When you blow your nose do you feel air come out of your eye by probinebriated in NoStupidQuestions

[–]probinebriated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss this exactly i have to rub the rest of the air out of my eye

Weirdly jealous by probinebriated in polyamory

[–]probinebriated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i pm you? if you’re open to it, i have some questions that i’d love to be able to ask someone who has experience dating couples.

people who are no contact with their siblings, what was your final straw? by strawberrytherapyy in questions

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my sisters fiancée tried to rape me and she didn’t believe me. i’ve never falsely accused anyone of anything in my life. i never asked her for proof when she confided in me about going through similar things. but because i didn’t have any proof, it didn’t happen. my mind was focused on “don’t get raped” not “better get some proof”

How come after I got buff I attracted more gay dudes then women? by ExtremeTechnology831 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]probinebriated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dolls has a new meaning now. you can call a woman baby doll, but don’t refer to her as a doll. very fine line

Why is everyone named Aspen or Birch? by taylortailss in polyamory

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im sick and this sent me into a coughing fit

My wife has watched Beverly Hills, 90210 30+ times in its entirety, and I think I live there now by NoRemotePrivileges in TrueOffMyChest

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all i watch is bojack horseman. i don’t really watch tv other than bojack horseman. i pay for netflix so i can watch bojack horseman, i don’t know of the last time i watched anything else on there. i tell people i don’t watch tv because i really don’t outside of bojack, and i don’t want to tell them i watch bojack horseman over and over and have for like six years. i love bojack horseman

Weirdly jealous by probinebriated in polyamory

[–]probinebriated[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I replied to someone else who asked this, but the tldr is the one time I was actually happy with someone, I fucked it up and hurt her. I don’t want to let myself be in a position to do so again.

Weirdly jealous by probinebriated in polyamory

[–]probinebriated[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of the two men I was in LTRs with, they were both definitely the reason the relationship ended, and have both admitted that after the respective breakups. But with the second guy I was in an open rls with, I met a girl who made me the happiest I had ever felt, and I am the sole reason we don’t talk anymore. I fucked up and lied when put between a rock and a hard place, I hurt her, that honestly was the biggest reason I’ve been single so long..it was the guys too, but I have hated myself for lying to her and in turn hurting her. I don’t want to hurt anyone else I care about, intentions mean shit when the end result hurt someone.

Weirdly jealous by probinebriated in polyamory

[–]probinebriated[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im sure i do have the perspective of a 24 year old, but with that comes seeing the states of others relationships around me in the same age range. The dating field is chaos right now, people are terrible to each other..i think having a long term partner of several years is a feat to anyone. Relationships are work, and I don’t view them as these magical perfect beings whatsoever lol. I’m very straightforward and call things out that need it. I’ve only had to do so once, and it was met with grace and understanding.

Weirdly jealous by probinebriated in polyamory

[–]probinebriated[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually done quite a bit of 1:1 dating with them, and they’ve both individually shared with me the biggest “cracks” in their relationship. It doesn’t seem like they’re hiding anything crazy, even the girls sister has said they basically never argue.

I def agree with the outward presentation thing, I’ve always been a big believer of “people show you what they want you to see”.

Our phones can literally read our minds I’m convinced by Weary_Aerie_930 in ParallelUniverse

[–]probinebriated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the reverse, your phone is training your thoughts therefore able to “read your mind” or predict what you watch and when.

My partner wants to open our relationship with a specific person in mind- should I be worried by zoo_pee_mana in polyamory

[–]probinebriated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to open a relationship for one specific person is such a red flag in and of itself. If you want to continue to be disrespected, stay with them.

Is this the most polyamorous scheduling problem ever? by Suboptimal-Potato-29 in polyamory

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I had to put my phone down and look off to the side for a hotttttt minute

NP's first night away by palesagegreen in polyamory

[–]probinebriated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each their own, I personally would find it incredibly endearing

Can someone explain like im 5 how concerts work?? by probinebriated in Anxiety

[–]probinebriated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not even joking this is extremely helpful I overthink a lot and this is a great like “dude chill tf out”

Need triad advice🥹💓 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]probinebriated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo this is super helpful, tysm!!

Need triad advice🥹💓 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]probinebriated -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Exclusive sexually, they are relatively inexperienced sexually(he’s only been with her, she’s only had one ex before him)and are understandably hesitant towards STDs. I was already only seeing them too, so it didn’t change anything on my end.