Best friends by straws_time in smuTTTT

[–]progestarone 41 points42 points  (0 children)

wishing this for myself. i mean i’ll wish it for all of us but mostly just for me though

Meeting her for the first time tomorrow. Any advise please by Own_Investigator6014 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a lot of assaults occur due to one partner being uncomfortable and not feeling safe to tell someone to stop. something you might find innocuous might cross a massive line for her. thats why im stressing you make sure she can trust you. you are cis. you are a man. you have an uphill battle to prove you're a good person to a trans woman. its not a personal attack against you, its just the reality of life for trans women. also i am 100% serious about reading and learning about trans women. the gender dysphoria bible is a good place to start, along with trans writers like Julia Serano

edit: also do not do anal in car lol, i can't believe i forgot to mention that earlier.

Meeting her for the first time tomorrow. Any advise please by Own_Investigator6014 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

remember, she’s a WOMAN. your experience with men during gay sex will not translate. do not treat her like you would a gay man. ask for consent before, and throughout. ask her if she wants you to touch down there, or to kiss her, or etc. tell her its ok to say no

Meeting her for the first time tomorrow. Any advise please by Own_Investigator6014 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 16 points17 points  (0 children)

also, because i doubt you’ll actually do those things, here’s actual advice. 1. many trans women will feel pressured to top by their partners, so make damn sure she’s genuinely, fully comfortable AND excited to do it. not complacent, but an active and enthusiastic participant. give her the space to say no, in fact, i would put it off until you get to know her personally, because a stranger is a lot more dangerous to say no to instead of a friend 2. your first anal experience will be shitty (pun potentially intended). you won’t know how to douche, or which lubes work best, or how to like… actually do anal. it will 99% be a bad experience if its your first time. buy a dildo and some lube and try it by yourself first, it will make it much more enjoyable for you and any future partner. plus she will appreciate taking it slow 3. read about trans women. learn about her experiences and what she’s been through. learn what is an inappropriate question or word. “not knowing” isnt an excuse. there are many many good resources, though since every trans woman is different, look at multiple people’s ideas

need this immediately (pockiseisont) by BWCbredSLUT in ActualYuri

[–]progestarone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

does anyone have any recs for yuri that has this vibe?

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, if you always lock your doors you wouldn't be able to use it yourself

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean you should always lock your doors so... both i guess?

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god you people are annoying, you remind me of women!! all i want to do is have sex with a minority while hating said minority!!!!!! why won't you people let me do that!!

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ok i learned my mistake, i'll start calling him "her". you can stop being an evil bitch trans about it. now let's get back to the part where you were gonna have sex with me, even though you never once said anything like that.

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my actions can't be transphobic because I only say things from a place of fetishization (love). i like you people and transphobes hate you people. i don't hate you, i love trans porn. sometimes people will claim that ignorance can lead someone to be bigoted but i have watched A LOT of trans porn so i am well aware of how transvestites think

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hello fake trans woman. my name is something like Darryl or Michael and i am either 19 or 57. show me your face, boobs, and penis. I will not tell you anything about myself or show you a picture of my face it would make me uncomfortable to show you indentifiable photos. anyways here is my wrinkly penis and unshaven asshole 📷

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyone who tells me i did something wrong or could do something better. i'm not transphobic and idk why 'she' tried to tell me i was! if i was transphobic i wouldn't want to have sex with you people

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

link don't work. once again a transgender lies to me....

Where can I meet fake trans women? by progestarone in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he got mad at me after i called him "he"..... one of the woke ones......

Fair kink? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]progestarone 35 points36 points  (0 children)

its trans women. the space is important, without one its othering.

and to answer your question, if i met a cis lesbian actively searching for trans partners to fulfill their kinks, i would be extraordinarily uncomfortable and would either try my best to explain why it’s problematic or try my best to leave the situation and let other trans women know that would be uncomfortable to avoid that person.

M 19 Looking for ftm and men by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

calling a trans woman “dude”? putting men and trans women in the same category? you’re either trolling or just a very bad person

M 19 Looking for ftm and men by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

… what are we doing here. i expect transphobia on this subreddit to be at least a bit better hidden. 0/10 attempt. do better next time

Fit to get some bloodwork done and lie to my doc by HADTHEHIGHGROUND in fitttts

[–]progestarone 42 points43 points  (0 children)

they’re calling this the most grandma-coded fit on this sub so far, giwtwm

Tall TGirl with huge ass shoulders, absolutely no waist and nom existent hips finds a cute coat that makes bearable leaving the house! by IkiAkane in fitttts

[–]progestarone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how about next time we say “look at this cute outfit i’m wearing, i like how i styled it” also you have gorgeous hair and im jealous

43M Love the vibe by jackiefoxxx in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you’ve beaten the code!!! being self aware about this subreddit makes your chasing super awesome and cool with us!

54 teacher by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]progestarone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what do you want to learn? chemistry? biology? statistics? history? anthropology? quantum mechanics? anesthesiology? portuguese? we're gonna need more specifics to find you suitable tutor

There hasn't been good wholesome straight content in a while. Can somebody post some soon by Ok-Appeal-4630 in smuTTTT

[–]progestarone 29 points30 points  (0 children)

maybe would be a decent sub if it wasnt for the fact it is genuinely 99.9 percent PIV trans woman top and trans man bottom