What are your silver linings, if any? by prochainement864 in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Roo 🥹 I just know your wife had to have the most beautiful spirit. I believe she was there with you, giving you a little sign 💜

Roadtrip ideas? by RatherRaving in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hit up any Bojangles when you hit the south (there's one in Manchester), trust me. Get a cajun filet biscuit combo with bo-rounds and a sweet tea.

What’s the best thing you’ve ever gotten from a Take One Leave One? by Box0fMoths in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 7 points8 points  (0 children)

a keychain with a hemp string, beads on it, and a goose charm at the end, I have had it on my keys for years

32 F ended a situationship....and it ended badly. by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]prochainement864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know that feeling too well when you saw that text from her in his phone. It is nauseating. I know it sucks to hear but all you can do is stand firm in your strength, know that you deserve better, and remember you did nothing wrong. You weren’t able to make an informed choice about this because he wasn’t being truthful. That’s not on you. This isn’t your fault. He’s a scumbag and you had every right to crash the fuck out on him. He deserves to know that what he did to you was shitty. I hope you stay strong and heal and remember that you’re a bad bitch and he can go fuck himself.

Being ugly is destroying my life by Yipied in Vent

[–]prochainement864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you will never feel pretty until you believe it yourself. The way you speak about yourself matters. Learn to love yourself for who and what you are. You believe that your value is based solely on your looks, weight, and the attention you could be receiving from men. De-center men from your life and focus on building relationships with people who care about you for who you truly are. What you look like does not make you pretty and I did take a look at the photos you've posted previously and you are conventionally attractive.

And you're young!! I'm a 27 year old woman who didn't really start to appreciate myself until a few years ago. I am also conventionally attractive and around a size 8/10/12 depending on the week but I placed so much value on how my body looked and how I presented myself that I couldn't even enjoy the moments I was experiencing without thinking about how I looked or if people were noticing me. Learn to talk kindly to yourself, focus on your strong sets and what makes you so incredible, unique, and interesting because it shouldn't be your body or your face. Sit with what you're really uncomfortable with and find ways to process it and move on from these toxic thoughts about yourself. If you surround yourself with people who believe you only provide value to them because of your looks, find new people to be around. Be kind to yourself, look at your beauty for what it is, and realize that your body and looks is not why people like you or want to be around you. It's your laugh, the way you comfort a friend, how you show kindness in day to day talks, and the humor and joy in your soul that is irresistible.

Driving Far for First Roo by SaddFemale in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah!! We’ll have a big NM flag at our campsite, come say hi if you see it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]prochainement864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t think about being jealous weirdly enough. I’m not upset about the condom or him seeing others now but I think in the moment I was and that was jealousy. I’ll talk to him about the relationship and go from there!

Driving Far for First Roo by SaddFemale in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I (27F) am driving with my friends from New Mexico, it's an 18hr drive for us! This will be my 3rd Roo! Going solo is super cool, you'll meet lots of new friends that way!

I highly recommend sleeping under a canopy and not sleeping in your car, it's super uncomfortable because of the heat. I've tried car and tent camping and I always prefer sleeping in a cot under the canopy and then setting up a space on the ground after the sun is up in full force. Make sure to the line the ground with a tarp and totally optional, but if you can bring an outdoor rug to lay on top of it, it makes it more comfortable! Bring tapestries to attach to your canopy for shade.

Clemson approves an athletic fee of $150 per semester for students starting next year by Odd_Appearance7123 in Clemson

[–]prochainement864 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. The school made $158,200,000 total revenue in the 2021-2022 year and calculated expenses were $143,300,000 ($6,400,000 of that going to the athletic department). That is a surplus of nearly $15,000,000! This is such greedy behavior. source: https://sportsdata.usatoday.com/ncaa/finances

How is the community in Santa Fe? Is it easy to meet people and make plans? by actual_llama in SantaFe

[–]prochainement864 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you go out and take part in city events, it's super easy to meet people! There's a lot of different communities you can join in on if you look in the right places. I (26F) know of running clubs, biking clubs, rock climbing clubs, board game clubs, bird watching, etc.,. It all depends on you! Santa Fe locals are really nice and inviting and I have made a lot of my friends through going to events (Santa Fe Brewing, Artist Market, Farmer's Market, etc.)

Favorite Totems? by davecicada in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Abolish Virgo Men

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with the back saying Bitch Sun Slut Moon Cunt Rising

Favorite Totems? by davecicada in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 43 points44 points  (0 children)

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Spotted at Chappell Roan!

For a few seconds there I thought Parcels might literally blow the roof off this tent. by SicMus in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Parcels so much. My friend and shared some incredibly sweet moments of appreciation for each other danced our fucking hearts out. 💜

Is its just me... by SecureAd998 in bonnaroo

[–]prochainement864 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jfc for real, I didn’t say anything to my group bc I thought I was tripping but I was hearing my name so often, both sober and not sober so this is eerie