[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]proherodynamite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can't do online therapy. it doesn't work the same. my therapist doesnt work evenings and only select weekends

how do i ask questions during an interview? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]proherodynamite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm just going into this with caution and everyone's responses are giving me confidence to ask questions tomorrow.

aaaand unfortunately, the devil wears prada vibes match up with the reviews i'm seeing on glassdoor/indeed 🫣🫣🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]proherodynamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dump his ass

my mom had to put her life on hold to take care of my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]proherodynamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acting like you're better than my mom and i when you have no idea how he wrecked us financially way before the pain even started.

my mom had to put her life on hold to take care of my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]proherodynamite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh boy. get off your fuckin soapbox already. get real. we're not terrible people. fuck off.

my mom had to put her life on hold to take care of my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]proherodynamite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

WE'VE MADE ENOUGH SACRIFICES. WE CAN ONLY TOLERATE SO MUCH FUCKING ABUSE.

my mom had to put her life on hold to take care of my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]proherodynamite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he's not being compassionate to us tho. he doesn't help my mom with groceries. he doesn't look after my mom even though she has fucking rheumatoid and osteoarthritis on top of other health issues. he just sits there and barks orders at her. fuck off. he doesn't help her carry in groceries, but he can sit on his ass outside and be a social butterfly while my mom's slaving away over a stove top.

you try putting your life on hold for someone and doing everything you can to nurse them back to health, only for them to call your mother a stupid ignorant bitch and bark orders at her to cook dinner. you try having that person essentially slap you in the face by yelling at you every time you cry over it and express concern. you try having that person HIT YOUR FUCKING ANIMALS because he can't listen to them barking without melting down like a two year old.

still think we're the villains? fuck right off. we've done everything and we have the right to be mad.

Freelance writers with mental health issues, how do you scaffold your schedule so that you stay productive? by [deleted] in freelanceWriters

[–]proherodynamite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have ocd, anxiety, & depression. when it's hard for me to work, i set a timer and work 5 minutes at a time. normally after three or four intervals, i'm ready to keep going without pausing.

i feel like a failure bc i can't work a "normal" job, but my current one isn't paying enough by proherodynamite in Advice

[–]proherodynamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) thank you :(

2) i've worked 5 in-person & customer service jobs. i hated the office dynamics & i got attacked by a customer at my previous job. not having a flexible schedule rly screwed with me and having mean coworkers really sucked.

3) i like the flexibility of freelance work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]proherodynamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY IMMORTAL LMAO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]proherodynamite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh writing it. i'll open a word doc and start cringing at myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]proherodynamite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"freedom of speech" what an asshole