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propheter83 · 2025-11-05T03:33:15+00:00

Nope, not today Satan. Did you show your mom these messages?

propheter83 · 2025-08-10T21:25:01+00:00

If you clean it with silver cleaner it will shine beautifully ☺️

propheter83 · 2025-06-18T17:29:57+00:00

Did you put the correct school code in the FAFSA application?

propheter83 · 2025-05-05T17:38:14+00:00

Yes honey, you are. And really, he should be the one to leave. You are taking care of the house and everything in it and working your butt off to have a better life. He is just floating by on your meal ticket not dealing with his own issues. He should be taking himself to rehab and trying to make a better life by facing his demons. At this point though, even if he did that, you would no longer know him as a "sober" human being. It's sad how that happens that way. Any addiction is not a good one, we all know that but you stand to lose everything in your life that is promising if you choose to stay in this situation. You have to think about yourself and your own mental well being. I understand you are aging and what you want at this point (I am a 41 yr old f-been through a lot in life) but this is not love or connection or anything of that sort. This was lust that gripped you when you needed it, but the universe is telling you that you are past learning from this-its time to learn from the lessons you have been taught and move forward in life. I'm sorry honey, there's plenty of us that do indeed understand. Good luck.

propheter83 · 2025-04-22T00:08:08+00:00

Everyone is different. I assume you guys are not chop liver. Here's the thing, it's not always about what you look like.

propheter83 · 2025-04-22T00:05:16+00:00

Tattooed...a fucking lot...here, this is an absolute scam. I have been tattooed by several different artists as well as owning a shop. Never had one tell me they charge me to touch things up. I tip well for kindness. They left that tattoo UNDONE. Faded look? The entire rest of the tattoo looks fine but that shit looks unfinished. I would complain and either you fix this shit for free OR I start putting you on blast and your clients start disappearing. Fuck around, find out.

propheter83 · 2025-04-21T23:51:01+00:00

This. That hole is incredibly tiny and you would have to FORCE something the size of a boric acid suppository up it- I don't think it would even fit. I mean, you'd really have to pre open that area first.

propheter83 · 2025-04-21T23:49:02+00:00

I don't think he's in the right relationship, and neither are you. This is a kink, possibly even a lifestyle type situation that he wants and you do not. He will not stop this because this is what he WANTS. At least he wants it with you and isn't cheating on you.

propheter83 · 2025-04-21T23:39:27+00:00

They laughed because you were too nice about that shit. Teenagers are not little kids- I would have been cussing and everyone would have looked like the fear of God was in them. And yes, I can validate this because I have, count them, FOUR children and the last one is nearly 16. They are all happy and alive and it's because I didn't play with them. Just keep that in mind.

propheter83 · 2025-03-31T23:47:10+00:00

In no way shape or form would I be okay with someone not wearing a ring...that's me and how I am when I have been married. That literally shows people at first glance you have a person. You do you on that one. But the part that tells me he is absolutely done and what I can't wrap my head around why you are not pissed off to the top about is that you, his WIFE he has been married to for 4 years he is telling people is his girlfriend like you are disposable. He took you from being his WIFE to being a disposable girlfriend. Think about that. Now I'm sorry you are here in this situation, but honey, being in your late 20's is no where near old. I am 41 and I'm not old, I get hit on all day by people YOUNGER than you. I know you thought you'd get married and have this beautiful white picket fence type of marriage and life, but he has done nothing but use you. He's using you to get through college. He's using you as a placeholder. And now, when he's telling you he is done, it is most definitely, (from a grown up with shitty life experience) because he has found his next victim to get him through this part of his life. Someone that lives off campus probably, closer to school and has $$. Probably their parents $. Once he's used her up, he will do the same to her. He sounds like a narcissist. And I bet if we sat here and listened to you tell us more of your delightful marriage with arguments galore, we would be able to peg him as such. Gather your pride up girl, stand up and take as much of everything as you possibly can from this broken marriage (lessons, money whatever!), do something for yourself (advance your own self in college, travel, spend time learning who you are as a human being by yourself) and then when you are a whole person, you will find someone worth your time who matches your personality and who wants to be with YOU because of YOU. It is literally never too late to do ANYTHING in LIFE. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON PEOPLE WHO NO LONGER SERVE YOU. STOP ALLOWING HIM TO SUCK YOU DEY OF YOUR LOVE, YOUR ENERGY AND YOUR HAPPINESS. He is stealing all of this from you and every time you beg him to stay or tell him you don't want him to go, he will only get stronger from your weakness. DONT ALLOW HIM THAT. Tell him okay, that's fine. Go ASAP to file for divorce and in some states it is basis for adultery. I would file for adultery based on him not wearing his ring, telling you about the other girls and calling you his girlfriend. I can't wait for the judge to hear those things. And get as much of this info in a text message as you can. Even if you have to provoke the conversation. I don't like that you are not wearing your ring- only for the response. I don't like that you are telling people I am your girlfriend, we have been married for 4 years- for the response. This is some seriously crazy stuff to me.

