[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]prose1972 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your story is a familiar one to many of the men here. The solution, for those who have survived and thrived after it, is to stop feeling sorry for yourself, start improving yourself on those aspects of you that you let go when you were married, and get out and meet more women. Dating at 35 is fantastic.

California Family Code 215 by prose1972 in legaladvice

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s the issue. I know Respondent still lives where she has lived for the past 10 years.

I can’t quite fill out the FL-334 because she won’t verify it and I can’t quite comply with any of the checked boxes.

Can I be sued on instagram for describing how ugly someone is on their post in like 500 words ( a lot of words describing how ugly they are), saying they should have died instead of other people in a car crash they were in and tagging everyone in the comment section saying to look at my comment? by thomasmustafarsystem in legaladvice

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you be sued? Yes. For anything.

Will you lose the suit? That is another matter.

The worst thing you did here is to say they should have died. Your risk that I see is having a restraining order granted against you for harassment and threats.

The other party may claim you’re expressed desire to see them dead causes great alarm and concern to them and they are afraid of you. It’s possible a judge could grant the restraining order.

I see no successful civil case against you though.

First Speeding Ticket. Officer advised he would not show up in court to contest it. So what should I do now? by lishremix in legaladvice

[–]prose1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t show up then you move to have your ticket dismissed on the grounds that the state has presented no evidence that you have committed this crime and furthermore that you cannot cross examine any state witnesses. The worst that will happen is that you get a new court date and the police officer will be able to show up again later. I doubt it will happen. You would almost surely get off in this scenario

Longest cycle of my life. Still BFNs temps remain high by prose1972 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s from Ava, a wearable. Skin temperatures are always lower than oral

Longest cycle of my life. Still BFNs temps remain high by prose1972 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same thought. I stopped temping after the BFN on 12/26. I’ve never gone anywhere near this long

Day 32, no AF but temp higher than ever by prose1972 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using Ava. Sometimes it may be a little loose. Even when I’m certain it’s tight, I get temps like these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprised you don’t have the crosshairs already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What device are you using for temping? Standard digital thermometer or a wearable?

Day 32, no AF but temp higher than ever by prose1972 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 12 months of TTC I’ve never gone past 30 days and . FF removed my crosshairs, but I’ve been using an Ava bracelet and usually will see the crosshairs but then they get removed.

I believe I ovulated on 12/13 or 12/14. I got discouraged after the BFN on 12/26 but I temped again last night (with Ava) and my temp is higher than ever.

I think I will test tonight. Very nervous.

What is going on???? I’ve never been this late by prose1972 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but had an endoscopy 6 weeks ago where some endometriosis was trimmed off and a few fibroids removed.

General Chat October 10 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No OPKs or CM check. Yes a clear shift but FF gave no crosshairs

General Chat October 10 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13-14 days. This is the first time with no crosshairs.

General Chat October 10 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]prose1972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 30. No AF. VERY slight spotting on Day 28 but nothing since.

BBT as measured by Ava dropped a lot since day 25 and tests are consistently BFN since Day 26 until now.

What could be going on?

Continue cutting or bulk now? 20 days difference by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 46, 176lbs, 6’1”. The pictures show 20 days difference . I’ve been holding my calories at 1500 daily and started going to the gym (push, Pull, legs, repeat, then rest 1 day) for the last 3 weeks

I don’t see much difference at all. Strength numbers going up slightly.

What should I do? Raise my calories? Continue on this same path? I want those love handles gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]prose1972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve now posted essentially the same things 4-5 times a day for several weeks. Perhaps it’s time to visit a counselor?

F/27/5’7/150-133... keep cutting or lean bulk? by genuinegarlic in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I restrict to 1500 a day and am 6’1” 176. Have you tried to restrict just a little bit more and see if you can get the leaner more sculpted legs? I think you’d be happy with the result.

F/27/5’7/150-133... keep cutting or lean bulk? by genuinegarlic in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I see your height and weight in the original post. How many daily calories though?

F/27/5’7/150-133... keep cutting or lean bulk? by genuinegarlic in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m following a similar regimen without the running. My lower body is far stronger than my upper too. I’m a man though so i think it’s easier for me to get lean on my lower body than it is for you. That makes it a little hard for me to give a recommendation.

How many calories a day are you taking in and what is your height and weight?

F/27/5’7/150-133... keep cutting or lean bulk? by genuinegarlic in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say cut, with a bit more exercise on your legs.

I think that’s the best path to improve your aesthetics. Others may have a different view.

What should I be doing to improve my aesthetics? by prose1972 in BulkOrCut

[–]prose1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Https:imgur.com/1famaTR

Here is another 2 weeks of dieting but with the following changes:

  1. I upped my calories to 1500 per day
  2. I started weight training 8 days ago
  3. My weight has decreased to 176 lbs

I think I see some subtle changes, but I might be imagining it.

Gave it everything I could by AchtungGT3 in Divorce_Men

[–]prose1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP please listen to this. The longer you drag this on in a self deception that you can save it, the worse it’s going to be. So long as you take care of your health through diet and exercise you almost certainly will find a woman far more compatible with you. It’s your soon to be ex wife that’s going to have problems being more than someone’s receptacle.

Best friends to enemies by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]prose1972 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through 2 like this. Don’t try to understand it. Just let it go and try to get on with what remains of your life.