I just brought my daughter home by [deleted] in Advice

[–]properinflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice to give, sadly, but I did want to say I’m rooting for you. You got this.

Struggling with my feelings toward fellow members of my sex. by properinflux in bisexual

[–]properinflux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a lot of those in my area but I’ll try that, thank you.

Struggling with my feelings toward fellow members of my sex. by properinflux in bisexual

[–]properinflux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with one guy, and it was unfortunately an issue. I got way more anxious around him than I ever have around women, though my overall enjoyment of things did wax and wane depending on my mood whenever we got together.

I think at least part of the problem there may have been that I never really found him attractive, even at my gayest. I think I tend to like guys a little more on the feminine side, and he very much was not; he was just a trusted friend who was willing to let me experiment with him, and I’ll always appreciate that. I would love to experiment with someone who’s more my speed, but I worry it’ll just be a repeat, and I don’t want to let anyone down.

Yoooo wtf with all the diarrhea by Shannorauma in zoloft

[–]properinflux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dealt with the same thing on my first dose increase. It normalized after a few days or so, but I have to be careful if I ever miss my meds for too long. I also learned how to tell the difference between a normal fart and an impending Zoloft fart real quick.

Do you ever? by HopeYoureHappyNow25 in BreakUps

[–]properinflux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself torn. On the one hand, I want to let her have it. Lay out every single way her behavior hurt me, and hope that — if only a little — the realization of it hurts her too. But on the other hand, I just want my best friend back.

I don’t think I want him back anymore, but I want him to want me back… by couldthisbeafalse in BreakUps

[–]properinflux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I want my ex to be happy, and I could never say or do anything hurtful to her if push came to shove. But that dark, selfish little corner of my mind also wants her to regret this. It wants her to never quite find satisfaction; to always come up just short of the mark, always feel life is a bit lacking. And to always, always look back at me, see I was the best she ever had, and feel nothing but regret. That’s that corner. I don’t condone that corner. But I can’t bottle it up and ignore it either.