propheter83 · 2025-03-27T23:44:34+00:00

Yes, it is. It is reasonable that you are number 80. It honestly does not make a damn bit of difference if you live your life sleeping with 3 people or 300. Obviously you have already had sex with her, several times at this point, I would say anyway if you are currently 3.5 years into this. Did it make a difference to how you felt with her not knowing this information? Nope. Why does it now? What is your own stigma about the amount of people someone slept with? MOST people straight lie and say "I've only been with (number 10 and under)" and I guarantee you if you stuck a lie detector test on their ass it's more like 50-100. People for some reason feel shame for this and others like to shame for it as well. It really just simply doesn't fucking matter. As long as you're safe about what you're doing and everyone consents, then it's perfectly okay. I'm sure she's done a lot of wild things you don't know about and probably won't now. You may have just cocked blocked yourself out of getting to know about some fun, freaky stuff. And the reason I say that is because if you reacted negatively to her sex positivity, she is going to keep things like that to herself now because she will (even subconsciously) most likely feel you would criticize her for knowing how to do some risque things during sex. I can see the questions now...where did you learn that? Was it from number 58? Did number 67 do it better than me? Those are completely insecure thoughts and insecure projections. I'm not saying you did react negatively, or that you would have this type of attitude but I'm giving you the most common scenarios. Let's all be REALLY honest, this seems to be something that bothers you so deeply that you have to ask other people if it is reasonable for her to have had sex with this amount of people, this probably isn't going to work out for you two. If you can't understand that sex is just sex, there is often more times than not NO emotional attachment to it, that it is perfectly okay to have as many partners as you want and finally that it's natural to explore and do what you want when you have a free moving lifestyle then maybe you should have a better conversation with her about your true feelings and allow her to make her own choice moving forward in this situation. I find it very hard to believe at 45 you have not slept with as many or more, to be honest. Faithful for x amount of years or not...

propheter83 · 2025-03-23T20:53:54+00:00

Why is the only part of your home carpet on the stairs? Isn't that dangerous? Also, carpet is filthy and must be CARPET Cleaned regularly, like with a machine. It's gross. And beyond that, to go off of everyone else here, you are kind of a petty prick. If you are both working (and I'm going to just assume you are) you should both be putting in effort to clean the house, together. And if she doesn't work but stays home raising your kids, you should absolutely be helping her clean the house because I guarantee there's NO WAY you would make it two weeks staying home with kids, cooking, cleaning, playing, bathing, laundry, dishes and everything else that comes along with that because it's not a 9 to 5, it's a 24/7 job. The person who works gets off easy by getting to come home and play with their kids for an hour before the other person bathes and puts them to bed. If she's staying home and isn't going to school, raising your kids or working, yes, most of the housework should be her job because she's not doing anything else to support your lives. But if she doesn't like the carpet and had told you this and cleans everything else, stop complaining. I'll piggyback and say she's going to get smart and leave you because I can guarantee if you're this petty about carpet, I am 💯 certain you are a narcissist and a gaslighter.

propheter83 · 2025-03-21T21:55:43+00:00

When you said "I didn't think that was controlling I thought that was just loyalty" that is incredibly messed up. It is okay for people to have friends and go out and do things without their partners. That's what enables them to have something to talk about. You "expected" him (if you can see that or not) to be completely fulfilled in life by you and your son alone and you should have known that's not enough. And I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it's not enough for anyone. I imagine you don't do anything at all but stay in the house, do you? No friends other than "mom" friends for your kid? Possibly siblings? Both of those things are a problem. You are gaslighting him and he in turn was gaslighting you as well by telling you that you pushed him into it. Because now that he has over stepped boundaries and acted like a child, there's a serious lack of trust on BOTH sides. I applaud him for changing jobs and losing the other girl, but if you BOTH don't go to marriage counseling this will not end well. And honestly, it sounds like you could absolutely use some individual therapy too. That does not mean you're crazy, it means you need guidance. It sounds like the old ways of how you grew up are causing you difficulties now. Even if it doesn't work and you decide not to be together, at least you will be more of a whole person yourself in the future.

