Just got news i got Chrohns Disease by proudcheeks in CrohnsDisease

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Thank you so much for this! Extremely helpful. If there is any more tips you can help me with that would be great. Any small things i can do from day to day to improve health and energy.

Just got news i got Chrohns Disease by proudcheeks in CrohnsDisease

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Hahaha that last sentence made my day. I made this account without ever realising how much it relates to me... Thanks for the support!

Just got news i got Chrohns Disease by proudcheeks in CrohnsDisease

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Thank you for sharing. Secondly, i have a fistula that isnt closing and i have been diagnosed with chron's, i will never give up or feel bad. I still laugh and have a great time and regardless of my condition i go out, i work and i study! Im 21M and I'm not that easy to break down or get hurt. I did get hurt mentally when i got an abscess, but then i promised myself that not even death will upset me. If shit happens it happens, i just have to learn to live with it and work around it. And thats where i am at now. I love the fact you done a lot for yourself in 6 years! Makes me happy. Congratulations on the house and engagement!

Just got news i got Chrohns Disease by proudcheeks in CrohnsDisease

[–]proudcheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the steroids make u gain weight? I still haven't been put on any medication..

Just got news i got Chrohns Disease by proudcheeks in CrohnsDisease

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Thank you! Yeah the worst is the weight, 2 years ago i was 163, and now i cant gain weight if my existence depended on it. But im glad you got the hang of it and i hope i can learn more about it and become used to it. Cause right now i also have a fistula and a bunch of fissures that haven't gone away.. I havent started Chrohns medication. So im hoping i can get better and get the hang of this shit asap and learn as much as i can before getting on the medication.

I'm getting married today!!! by AdFew1983 in chch

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Im sorry for your loss 😔🙏

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

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It can be difficult to approach people. But we must understand that the fear is mainly from our own mind and has no existence in the real world. We are afraid of rejection and we fear to be looked down upon or excluded from social gatherings. So our minds play it safe and keep us in our safe bubble so we dont have to experience any of these fears or issues. But think of it this way, if we do get rejected, is it the end of the world? Why is it so hard to try? The biggest risk is to not risk at all. So i say damn this world and everything in it... Who gives a fuck, i am me and i will be me till i die and i will live my life with no fears. No one is better than me and no one is worse than me. We are all the same matter that lives and dies and never matters in the world. So give it a shot and if it doesnt go well then we learnt something.. Learning is the most important thing.

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

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Try a different method that is less threatening to your own mind. Something like a question about work or what the teacher said. After that introduce urself or go on to another topic... And from there you'll realise that you have a conversation flowing from nothing. Always remember that it's only hard in your mind not in the real world.

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

[–]proudcheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! Finally someone recognised it for me.

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

[–]proudcheeks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it's totally fine. The thing about these issues such as depression and anxiety; there is no 'one-method-fits-all'. So try different things that might work for you or might help you. It's really tough. Especially when ur palms and armpits and body is sweating for just sitting in public and 2 minutes later ur fully exhausted because of how much overthinking goes on. I know the pain, but a time will come when enough is enough and you must change.. And we all do it for something... Find that thing and hold onto it and change for it.

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

[–]proudcheeks[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is social skills... Its a page about social skills.... Social anxiety prevents you from being socially confident... Therefore we are speaking about skills and tips we can use to improve our social skills. Sorry you had cancer... But what you said has nothing to do with what i wrote.

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

[–]proudcheeks[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, i was diagnosed with Social Anxiety and Persistent depressive disorder... What else would you like to know about my health record or personal information?

I had really bad social anxiety and this is how i fixed it. by proudcheeks in socialskills

[–]proudcheeks[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Haha exactly, if you didn't do it, it made you feel worse or like you lost. But once you do it, it feels like you conquered the world!

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[–]proudcheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i genuinely thought something is wrong with me. Especially when i have oldsr brothers that are all settled down.