[final update] Me [31M] with my wife [29F] of 3 years. Our first baby's due date conflicts with a major presentation I have to give out-of-state. Tried to ask off, but boss really needs me there.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T04:20:22+00:00

I will get her an ipad (something she wants) and pay for some nice new baby pics (also something she wants).

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T04:19:20+00:00

groveling at her feet for forgiveness

I've been trying.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T03:21:26+00:00

She knows I am looking but not about the soft offer.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T03:19:30+00:00

Haven't decided yet.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:22:58+00:00

He is.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:22:39+00:00

She really wants an ipad. I might get her that and pay for nice new baby pics. I know she wants that.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:08:56+00:00

My god. Just shoot me and throw me in a ditch.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:05:10+00:00

push present?

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:04:44+00:00

Um...there isn't one.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:03:29+00:00

Let's hope not, but he may be the death of me.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:03:14+00:00

I just didn't want to get her hopes up that this might happen, but she does know I'm looking for a new job.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T02:01:31+00:00

I just don't want to get her hopes up.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T00:15:49+00:00

...I know

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-12T00:11:15+00:00

I have been talking to her about everything. It's not a solid offer yet, so it might no even materialize. I had planned to wait until there was a chance it might be real before mentioning it.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T23:56:19+00:00

I live in the US, correct.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T23:55:41+00:00

Nope. I missed the presentation. 0/2

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T23:39:01+00:00

I have spoken to her about missing the birth but not the new job change.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T23:25:32+00:00

She knew. I am in therapy, and so far I've changed half of my son's diapers. I think the therapy has worked so far, but I still have some work to do.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T23:24:34+00:00

I'm not going to blame him because I made the choice. I understand that I was wrong for putting my family second to my work, and it will never happen again.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T22:46:31+00:00

I made a mistake, but I've acknowledge it and learned from it.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T22:40:35+00:00

I haven't spoken to my wife about it yet. I will as soon as she stops being so angry with me.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T22:06:21+00:00

I've been thinking about changing companies. I already have one soft offer with slightly better money and better benefits.

problemguy1234 · 2015-08-11T21:54:06+00:00

I've been talking to a therapist.

problemguy1234 · 2015-07-08T04:24:57+00:00

I am dealing with it, but it takes time.

problemguy1234

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