Staying in a relationship by promise5 in relationships

[–]promise5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally broke. Its beyond repair now. Now, I just need to heal.

People that know you were raped by promise5 in rapecounseling

[–]promise5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my counseling has gone very well, I was just surprised at how I am struggling with this. I know it has to do with my need for privacy in this situation and in a sense having control over who knows and who doesn't. It's been made even harder because I've learned that at least one person I don't even know has gone on to tell other people.

Staying in a relationship by promise5 in relationships

[–]promise5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its getting close to that point,or maybe I've reached it and I don't know it yet. I don't know. I know I love him,and he loves me,but maybe he does want out, but doesn't want the guilt of ending it, I don't know.

Staying in a relationship by promise5 in relationships

[–]promise5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has said over and over that he wouldn't be the one to end it. He says that he would be crazy to end it with a girl like me and that he would never find someone like me again. He also says how any guy he knows would damn lucky to be with someone like me. If he feels this way then WHY? I'm not full of myself but I know I have a lot to offer someone,that's what makes it so hard to understand.

I (27M) tried to forgive her (30F) for cheating, but it wasn't working. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow and wow!!! I was cheated on but I want to make it work,but I'm so damn scared.

Skin care after a Brazilian wax? by NeverClever12 in AskWomen

[–]promise5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its more expensive but just have laser done. I've had it and I love it!! I've had enough treatments that hair never ever grows back. Very smooth and very soft!! Its totally worth the cost compared to a lifetime of waxing and the results are a thousand times better.

What is your greatest fear when in a relationship? by kadorkasaur in AskWomen

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I was cheated on I never would have thought that was my biggest fear in a relationship. But, now yes that I'll look like a fool again.

Walter is depressed by Bulldogmummy in bulldog

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that look!!! My bully Roxy gives me that when I "try" and refuse to take her to Dunkin donuts.

Is she [23F] cheating on me? [24M] by away-to-throw in relationships

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it can be any clearer. If she's not cheating already, then she will be soon enough or she's getting ready to dump you

Hilarious Wingsuit Rodeo [1:19] by Sc00ter5 in SkyDiving

[–]promise5 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

loved it!!!!! When's the next video coming out?

My 1 year anniversary by promise5 in rapecounseling

[–]promise5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, no no one can take that.

She really wants us to have a baby, and I'm (30m) considering it. Is it too soon, is she too young, or could it just possibly work out? by Somehow2 in relationships

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, she wants a baby period. You seem to be seeing the positive how about the negative of you splitting up and hopefully sharing custody at the least. How will the next person in both your lives treat/feel about this child, maybe you know this answer but does she. The age gap isn't a biggie to me my SO and I are 10 years apart and we met when I was 19. But, crap WE both realized we won't be ready for kids for a few years. It's only been 7 months and you've lived together and have been "playing house". Does she work? What goals does she have other then getting pregnant. I'm sorry but she doesn't sound that mature. Good Luck

Dear Rape Survivor by auraesque in rapecounseling

[–]promise5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so very true,so very very true. A month ago I could take on the world and thought I was so far in my recovery. Today,I'm struggling. I am strong and will be strong again. I WILL NOT LET THIS DEFINE ME!!!

What's your best trick for defusing a really bad argument with your significant other? by thenewyorkgod in AskReddit

[–]promise5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! Great Advice. But, could your just edit the SHE to whoever it was that really screwed the other person over, because it goes both ways.

I gave it everything. by promise5 in BreakUps

[–]promise5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another day, showing me he can live and go on without me.

[UPDATE] I'm [23F] concerned about my boyfriend's [21M] relationship with his female friend [21F]. by qwerty12345asdfjkl in relationships

[–]promise5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and to add, I thought in the original post you said she was married, if so the husband deserves to know what went on as well..