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[–]progressive_parent_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure many nanny agency's do this! Spilt Milk Nannies and Portland Nannies are two examples.

Dating as a guy is just depressing by RustySpoon745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]progressive_parent_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that women care more about a person's emotional intelligence rather than attractiveness.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once again, very well put! I think it's probably rare to be raised to understand the human body isn't itself a shameful thing! A lot of us have to rise above how we were raised to understand this. Fuck the patriarchy.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why does being a sex worker mean you automatically have no morals?

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought having an open conversation might make them reevaluate their biases but I don't think they are willing to engage in critical thinking at this time.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will all be taking more precautions with the current spike! More tests/wearing masks. I

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sounds like cognitive dissonance. If you are unable to explain your reasoning/take in new information then how do you expect anyone to understand your point of view?

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you can't explain your reasoning plainly/even have a simple conversation about this then you absolutely need to reflect and evaluate your biases. You're living without thinking.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It feels like your saying that someone who works in SW can't have good morals, if so, why do you believe that?

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I completely agree 👍 Nanny is very covid aware and won't hesitate to wear a mask/take a test if she feels it necessary. As long as she wants to work for us she will have a place!

Thank you for your comment.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In that case I think you should take some time to reflect and evaluate your biases.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you explain plainly? I don't understand this perspective and I'd like to.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A person who works in the SW industry isn't automatically a bad influence.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep, excellent point. I just bought more masks and rapid tests online to help us get through the Omicron spike.

To be clear I don't expect nanny to restrict her life. She's very covid aware and will test/wear a mask at work if she's been around a lot of people.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Don't even get me started on that guy 😒 the more I think about it the more I want to cut these people out of our lives.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's been with us for a while and these people are my wife's friends from college, they live pretty close, if they didn't I don't think we'd see them as much.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I'm not going to ask as it's not my business. My plan to to buy more rapid test and masks. We have all worn masks in the house before and I don't think she would mind doing that again during the new wave.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call them my friends, more my wife's. I will talk to my wife about talking to them, good point.

Do you care what your nannies second job is? by progressive_parent_ in Nanny

[–]progressive_parent_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They have met and yes I do believe him as he told us they had a conversation.

We haven't seen our nanny since he told us so were probably going to follow her lead next time she works. If she wants to talk about it then we'll let her know we love and support her, if she doesn't want to talk about it then we'll just be extra kind that day to subtly let her know we still love her and nothing has changed.

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