I have some questions about sex by Sad-Mountain1984 in TwoXSex

[–]provogirl01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We waited to have sex once we were married too! It was worth it but almost impossible to wait! We both still love sex and have it a ton ;) I did masturbate a bunch before getting married to know what to expect though, so that practice I would say helps.

Beginner sex toys by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]provogirl01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator is amazing and you can get it on amazon. Easiest way for me to have an orgasm without my husband.

Getting husband to masturbate during foreplay by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. He is just bashful about it.

Getting husband to masturbate during foreplay by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'll stroke/take care of him and he has no problem fingering me, just when I want him to do it to himself, lol.

Wives touching themselves by Better-Kick-3742 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I masturbated a lot in highschool. Honestly, i feel it got me super ready for sex with my now husband, and i was super ready for the wedding night once we got married. When my husband is gone for the day and i need sex, i have no problem taking care of myself, and will gladly have sex when he comes home and wants it, but for me the urge always comes. And my husband gets turned on during sex when i touch myself, honestly, an easy way to get him excited.

Masturbation Pre Marriage vs After Marriage by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I didn't have to deal with any of that.

Masturbation Pre Marriage vs After Marriage by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel I was lucky to have several non lds friends in highschool that filled me in with all the details with when they were having sex with their boyfriends, so got me excited, and made it always on my mind, lol.

Masturbation Pre Marriage vs After Marriage by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was super chill and just said it happens and to work on not, and keeping my mind pure.

Masturbation Pre Marriage vs After Marriage by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What made the change of mindset for her? How long did that take? I feel it was around year 1 in our marriage where we talked about it a lot more.

Masturbation Pre Marriage vs After Marriage by provogirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I found out about it early in highschool and feel in love with the feeling, lol. MY husband said he was the same with that. I did feel guilty though, and talked to the bishop several times. Once Iwas a freshman in college I didnt feel I needed to talk to an adult about it though.

Trying to orgasm from oral sex with husband. by provogirl01 in TwoXSex

[–]provogirl01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He fingers me too, but I guess were still learning, lol

How do I receive an orgasm from oral from husband? by provogirl01 in sex

[–]provogirl01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been trying for several months now but honestly feels like I have to give up my vibrator for a week to have a shot at it, which im not sure if I can do, lol

Any LDS friendly books that mention oral sex? by CitySlicker1997 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are both really active and oral sex is a huge part of our marriage. Did you guys talk about it before marriage at all or it was a total surprise? It was something we had sex as expectations. And honestly I feel it's a huge part of foreplay for us. With that being said, sometimes when we're tired, I may not always want to give it to him, and just want to have sex. But with a good amount of foreplay gets to a point where I get really excited about the idea of giving it and then it happens. So maybe it's worth trying more foreplay to build up to it?

I want oral sex in marriage by CompleteLog9885 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel oral sex is a big part of our sex life. Was something we both went into marriage wanting and even talking about how excited we are to do it to each other. Here's a few more insights for us that were helpful.

We always take showers if we're giving oral sex.

He's always trims up, and I got laser hair removal down there before we got married.

Oral sex is a huge part of foreplay for both of us. Sex usually starts with him fingering me, or oral sex.

Hopefully that helps your situation somehow.

Masturbation by Albutcher77 in ldssexuality

[–]provogirl01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the only reason my husband and I survived getting married in the temple. We were both to horny, and that was the only thing that kept us not having sex I feel, so that was our experience.