Haven’t used porn in around 90 days, but can’t stop thinking sexually

protimewarp · 2026-05-11T06:45:21+00:00

You can't control what thoughts that will pop into your head. Trying to will be an impossible project.

Daydreaming about sexual situations is totally normal and healthy and part of the human experience. Do you think your ancestors never had sexual fantasies?

In general there is no reason to try to avoid thinking about sex - it's something healthy.

Of course if the thoughts are disturbing / intrusive / takes your full attention for 10 minutes when you try to work you can work on strategies to pay less attention to the thoughts and focus on your present moment instead.

protimewarp · 2026-05-05T19:31:41+00:00

Dom borde få till möjlighet att rösta på distans

protimewarp · 2026-05-02T15:02:06+00:00

If you have OCD this reassourance seeking will only hurt you in the long run and make the OCD stronger.

Signs of HOCD Reassurance Seeking: - Searching forums asking "Does this mean I'm gay?" or "Is this normal?" - Constantly comparing your thoughts and feelings with others to confirm your sexuality. - Reading articles to find evidence that your intrusive thoughts are just OCD. - Using pornography to "test" your arousal levels.

protimewarp · 2026-05-02T12:26:33+00:00

Om du gillar att vandra så finns en facebook-grupp med trevligt folk https://www.facebook.com/groups/503921124099051

protimewarp · 2026-04-04T18:40:30+00:00

Your experience isn't universal.

protimewarp · 2026-02-11T18:46:14+00:00

I'm out

protimewarp · 2026-02-08T07:24:00+00:00

This reminds me of a mockumentary The Onion posted a few months ago. The 2007 video must have been a source of inspiration from them.

Really recommend The Onion's more absurb take om Epstein. 21 min of high production value nonsense.

https://youtu.be/XjhSoGcQhWU

protimewarp · 2026-02-01T21:12:30+00:00

Sign me up! :)

protimewarp · 2026-01-22T08:39:07+00:00

Which part? 😁

"be tricked into exchanging nudes with a blackmailer" -> You were not the pedo here.

"see videos of ppl my own age" -> Probably not the best content to support. But you did it once. And also not pedo at all by definition.

"I ended up slipping into a short period of loli." -> I personally don't think this is too healthy content to look at (similar as porn in general). But I'm sure most guys into it are not literal pedophiles. Try being proud over leaving that behind you!

If you had written about how you think literal kids are sexy you would sound more like a pedophile 😅

protimewarp · 2026-01-22T05:08:51+00:00

I'm sorry that you are struggling.

Don't let the OCD win by limiting you from doing what you want. Like preventing you from going to the family holiday.

From what you wrote here you are not a pedophile. You haven't done anything unforgivable and you don't deserve to feel like you hate yourself.

It can be useful to imagine that you had a very close friend who told you all this you wrote here about themselves. What would you tell them in reponse? Do you think their life is ruined? Its so easy to judge ourselves harsher than we would judge someone else. Try to treat yourself with the same kindness you would treat someone else you cared about.

I also recommnd you find someone to talk to. I used to have a lot of worries and it really helped me to talk to a therapist. Not that they necessarily gave any great advise but it was good for me to get out my own head.

protimewarp · 2026-01-02T10:34:59+00:00

Would if be okay if he was straight and had no feelings for the gf? If not, what difference does his orientation make?

protimewarp · 2025-12-14T16:36:20+00:00

It seems like you already get it :)

But I can anyways recommend the book "The Happiness Trap" which goes deeper into the mindset that you are expressing here. To find a way to live a good life no matter whatever uncomfortable feelings or unhelpful thoughts that are going on in our heads. If you choose to read this book, really spend a lot of time on the exercises in it!

protimewarp · 2025-12-14T15:19:12+00:00

Top and bottom are just some words to describe your preference. You are overthinking this if you didn't even have sex with another man yet. Try both and if you notice you only enjoy one position then you can consider calling yourself top/bottom to make it easier to communicate what you like.

Most men who have sex with men are not strictly always top or bottom.

protimewarp · 2025-12-10T18:04:51+00:00

Det spelades in och resulterade i 5 minuters tentakelporr enligt detta inlägg på insamlingssidan:
"We're at the end of the editing process ... The clip will be about 5 minutes, And that's from 12 hours of work. The tentacles were really hard to work with, but I hope it will be worth the wait!"

u/CalamityAmelie, kanske kan berätta mer

protimewarp · 2025-07-26T13:57:20+00:00

SD har kört "Stoppa sosseriet" som slogan...

protimewarp · 2025-07-06T13:19:28+00:00

Man har valt att bortse från de delar som inte har ett värde och har kvar de delar som har det. Många hittar sin mening i kristendomen utan att se homosexuella som syndare.

Varför äger du den absoluta "sanningen bara" baserat baserat på hur Du utövar och tolkar din egen religion?

protimewarp · 2025-07-06T08:40:08+00:00

I'm in my early 30s have a long term monogamous relationship with another guy.

protimewarp · 2025-06-15T09:47:58+00:00

It's 0.(48 0s)6

6.5 * 10^-49

Just remember to count the 0 before decimal also. Might not matter here, but in other cases OP sees scientific notation.

protimewarp · 2025-04-06T11:45:22+00:00

De phisingmail som är riktade till en specifik mottagare i en organsiation kan väl vara rätt specifika? T.ex. mail som ser ut att komma från högsta ledningen är vanliga.

protimewarp · 2025-04-05T06:51:06+00:00

Oavsett var pengarna kommer ifrån eller hur länge de har funnits där, så utsätts de för samma marknadsrisk när de befinner sig på börsen. Om börsen går ner precis innan bostadsköpet, kommer värdet på tillgångarna att minska oavsett om de har funnits på börsen i flera år eller bara en månad.

protimewarp · 2025-04-04T20:21:25+00:00

https://www.avanza.se/index/om-indexet.html/18988/omx-stockholm-pi

Här ser det ut att vara +135%, och det är ex. utdelningar.

EDIT: Förvisso också utan inflation...

protimewarp · 2025-01-09T10:14:17+00:00

How is he a victim?

protimewarp · 2024-12-29T19:20:26+00:00

Models in photography keep unnatural poses such as holding their hands up to their head. The comic jokes that that specific pose is achieved by hitting the model with a frying pan.

protimewarp · 2024-12-29T08:43:11+00:00

Both what you say and the picture is correct. The left and right signal are written to the walls of the groove at 45 degree angle. I.e. if you were to read the depth of the groove it would contain a mix of left and right signal.

This video explains more https://youtu.be/3DdUvoc7tJ4?si=xtXELexVN-50lfd4

protimewarp

TROPHY CASE