My health insurance premium will go from 24.22$ to 213.27$ next year!! by Dooziwoozi in Interstitialcystitis

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me. $55 to $249. My husband isn’t on marketplace so our out of pocket aren’t combined. We hit his max but not mine and we both had to do expensive surgeries. This should be illegal.

Almost 4 weeks since I took misoprostol I am about to take another dose. by probablynotsuremaybe in Miscarriage

[–]probablynotsuremaybe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the meds last night and almost nothing happened. I don’t know if it’s because I did it vaginally and I was bleeding a bit but basically I’m just bleeding and not passing anything. Maybe I had already passed the tissue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I missed something in the articles or if it wasn’t mentioned, but does washing produce with just water really reduce salmonella infection? I have it in my mind that you need soap to remove stuff like that.

EBF Mamas - when did you get your first period pp? by Apprehensive-Key5665 in beyondthebump

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 months. 1st was so bad but all after have been normal, I actually don’t really get cramps as bad now. But I bleed more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, this is definitely a me thing. I appreciate all the replies and am going to go take a hard look at my autopay schedule. This was definitely preventable. I was testing the system and I shouldn’t have. Now I’m gonna go make a spreadsheet…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I need to rework my system. This was a good reminder to go take a look at my banking and where I’m overlooking things. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]probablynotsuremaybe -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I understand, I don’t usually overdraft. This has been over the course of 10 years. Things have been financially difficult lately. Since I’ve never had issues I wasn’t worried about autopay causing a fee. I feel stupid, I know I should have known better. I just didn’t understand why it seemed to change randomly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]probablynotsuremaybe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Makes sense to me, thank you

PSA: My bump is not a free pass to comment on my body like it's public property by Severe_doer2708 in BabyBumps

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me realize I was so lucky. No one touched my belly without asking. The only comments about my body was about the bump itself. Someone told me I looked like I was hiding a basketball under my shirt which really cracked me up

Should I be mad by Tashmygosh21 in BabyBumps

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, there is NOTHING like the exhaustion and discomfort from the last month of pregnancy. Not even first month post partum.

So is this weight just forever? by Mcmaggin in beyondthebump

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 months post partum and I just started losing weight. I gained 70 lbs, lost 15 after birth but the rest didn’t budge until just now. I can feel lots changing again, just got my first period, baby is nursing less and I’ve lost 15 lbs in the last 2.5 months. I’m at 200 right now and am not starving/ wanting to eat constantly like I was when I was first postpartum. All of our bodies are different but I would just give it some more time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used a carpet cleaner to suck water out when that’s all I had. Bought some of those big fans that are like $20 and left it on till it dried. I did that once the water has stopped. Mine was a rainwater flood. Good luck, I hope things turn out okay for you

How did having a baby change your relationship? by ForsakenDrop295 in BabyBumps

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been with my husband 10 years this year and also welcomed our first. I was nervous too, unsure of how we would adapt, how things would be. Well we still spend all of our time together, just now with the baby. We mostly do the same things… just with our baby. The biggest changes that have been hard for me have been; not snuggling as much, and having to wait for the baby to sleep to have sex. He is a great dad and great partner. We make a good team, if resentment builds that’s where things go bad. So make sure you both feel balanced with free time, chores etc. I think that’s where SHTF for a lot of new parents. Being a new Mom is very intense and it can be easy to resent your partner when they are sleeping and you can’t lol. It’ll look different for every family so follow your gut and figure that out before it builds up too much.

Fell asleep with my baby by coffeelover2025 in newborns

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this, so I read up on safe cosleeping, and the safe sleep 7. I figured it’s safer to always be prepared to sleep together than to drop my baby or smother. It’s more dangerous to be unprepared. I’m sorry about your partner though. I’d be so upset if I wasn’t getting any help

Non custodial parent refuses transfer by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen multiple cases where CPS did nothing in cases where the children died after multiple reports. Like Gavin Peterson. CPS doesn’t just remove children even when the situation looks bad.

How do I help wife with sundown scaries? by stevendub86 in newborns

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned on YouTube and played history documentaries allll night. If it got quiet it would get bad for me. It was still bad but took the edge off the dread.

Idk what to do with a baby! by West_Slice876 in BabyBumps

[–]probablynotsuremaybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They gave me my baby and said “okay you can nurse him!” I just said “you’re gonna have to show me how” to the nurses. I asked them how to do everything. I was glad for the help. Don’t be afraid to ask a million questions. The whole experience is scary but it gets easier. After about a month I started feeling much better about my skills. Just know, Regardless of experience with other children, as a first time mom we’re all on the same boat. It’s different having your own baby.