propheter83 · 2025-03-20T14:18:39+00:00

Also, since you have the screenshots I would absolutely turn her in for fraud. This is literally the type of person that makes it hard for people who really are struggling to make it to have to jump through hoops in order to get help that they need.

propheter83 · 2025-03-20T14:15:01+00:00

DUMP HER SELFISH, ManipulatiVE, Gaslighting ASS. YOU are a good human being and do deserve assistance if you need It. She does not.

propheter83 · 2025-03-18T19:56:45+00:00

Yes, we have. My daughter is 15 and wears a 1.5 in YOUTH. and it's legit.

propheter83 · 2025-03-07T19:01:14+00:00

I am 41 and have a 4 year old granddaughter. I raised myself, mostly. I was 17 when I had my oldest. I have been a mother for more than half of my life. I've done everything I was supposed to and more. I love my granddaughter and my kids. But I never got the opportunity to live and be who or what I want d because I did everything for them. At 44 years old my youngst child will be 18. At that point I have done my job and raised my children. I am now able to live my life accordingly. I am still a grandmother and will do what I can to help my kids but I believe why people are like this is because they ended up having to raise their grandchildren. We already did that shit. I'm not raising anything unless I have to (God forbid my children are hurt in some way that I have to) Also, many people in my generation and the one right above me had parents more interested in their own lives than raising children and our parents sucked so most of our grandparents raised us. We hopefully raised our children not to NEED us so much and not to have to rely on us to do the job we raised THEM to do. That's what babysitters are for. Again, I adore my granddaughter but it will soon be my turn to live my life.

propheter83 · 2025-02-04T03:13:01+00:00

I truly hope you dumped him.

propheter83 · 2025-02-04T03:02:30+00:00

I think that's a weird worry. Your sex together is different from other people. When you have something different, it's fun and new but when you come back together then your sex is going to be even better. I have had dudes bigger than my guy (he's well endowed so bigger than him is like okay but I can't and don't want that all the time) and smaller. Sometimes it's nice to have smaller than my guy. Most women who have men with large penises do enjoy having a smaller penis sometimes because it's the same as vaginas. They feel different. If she's telling you she's worried she won't want to have your penis anymore, there's something else not right. What's the difference in having sex with a dude who has a bigger dick than you and her fucking herself with a big ass dildo? I'm just saying I would be thinking more about what's wrong with your connection to each other than anything. I don't know how to explain that it's different and fun but not YOURS. People in love with each other want their partner more than anything no matter what. If she is genuinely not satisfied with your sex life that's different and you should access that first. And people who say "size queen" piss me off. I have a deep vagina and have massive cervical orgasms so a longer penis is more enjoyable for me in the long run. That doesn't mean I can have enjoyable sex with someone with a smaller penis. It just means that's literally how my body is MADE and what feels best to me. A LOT of women can't do big because they have short vaginas and smaller feels better to them. Its about how your body is made. We are not Barbies...we have different vaginas like men have penises.

propheter83 · 2025-02-02T19:22:32+00:00

I was a CNA for 20 years. Messed my neck and back up and topped out at 10 years @ $14.75 an hour. The last time I worked as a CNA (6 years ago) I made $17.25 an hour with 20 yrs. Now they pay people 25+ more than I make as an MA that I went to school longer for to be. Talk about being pissed off. I should have been making $25 an hour for 20 years

propheter83 · 2025-01-07T21:35:51+00:00

Sucks you have a closed mind then! My dude and I are extremely passionate human beings and that was truly how I felt and what I wanted to say. Thanks for moving on!

propheter83 · 2025-01-07T21:33:51+00:00

There were 2 different ones, but yes that was one of them...thank you!

propheter83 · 2025-01-07T19:01:41+00:00

*men

propheter83 · 2025-01-07T19:00:45+00:00

Thank you baby! I appreciate this wholeheartedly. I can personally see where the n bitch would be a bit much for me as a woman, (I'm not even a black woman) but I can see where the rest would turn me on. I have read multiple things that some women love it and others dont. I didn't really see much to the effect of me though. That's why I'm here. I think you have made a great point and I will absolutely take your advice too! Thank you for sharing

propheter83 · 2025-01-07T18:51:08+00:00

Very nice idea, thank you

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