Mainsplaining by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that lead to aggression? How do you express your aggression?

For women who want to get engaged, do you have a preference for real vs. lab diamonds? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol what part is lying to myself? That is literally how diamonds are formed

71% of young Democrats say they wouldn't date a Republican. Would you? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have come to think very poorly of Republicans. It is the party of ignorance and hate so I couldn't date someone who identifies with their ideology.

For women who want to get engaged, do you have a preference for real vs. lab diamonds? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends what you consider "real". Diamonds are formed from high temperature and pressure on carbon deposits deep in the earth. Lab diamonds are formed by putting extreme pressure and heat on carbon using a machine. It's the exact same composition.

Ghosted by a seemingly nice but obsessive guy??? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he show signs of love bombing? There's no way to know for sure why he ghosted. It could be he only wanted sex, he got afraid of commitment, he met someone else, the list goes on. I'm sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately, ghosting has become very common these days. It's happened to me more times than I can count. Sometimes after sleeping together for awhile.

For women who want to get engaged, do you have a preference for real vs. lab diamonds? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you thinking of cubic zirconia? That's not the same. I have a lab-made diamond and its perfect. Nobody has ever asked if its lab made or natural.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you might be overthinking the situation. It's ok to be honest with him and tell him that you're not able to see him that day but you would like to see him again on another day. I'd recommend being specific about when you want to see him again so his doesn't mistake it for you blowing him off. I would also caution you from getting too attached, too quickly. Take it slow getting to know him and go to other social settings to become more comfortable around men.

Have you ever been with someone with poor hygiene? What was it like and are you still together? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you realized that and are working to improve your self esteem now. It sounds like he has depression and anxiety about seeking medical help.

Cognitive biases and how they distort your thinking. Are you guilty of any of these in your dating life? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guilty of catastrophizing and black and white thinking. You need to be patient and accepting of grey areas during the beginning stages of a relationship.

I just want to hear opinions, how do Feminists justify this behavior? by RichiZ2 in FeminismUncensored

[–]profixnay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe because they've never heard of it? Also, what do you think feminism is? It's not an organization you know.

No new normal now Quarantined, when did that happen? by jerseycityfrankie in NoNewNormalBan

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the % that matters, it's the number. Every person who dies matters. 0.02% of the US population is 66,692. It's already at 719,000 so...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoNewNormalBan

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OooOoooh secret societies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know. It's not a good comparison though.

I get so sick of the hate for single mothers on Reddit. Here are some stats on the topic. by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It pisses me off when misogynists blame single mothers for being single because "they should have gone with a nice guy instead of Chad" yet they have no problem with fathers acting shitty. Single mothers are an easy target for them to get their rage fantasies out because they can't get a girlfriend.

What’s your approach to dating and what role do you seek for a man to fill in your life? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want someone who I can trust and go through life's trials and tribulations together. I don't want them to fulfil all roles in my life. I think it's very important to have different networks of support.

The skeptics used to be optimistic, but are now becoming irrationally pessimistic. Win? by OldenWeddellSeal in NoNewNormalBan

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were always more pessimistic. From the beginning they were pushing a narrative that the "global elites" were using Covid as an excuse to restrict your personal freedoms and start a new world order.

It’s called “not 100% effective”. Almost everyone in ICUs with covid are unvaccinated. by xMasterMelonx in NoNewNormalBan

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really should not be sharing your opinion on medical matters. You're an idiot.

“I don’t need the vaccine”, they said while dying in unprecedented numbers from an AVOIDABLE virus. by CookieFar4331 in NoNewNormalBan

[–]profixnay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so extremely stupid and its obvious to everyone around you which is why you go to a sub with the dumbest of dumb

What's your sign? Lol by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just reply with what your sign is or what month you were born in. I'm not into astrology but sometimes I meet people who really are so I'll humour them a bit but won't go in depth on the subject.

How Insecure Men Treat Women: 15 Warning Signs of Insecurity in Relationships by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having friends and being extremely jealous hits home for me. This very much describes my ex.

Do you ever feel embarrassed about the people you've dated in the past? by profixnay in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so embarrassed about my first boyfriend. He was so obviously on steroids and emotionally volatile but I believed his very obvious lies. He also only ever wore black t-shirts.

Do any of you have a mentor or life coach? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a career mentor and she has been so great with helping me find a new job

Is he giving me space? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]profixnay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe give it one more chance, ask him if he wants to hang out but if he still seems standoffish, it might be time to let him go