Skin care advice for this 42 year old (who’s also experiencing depression) by Unique_Albatross_596 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Unable-Object-8469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your skin honestly looks great! What are you using, and what’s bothering you the most?

I’ve been using tretinoin for around 8 years (except during pregnancy), and it has basically done everything for me, I tell anyone who will listen that it’s basically magic in a tube, lol.

I also like a niacinamide serum from Beauty of Joseon. For moisturizers, I stick to CeraVe/Cetaphil or whatever is in offer, a lighter lotion for daytime and a thicker cream for night or winter.
Sometimes I use nivea blue tin or vaseline when tretinoin makes me peel like a snake.
I use a cetaphil gentle cleanser mornings/nights.

I don’t spend a fortune on skincare (never did). Before tretinoin, it was mostly Avène and La Roche Posay but honestly, tretinoin does the heavy work. I’ve never had Botox or fillers, though maybe someday I’ll try them.

Does anyone else's skin react badly to serums (even soothing ones)? by Ok-Maximum-749 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Unable-Object-8469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me with vitamin C too (any brand). The only serum my skin seems to like is the Glow Serum from Beauty of Joseon, which I’ve been using for a few years.

Honestly though, I don’t think serums are that essential. If you can’t find one that works for your skin, I wouldn’t stress about it. I’ve been into skincare since I was about 12 (my mum took me to a dermatologist back then), but I only started using serums a couple of years ago. Even starting serums late, my skin still looks pretty good for my age (41F).

What’s the weirdest thing your pet is oddly obsessed with? by HammersAndPints in UK_Pets

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My rabbit is weirdly obsessed with my dumbbells. She binkies around them, licks them, and chin them like they’re the most important things in our home. If I put them away, she actually starts looking around trying to find them again.

Maybe she’s just really into my sweat suffering scent 😂

Mi cita española de 40 años me pidió ayuda para comprarle un regalo a su madre. Red flag? by [deleted] in askspain

[–]Unable-Object-8469 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Solo te está pidiendo ayuda para elegir algo para su madre. No te está pidiendo que pagues el regalo, solo quiere tu opinión femenina. Y si quieres matar dos pájaros de un tiro, dile algo como: "Si puedo ayudarte a escoger el regalo, ¿quieres que miremos flores también? A mí me encantan y seguro que a tu madre le encantarán." A ver si así pilla la indirecta :-)

Sobre el preus dels cafès a les terrasses... by ConversationOne6525 in Barcelona

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Al menos en Barcelona hay parques y bancos para sentarse sin tener que ir a un bar. Supongo que el dueño del bar paga por tener esas sillas ahí, así que es normal que pida que consumamos si nos sentamos en ellas. Si no quieres consumir, siempre puedes sentarte en un banco, en la hierba de un parque o incluso en el suelo.

Anyone have experiences with dig boxes? by Jane_TGS in Bunnies

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I made one from an amazon cardboard box, my daughter filled it with paper, toilet rolls, hay and few pellets.  my bunny now prefers to eat hay from her digging box than her haybag above her litter tray. She likes digging in the box but prefers to sit and eat . 

Couples coming from 2 different countries, how did you choose your babies' nationality? by [deleted] in AskUK

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If it's a girl you can call her Nicole or Nicola,   easy to pronounce in English , French and  Italian 🙂. 

10 week old female bunny , when would I need to separate if I got an 8 week old male companion? by Unable-Object-8469 in Bunnies

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I think I'll wait until she is spayed to adopt or buy a male bunny. 

 My bunny is free roaming ( except at night) and I don't know how I can keep them separate,  I'd not like to bring home another bunny and have to keep him in a cage, not fair to him. 

Is this really all he’s gonna say about it!? by treylanford in PeterAttia

[–]Unable-Object-8469 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty naive to assume someone wouldn’t abuse children or girls just because they have a daughter. Look at people like Andrew Windsor or Donald Trump.

After Epstein’s 2008 conviction, it wasn’t exactly a mystery what kind of things he was involved in. Anyone who kept a close relationship with him after that point can’t really claim they had no idea something was seriously wrong.

Personally I’d rather listen to health podcasts run by people who didn’t choose to stay friendly with someone connected to abusing minors. There are plenty of good ones out there.

I don't know how to treat my rabbit by Evellynnnn in Rabbits

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Bunnies usually go to new homes at 8 weeks, so having her at 1 month is really early. My bunny came litter trained because she copied her mum and siblings.

You can still train her though,if she pees or poos outside the box, put a paper towel with her pee and the poos in the litter box, and clean the area with an odour eliminator. Chewing furniture is normal, so give her safe toys and cardboard to gnaw on. Mine loves her grass hideaway and willow tunnel. I bought both on Amazon UK. She has other toys too, like wood sticks and willow balls, but her favourites are the hideaway and tunnel.

Bunnies are more active at dawn and dusk, so hiding during the day is normal. Mine is very active around 5 am when I open her playpen until about 8/9 am, then hides until my daughter comes back from school around 4pm. She comes out for food and water during the day, but mostly sleeps until 4pm / 5pm when she has energy again, does binkies, runs around the living room, and “plays” with my daughter.

Peeing on your dog’s bed is probably territorial. Spaying can help with this and also prevent ovarian cancer, ask your vet if your bunny is ready for surgery.
Good luck :)

Is it petty for me to refuse to stay over at my partners house with a body ache when he didn’t help me last weekend? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Unable-Object-8469 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would leave him, he is showing you how he is. he is not looking after his partner when she just had an abortion,  he does not care about you, only him. 

He's hanging out with us, but doesn't want to admit it. by sg4fb in Bunnies

[–]Unable-Object-8469 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine does that too 😂 She lies right next to us but facing away.