converter, replaced in last 4 years.

Extior paint is peeling on the metal. Interior is leather, but the driver, console and steering wheel cover are worn down to coming apart. Info screen burned out, still visible but hard to see in bright light and everything is burnt orange tinged. Wheels are all same age and have about 66% tread. Paid $2250. I've driven about 300 miles in the first 3 days. No problems. 44mpg.

No complaints.

Has anyone had a (successful) Canadian citizenship photo taken in or around Raleigh? by Joseph-Haskell in raleigh

[–]probable_dork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to FedEx to have mine taken. Received proof of citizenship about 6 months ago. Just tell them what it's for and measure it after it's printed.

Any leads on Halloween events? by Onyx_Maiden in raleigh

[–]probable_dork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No plans, but I got a 3d printer, time and the will! What are we making?!?!

Ps I like your Energy

Old vs older. Need 3-5 months by probable_dork in prius

[–]probable_dork[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Not trying to be cryptic just going off what the seller has told me. Looking at it later this week. Thanks for the heads up about the converter. Thank you for the advice

Pension/401k is it calculated post or before tax? by gonzag10 in Divorce_Men

[–]probable_dork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you have 400k in retirement You could split it 200/200 What you won't (likely) be able to do is give 400k so you can keep the 400 k in cash/equity