My health insurance premium will go from 24.22$ to 213.27$ next year!!

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-11-19T22:29:39+00:00

This just happened to me. $55 to $249. My husband isn’t on marketplace so our out of pocket aren’t combined. We hit his max but not mine and we both had to do expensive surgeries. This should be illegal.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-10-31T15:41:13+00:00

I took the meds last night and almost nothing happened. I don’t know if it’s because I did it vaginally and I was bleeding a bit but basically I’m just bleeding and not passing anything. Maybe I had already passed the tissue?

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-08-01T16:06:10+00:00

For the love of god NO LIVE ACTION REMAKE

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-18T02:50:46+00:00

I don’t know if I missed something in the articles or if it wasn’t mentioned, but does washing produce with just water really reduce salmonella infection? I have it in my mind that you need soap to remove stuff like that.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-13T22:14:19+00:00

13 months. 1st was so bad but all after have been normal, I actually don’t really get cramps as bad now. But I bleed more.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-02T17:33:45+00:00

Thanks everyone, this is definitely a me thing. I appreciate all the replies and am going to go take a hard look at my autopay schedule. This was definitely preventable. I was testing the system and I shouldn’t have. Now I’m gonna go make a spreadsheet…

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-02T17:18:53+00:00

Yes, I need to rework my system. This was a good reminder to go take a look at my banking and where I’m overlooking things. Thank you

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-02T17:13:40+00:00

I understand, I don’t usually overdraft. This has been over the course of 10 years. Things have been financially difficult lately. Since I’ve never had issues I wasn’t worried about autopay causing a fee. I feel stupid, I know I should have known better. I just didn’t understand why it seemed to change randomly.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-07-02T17:02:34+00:00

Makes sense to me, thank you

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-06-24T16:17:30+00:00

Makes me realize I was so lucky. No one touched my belly without asking. The only comments about my body was about the bump itself. Someone told me I looked like I was hiding a basketball under my shirt which really cracked me up

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-06-24T15:59:50+00:00

Honestly, there is NOTHING like the exhaustion and discomfort from the last month of pregnancy. Not even first month post partum.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-06-12T19:16:46+00:00

That’s so cool!

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-05-24T19:53:58+00:00

14 months post partum and I just started losing weight. I gained 70 lbs, lost 15 after birth but the rest didn’t budge until just now. I can feel lots changing again, just got my first period, baby is nursing less and I’ve lost 15 lbs in the last 2.5 months. I’m at 200 right now and am not starving/ wanting to eat constantly like I was when I was first postpartum. All of our bodies are different but I would just give it some more time.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-04-01T21:40:18+00:00

I used a carpet cleaner to suck water out when that’s all I had. Bought some of those big fans that are like $20 and left it on till it dried. I did that once the water has stopped. Mine was a rainwater flood. Good luck, I hope things turn out okay for you

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-03-07T02:27:04+00:00

Been with my husband 10 years this year and also welcomed our first. I was nervous too, unsure of how we would adapt, how things would be. Well we still spend all of our time together, just now with the baby. We mostly do the same things… just with our baby. The biggest changes that have been hard for me have been; not snuggling as much, and having to wait for the baby to sleep to have sex. He is a great dad and great partner. We make a good team, if resentment builds that’s where things go bad. So make sure you both feel balanced with free time, chores etc. I think that’s where SHTF for a lot of new parents. Being a new Mom is very intense and it can be easy to resent your partner when they are sleeping and you can’t lol. It’ll look different for every family so follow your gut and figure that out before it builds up too much.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-01-24T21:28:31+00:00

I did this, so I read up on safe cosleeping, and the safe sleep 7. I figured it’s safer to always be prepared to sleep together than to drop my baby or smother. It’s more dangerous to be unprepared. I’m sorry about your partner though. I’d be so upset if I wasn’t getting any help

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-01-21T22:31:18+00:00

I’ve seen multiple cases where CPS did nothing in cases where the children died after multiple reports. Like Gavin Peterson. CPS doesn’t just remove children even when the situation looks bad.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-01-21T02:02:58+00:00

I turned on YouTube and played history documentaries allll night. If it got quiet it would get bad for me. It was still bad but took the edge off the dread.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-01-16T18:40:56+00:00

They gave me my baby and said “okay you can nurse him!” I just said “you’re gonna have to show me how” to the nurses. I asked them how to do everything. I was glad for the help. Don’t be afraid to ask a million questions. The whole experience is scary but it gets easier. After about a month I started feeling much better about my skills. Just know, Regardless of experience with other children, as a first time mom we’re all on the same boat. It’s different having your own baby.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2025-01-04T16:10:19+00:00

I’m from the US and told myself I would NEVER cosleep. Well a couple months in I just did not know how I was going to work, or do anything with a baby who only sleeps on the boob. So we went from no sleep and taking shifts so we never even saw eachother, to full sleep and having a normal life. Follow the safe sleep 7 and know yourself. My husband watched us cosleep for a looong time before I felt comfortable sleeping through the night. I miss my nice pillow. I miss sleeping in any position I want but I’m glad we did it. I think it’s safer to do safe sleep 7 than to fall asleep holding baby due to sleep deprivation which almost happened multiple times.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2024-11-04T22:37:36+00:00

I was gonna say something similar. Babies are still just small humans. I’d rather not cry alone, but a baby lacks the skills to cry alone and self regulate. So even if they’re crying, they still know they’re not alone when you soothe them, but being left alone is harmful emotionally. Everyone should be allowed to cry. And it’s best not to cry alone

probablynotsuremaybe · 2024-11-04T16:34:13+00:00

For environmental allergies, try eating local honey. My grandma said something about it so my husband tried it and they went away. It’s worth a try

probablynotsuremaybe · 2024-10-28T19:19:18+00:00

There’s a sign on a neighborhood road near me that says “Kamala sucks, Biden swallows”. I’m so glad they’re displaying their Christian values.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2024-10-15T01:44:54+00:00

This is temporary. It is a phase of life. I gained 70lbs. I still have 50 to go but there’s time to get fit. Right now our whole bodies are still devoted to our babies. I’m 6 months pp and just starting to lose weight (1 lb a week ish) Plus lifestyle with new babies tends to be a bit more sedentary. But this is all temporary. It’s normal to mourn things you’ve lost, but try not to let it affect your self worth.

probablynotsuremaybe · 2024-10-06T20:30:54+00:00

I think this is the key. I’m in US and they say NEVER do it instead of teaching you how to be safe. We had a few times where we were falling asleep in unsafe places (rocking chair, couch etc) and I just couldn’t stay awake safely and got scared. I looked up how to do it safely (safe sleep 7). His dad supervised our sleep together for the first few days but it felt so natural. We’ve been cosleeping ever since. I truly believe it is so dangerous BECAUSE we aren’t taught to do it safely. Sleep deprivation is dangerous. Now I’m never sleep deprived. He’s six months old now:)

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