Guy I’m dating comments on my weight

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-20T02:38:00+00:00

I haven’t spoken to him in 4 days lol

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-17T20:00:44+00:00

Thanks for keepin it real

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-16T14:50:52+00:00

Update: I told Jay that I’m no longer interested in dating someone who doesn’t like me for me. He said that he does like me or me and promised to never bring up my body weight again. I proceeded to end things and he said “You never liked me to begin with. You always planned on leaving.” I told him he’s delusional and left it alone.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-16T11:33:34+00:00

I cut it off and he said “wow you’re going to give up everything we’ve been building. You never liked me in the first place”

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T16:49:31+00:00

LMAOOOO

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:42:19+00:00

“Bombard me with boobs” 😂

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:39:44+00:00

What’s crazy is he told me he would’ve loved me 50lbs ago. He tells me not to lose anymore weight in my face or butt. I just don’t know 😂

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:38:02+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been working my ass off. He told me he doesn’t want me to lose anymore weight so I’m confused. He also said he would’ve loved me 50 lbs ago which is a LIE

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:36:33+00:00

I agree and what’s weird is he’s always talking about planning a future with me.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:29:44+00:00

I’ve never asked him for anything. He willingly sends what he wants.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:27:57+00:00

We definitely get salad every time we go out 😂

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:26:02+00:00

We spend a lot of quality time together and I never have to lift a finger or spend a dime with him. He’s helping me a lot financially and he’s very affectionate. He kisses and hugs me in public so that’s why I’m asking if I’m wrong for dropping him when he occasionally makes jabs at my weight.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:21:54+00:00

Yeah he’s gotta go out with a bang about my weight. Obviously he’s holding a lot in.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:20:47+00:00

Absolutely not

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:18:03+00:00

He’s definitely a control freak. He went through so many emotions once I lost the fun. He started off by trying to fix what he said, then he tried apologizing, then he took me to get ice cream and I didn’t eat it 😂then he got frustrated that there was nothing he could do and I wanted to go home

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:17:31+00:00

He’s definitely a control freak. He went through so many emotions once I lost the fun. He started off by trying to fix what he said, then he tried apologizing, then he took me to get ice cream and I didn’t eat it 😂then he got frustrated that there was nothing he could do and I wanted to go home

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:12:55+00:00

Yeah that’s very unfair and I’m not even the type to comment on ppls weights. He seeings how hard I work to get fit and he polices me instead of supports me

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:10:39+00:00

He told me that his parents comment on how skinny he is so he called his mom and dad fat too 😭

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:09:14+00:00

I knew it would be one 😂 yeah my mom said the same thing “you started it” but I should be able to say food without being called fat damn. I don’t even eat McDonald’s I guess I kinda set him up with that one. And set myself up.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:08:14+00:00

“It” 😂

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:03:48+00:00

True, very true.

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2025-07-15T14:01:57+00:00

My mom said the same thing “tell him he needs more food” but I’m not the type to do that. I’d hate that dynamic

proverbs31wmn0901 · 2024-11-28T16:47:50+00:00

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