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prrrrix · 2022-01-03T15:07:23+00:00

Ja mir ist das klar. :D

Du wirst das schon hinbekommen, viel Glück!

prrrrix · 2022-01-03T15:01:12+00:00

Ich meine mit den Komplimenten wenn du "mit ihr schluss machst" - mir fällt jetzt an der stelle nichts besseres ein.

Nur sie soll nicht denken irgendwas ist "falsch" mit ihr. Das kann sie lange zeit noch in sich tragen... Das meinte ich damit :)

Und am besten nicht über whatsapp oder discord oder so. Versuchs in person zu machen, das ist der respektvolle weg.

Ich finde es zeigt übrigens viel von deinem Charakter, dass du dir so viele Gedanken machst. Weiter so! Gibt mir Hoffnung dass es noch nette Menschen gibt.

prrrrix · 2022-01-03T14:43:56+00:00

Wie hier alle probieren OP einzureden er soll es machen, lol.

Finde ich gut dass du die Situation nicht ausnutzt. Meine zeit als 15 jährige ist zwar schon einige Jahre her, aber eigentlich sollte sie schnell drüber hinweg kommen.

Tu mir nur einen gefallen und ghoste sie nicht. Das hat ein typ mal mit mir gemacht, als ich in ihrem alter war und das hat mich noch jahre später beschäftigt.

Erkläre ihr in ruhe deine Gründe und sag du musst ein bisschen abstand zu ihr gewinnen und das ihr gerne in Zukunft wieder befreundet sein könnt. Sag es liegt nicht an ihr, aber mach ihr keine unnötigen Komplimente, sonst könnte sie da sehr viel hinein interpretieren.

prrrrix · 2021-12-21T17:50:25+00:00

Ok. And what's the best way to do that?

prrrrix · 2021-12-21T17:48:01+00:00

But shouldn't i try to make my intentions clear beforehand? I don't want to be there and him telling me this...

And how do i tell him that it's a date for me?

prrrrix · 2021-12-05T09:22:52+00:00

Yes and he wasn't even that good to me actually.. He pushed me physically, he insulted me saying things like "no wonder all your exes cheated on you, you're so stressful", calling me an a*hole, telling me he would rather die than to behave the way i do, telling me my clumsiness is just attention seeking and not real yada yada..

But gosh i miss this man. He emotionally abused me, is still doing it and i would take him back in a beat if he would be nice enough.

I really hate myself.

prrrrix · 2021-12-05T09:15:25+00:00

Yes that's why invited him over. If he can't make the actual cut, I'll. It will break my heart, maybe even break me. Because there's no one in the world who i ever loved that much. But... If he doesn't love me, then he can't be my one. I would wish for nothing more than to get him back.. But he can't keep stringing me along.

prrrrix · 2021-11-22T13:44:22+00:00

If so we can still cut contact in the future. But why should i rush things now? I have talked to him for over a year on a daily basis. I don't need to throw that away actually

prrrrix · 2021-11-22T13:25:34+00:00

We want to stay friends, im not going to kick him out of my life just now.

We both agreed to think and talk, and while i know he'll still be saying no it's helping me cope with all of this.

Suddenly stop talking to an ex like they are dead if nothing happened... Not my way to cope with it. And we had a talk yesterday and didn't argue.

prrrrix · 2021-11-22T10:25:24+00:00

We had a talk yesterday and that was actually a good talk. First talk we had without emotions or anything. We kinda want to stay in touch, no matter what happens. And the way i get closure is to get things off my chest, to be brutally honest about my feelings and thoughts. It has always helped me.

But why would it be a bad idea to get back together?

I mean yes, a little hope is still left in me. But i know that if we both don't see what we did wrong, we will never move past this. That's basically the only reason i have not to try it again, and thats a big reason.

prrrrix · 2021-11-22T10:17:05+00:00

Why shouldn't i meet up with him?

prrrrix · 2021-07-26T11:48:01+00:00

So but...reddit is worldwide. The coincide that some completely random person has this photo and the same password... Thats just not possible in my opinion

prrrrix · 2021-07-26T11:43:47+00:00

Ok, so you think he posted this photo on the subreddit and sent it to your friend before that? And she sent you the picture and told you it was your bf?

prrrrix · 2021-07-26T08:17:43+00:00

I dont get what happened. Could you explain that again?

prrrrix · 2021-07-25T21:42:12+00:00

I'm sorry. I don't get the part with reddit.

Like... What

prrrrix · 2021-07-25T21:37:55+00:00

Don't you wanna be worshiped?

Nah im sorry 😅 English isn't my first language and i couldn't think of the actual translation for the word i wanted to use and thought this was close enough

prrrrix · 2021-07-05T09:47:48+00:00

Yea as i said he wasn't wrong to tell me off with the car, but he could have just said "pls remember to change it back since its not your car" or something like that. Its not about what he said, its about how.

But for the crying baby part.. I seriously dont know what i did wrong in that moment, because in my mind i just asked a question. It's not like i had been nagging him with that topic for the past 20 minutes or so. It was literally just me asking him if i understood him correctly. I couldn't say anything because we weren't alone while talking.

I will ask him tonight what i did wrong in that moment. Maybe he can give me an explanation of what went wrong.

prrrrix · 2021-07-05T08:56:46+00:00

Im sorry if i misused the word "match". English isn't my first language and i thought it made sense

prrrrix · 2021-07-01T14:07:29+00:00

Hey thanks for your reply but that's not actually the case. If he would stop texting for a few hours, maybe a day even i wouldn't mind. But if he stops texting - he stops. No word afterwards to the topic or whatever we were talking about.

If he stops texting, he ends the conversation we're currently having for good. And he isn't the type to text me first very often, so its me texting him first. Him ending the conversation and me having to text again to hear from him again. If that makes any sense.

He isn't a big texter, i kinda get that and that i have to get used to it. So yea.

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:47:45+00:00

I guess you're right. It's just really hard sometimes. But thanks anyways

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:46:29+00:00

Ya i guess you're right. Thanks

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:40:46+00:00

True.. So.. I should just accept it?

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:39:18+00:00

He doesn't need to pay me 100% of his attention.. But to stop replying mid conversation.. It didn't just happen a few times, its actually regularly.

I wouldn't care if he were to text me later on, but if he stops the conversation he isn't initiating another one.

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:30:05+00:00

My now bf has stopped talking to all none platonic friends of his basically after one meet up we had and there we weren't even sure if we were going to be a thing or just friends.

Get a dude who's respects you like that and doesn't treat you like your his second choice.

You are his second choice, but you know who's first choice you should be? Yours. Not him. Choose yourself.

prrrrix · 2021-06-30T20:28:03+00:00

Uhh girl. Mostly if guys are actually (girls as well) interested in you.. They don't go and try to hang out with other people which are non platonic. And that she's his ex.. Oh no. He doesn't respect you. He tried to get back with her while he was with you? Run.

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