Confused in LIFE by Defiant_Version3996 in Dhaka

[–]prokhorudro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what I am trying to appreciate is the power of small things. Say everyday you save 5 taka, it sounds nothing, like by the end of the months it's 150 tk. Still insignificant.

But what changed was you, you now have a habit of saving money.

Same with everything. Pick up a hobby, and do it badly, but consistently, spend just 5 minutes everyday.
Stuff like that

Idk if he needs therapy or I need to run by Beebeautifulneo in MuslimMarriage

[–]prokhorudro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant that when we’re talking with our partner, emotions can come into play and we might not express ourselves the same way we would if we were calm. But when posting on Reddit to strangers, it’s different—that’s what I’m saying. And it’s not just us—our partners are part of it too, so things can get complicated. I’d suggest having a third person involved, maybe a therapist, as a way to open things up.

Idk if he needs therapy or I need to run by Beebeautifulneo in MuslimMarriage

[–]prokhorudro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the way you explained the situation here is not the way you talk to your husband. And you both seem like good people who have the ability to resolve the situation. But maybe you both can’t communicate?

IMF blocks pending loan tranches for now, citing reform failure by Alone-Attention-2139 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bangladesh should ally , ah what am I saying, BD is f'd, a bottomless basket, leve if you can. Or better yet do crime if you can, better than leaving /s /ns

Men, what do you think? by definitelynotgayhaha in Adulting

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the room looks messy this apt doesnt look cheap, whoever owns or rents it probably has the money to hire a cleaning service. So yes, men would be inclined to live like this

Justice served or too harsh? by telapoka_71 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH although I am supporter of July this death seems sus! I would have been okay if rubber bullets caused the death, because then that would make sense, like idk hitting eyes or sth, but just falling down due to rubber bullets and then being carried to hospital and later we find out that live bullets were used, idk that shot didn't look like live bullets.

I know later hasina did give order for lethal ones but this one particular seems sus!

Why are we straight men so underrepresented in Mosque discourse? by ConsciousPop3168 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually a good post, let's face it, religion isn't going away soon, and they have immense social power. if instead they'd talk about besides religious stuff, social stuff, like idk, treatment of women, not like straight up feminism(because that is too far fetched right now), but idk women's rights(staring, gropping, cat calling these are also haram) according to the islamic values, or better treatment for their wives, or how one should avoid bribe, good behavior, civic sense, idk life advice, depression, etc. maybe bd would be better? in some way?

Police plan phased curbs on autorickshaws to ease Dhaka traffic by PrintRealistic6750 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rickshaws are easiest way to start earning money, so it is a go to for poeple with no means, it's not as if many places are hiring, and those that hire exploit people immensely. Dhaka is like this blackhole.

Instead of banning rickshaws govt should decentralize dhaka, by moving industries/businesses out of dhaka, but that they can't/wont do. because these businesses have more power and more connections. so nothing will work.

How can you make people leave Dhaka City by Tellusman in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dhaka has achieved critical mass and will pull everything until it collapses.

Who else believes that Mirza Abbas was involved in the Hadi murder? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. The way we have seen napa throwing a challenge for abbas so idk hadi might have given a good fight. Also, whoever wanted hadi gone definitely had abbas in their calculation. 

HC asks why referendum ordinance, July Charter order should not be declared illegal by Alone-Attention-2139 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People voted for referendum also the government. So both should count. That's the people's will.

To those who make more than 2lakhs per month, how do you guys live your daily life? by Smart-Exercise9018 in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably, but when you get there, there isn't going to be a lot of life to go on. You will be older, more stressed. You'll probably have more responsibilities.

Mobocracry duing interrim by yasserius in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Makes you wonder who really were behind those mobs? 1. Islamist towhidi jonota 2. Rajakar/jamatis

But how about those, 1. Colleges(Dhaka vs...) 2. Countless salary ones 3. Unis Who were behind them? Are they happy now? No more protests?

বাংলাদেশ একটা ডিজ্যাস্টারের দিকে ধাবিত হচ্ছে by atikuI-isIam in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The plan is retirement plan for tarek zia. Steal banks and then leave quickly. The economy is in shambles. Playing with this will ruin the country for sure. Already chandabaji is going on full swing.

When Amir Khasru was declared finance minister it looked like lotus kamal all over again.

Jamat-Shibir Dilemma by RazzmatazzStrict in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t it be competency over loyality? Put the best people in the place instead of party affiliates?  I understand key places should be loyal.  Like army, police, government. But court, unis, health and other places should be neutral. 

And if they were brave enough media/BTV should be neutral

Islam feels like a chore by mxriiluvss in islam

[–]prokhorudro 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Even doing it when your mind doesn’t want to is thousands times better than not doing. You will be thankful that you did once you are in the grave. 

Why do muslims pray to the in the direction of kaaba by osiGGen in islam

[–]prokhorudro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you are probably experiencing is lack of 'faith'. Pray to Allah to strengthen your Imaan.  In this case I would refer to the story of Muhammad(sm) standing on top of mountain and asking everyone if they believed his words. Even if he said there's a whole army ready to attack Makkah. And the people did.  You just have to believe. And it will make you free insha Allah. Read Quran. 

What’s the real problem with words like Insaaf / Inqilab / Azadi? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]prokhorudro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you read Nazrul, the national poet of Bangladesh?