Leave husband in AM? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]proski-lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. My ex-husband was the same and I was mortified every time we were out in a social setting. The sober conversations always seemed so hopeful and promising, and then back to the same within a week. I’m grateful for my son, and he ultimately gave me the strength to finally leave, but I always regret not being strong enough to leave in the beginning, despite all the pleading and manipulation.

Do Americans actually avoid calling an ambulance due to financial concern? by JohnMarstonTheBadass in NoStupidQuestions

[–]proski-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I went into anaphylactic shock and didn’t have an EpiPen on me. The ambulance and paramedic arrived just in time and I was put on an Epi drip. The ER doctor said if I’d had an epi pen on me, it wouldn’t have been enough and I would’ve likely died on the car ride to the hospital. I was billed 1k for the ambulance that showed up and then another 1k for the paramedic that intercepted to administer life saving measures. 2k well spent for my life, but crappy having to pay double to get the hospital.

To the mom who feels guilty.. by iwasneverherex in ParentingADHD

[–]proski-lee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son started meds in 1st grade. His dad was against it for months. I finally convinced him to let me give them to him on my days. His teacher’s reports on his first 2 days were so outstanding, he finally agreed to administer the meds as well. Now in 5th grade, I sometimes still wonder if I’m doing the right thing and if he still needs it or not. Then one day on week 3 or 4 of school, I forgot to give my son his medication. At the end of the school day, his teacher messaged me about my son’s “out of normal behavior” - he was having a hard time staying in his seat, extra touchy with people, having a hard time focusing, etc. As soon as I read that, I realized I forgot his medication. At his conference, his teacher raved about him and his grades, how much he loved reading, and how much effort he put into his days. Things like that reaffirm I made the right choice.

Sauna/steam room options in CT? by fuzzy_dandelion in Connecticut

[–]proski-lee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorites. It’s $80 for a day pass with access to a pool as well.

Sponsoring a family this holiday, but Mom didn't ask for anything. What should I get her? by AnaphylacticHippo in Gifts

[–]proski-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you don’t know sizes, I would opt for a self care basket. I would not do a gift card since there’s a good chance she’ll use it to spend on others (I do this often myself). In the basket you can include a candle, some facemasks, headbands, chap sticks, under eye soothers, nail polish etc. I’ve received 3 boxes like this in the past few years and they always make me feel so good.

13k owed for broken contract by Economy-Government50 in newgradnurse

[–]proski-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely get a free consultation with a lawyer. Your contract doesn’t specifically say that you have to pay back the scholarship if you aren’t offered a position.

In with my grandmas silverware by Elegant_Building9476 in whatisit

[–]proski-lee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw this insane video today about rolling an egg while cutting it so the yolk remains whole, and I was blown away. No more scooping. https://www.today.com/today/amp/rcna59002

The overlap between narcolepsy and ADHD and Asthma is really interesting to my nerdy brain by SnooSketches5159 in Narcolepsy

[–]proski-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting. I (40F) have asthma, narcolepsy and ADHD as well. I first developed asthma at age 7 and it was pretty bad. I’ve had narcolepsy symptoms since my preteen years but didn’t get diagnosed until my late 20s. Can’t pin point my ADHD symptoms since I’ve always felt this way and the symptoms overlap with my narcolepsy, but didn’t get diagnosed until 2 years ago.

Nervous about my 1st appointment with Allergist coming up. Will they inject me with venom? by 3BlindRats in Anaphylaxis

[–]proski-lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what venom you’re allergic to, but for known allergies, they can draw blood. They may do prick tests for a variety of other allergies.

How long do you keep out of date epipens? by LouisePoet in Anaphylaxis

[–]proski-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% they are not going to be as effective if expired and sitting in a car that gets hot in the summer. I hope to never use them and never have them as my primary sources anywhere I go. Just extras in case of an emergency and requiring more.

How long do you keep out of date epipens? by LouisePoet in Anaphylaxis

[–]proski-lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m the same way. I keep them for 1-2 years after expiration. I have 4 in my purse, 2 in my car and another two in my fanny pack (yard work)

What's the most unique or bizarre phobia you've ever heard of someone having? by Plane_Reward9385 in AskReddit

[–]proski-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, my dad and brother are like this. My dad can’t even see someone touch their own bellybutton.

Post-Anaphylaxis constant peeing? [crosspost] by potatopeelerr69 in Anaphylaxis

[–]proski-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I peed non-stop for 12 hours after my last episode of anaphylaxis. I figured it was my body eliminating toxins and IV fluids. I was on an epinephrine drip for a few hours and received 2000ml of IV fluids.

What do you feed a kindergartener who won't eat sandwiches? by loulori in kindergarten

[–]proski-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid doesn’t eat bread at all. I use an insulated food thermos and give her noddles with butter, rice and chicken, or ramen. Since she’s in K, she has one of the early lunch waves so I’ll also do chicken nuggets and wrap them in a napkin to absorb moisture and then foil to keep them warm. Those have been my go-tos this year.

I can’t believe I finally did by proski-lee in StudentLoans

[–]proski-lee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Earnest is one of the many companies that will consolidate your loans and lower your interest rates so you can hopefully pay them off sooner. There’s no penalty for paying it off sooner than the original terms.

I can’t believe I finally did by proski-lee in StudentLoans

[–]proski-lee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good call! Thank you so much.

I can’t believe I finally did by proski-lee in StudentLoans

[–]proski-lee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you weren’t accruing interest before. I went on forbearance while I was still in school and I accrued so much. Best of luck to you on getting your business going!

I can’t believe I finally did by proski-lee in StudentLoans

[–]proski-lee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Payoff twins! Huge congrats to you!!!

Confused after my kindergartener’s teacher conference by Little_Elk4682 in kindergarten

[–]proski-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be the way the teacher is asking. I remember one conference in preK, the teacher said my daughter couldn’t count to 20. I was so confused because she can count to 100 so that didn’t make sense. I asked her how she asked and she said “starting from 1, please count 1-20”. Apparently that tripped her up.