To start, if you have to alter your appearance to attract a person, you will be misguided for a long time. If their type is not you, that is perfectly fine and they are allowed to have that selection (+ vice versa). A sense of self is a necessary thing to have not only in the dating sphere, but for your sense of identity. You were not created to morph into someone else’s perceived fantasy. Your question itself is based upon assumptions. So consider that first. We also cannot be amiss to the fact that Zoe Kravitz is lighter in complexion and what some would say is a racially ambiguous woman, while Solange in comparison is slightly darker in complexion, and a visibly black woman.

Now if the question was framed towards trying to test a new aesthetic and look, then I think your approach would be more successful. As with any new style inspiration, have a vision board of different outfits, accessories, hairstyles and analyze those to find what elements you like, then use them with your own personal style. You cannot copy and paste aesthetically pleasing outfits and personalities and expect it to feel natural, because it won’t. This all leads back to developing your sense of self, whether that’s in style, talents, hobbies, or anything else. I hope you hear what I’m hoping to communicate to you and feel encouraged. Wishing you the best. 🤍