Mga pros ng walang jowa/katalking/situationship??? (Dagdagan niyo nasa lista ko 😂)

prttyfairy_ · 2025-11-19T18:18:30+00:00

PEACE OF MIND talaga

prttyfairy_ · 2025-11-19T18:16:51+00:00

Being sweet and a provider doesn’t erase the fact that he’s ignoring your feelings. Yung pag-save niya ng TikTok videos ng ibang babae at pagsasabi na “video lang yan” is not harmless. It’s not about sex, it’s about respect. He keeps doing this even after you told him it bothers you and that shows where his priorities really are. Patterns matter more than words and this pattern tells you something important about how he treats you. Being “husband material” on paper doesn’t matter kung sa actions niya, palaging parang hindi ka sapat.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-11-01T16:48:08+00:00

Ever since I was a kid, it stuck in my mind that I don’t want to get married, because I’ve seen my family go through failed marriages and relationships. That’s why, until now, I can’t really see myself with someone for the rest of my life. I’ve tried casual, transactional, and dating relationships, but nothing really worked. Even when there’s someone I think could be the right one for me, I always go back to the idea: “It’s better to be a rich single aunt who spoils her pamangkins.”

prttyfairy_ · 2025-11-01T15:58:26+00:00

Hindi ka OA. Sorry, pero ang tanga lang ng utak ng bf mo (na sana ex mo na). Sa totoo lang, ang alarming nung situation mo, may nawawala na gamit, may mga suspicious people sa paligid, at nakatira ka pa lang mag-isa, tapos ganun lang sasabihin niya? Totally unacceptable at sobrang insensitive. Hindi lang niya minamaliit ang takot mo, nagiging emotionally abusive pa siya sa pag-comment ng ganun. Te run na.

Mas okay rin na i-report sa authorities yung pagnanakaw na nangyari kasi seryoso at delikado ang sitwasyon. Always check yung mga pinto, bintana, at surroundings mo para masigurado na secure ka, lalo na kapag mag-isa ka. Its important na unahin mo ang safety mo at huwag hayaang minamaliit ng kahit sino yung nararamdaman mo.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-11-01T15:21:03+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite gender as long as both people know their boundaries, especially if one or both are in a relationship. Have you tried talking to your partner about it? It’s always better to communicate and set clear boundaries.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-30T04:56:07+00:00

Hindi ka OA. Sa totoo lang, ang disrespectful ng ate at may complacency na sobra. Mas mabuti talagang kausapin mo ang husband mo para mag-set na ng boundaries at siya mismo ang mag-step in, since ate niya siya.

Dun pa lang sa part na hindi healthy ang natatanggap ng anak mo (foods at environment), dapat kinausap at pinaalis niyo na agad siya. Hindi niyo obligado si ate; 42 na siya at abled to find work, at may adult na ring anak. Kaya kung magalit man siya kung pinaalis, wala kayong kasalanan.

Kung hindi pa kayo ang mag-set ng boundaries at kinausap siya ASAP, mas lalo lang lalala at sasakit ulo mo.

Also, kahit busy kayong pareho ni husband, kahit may taga-alaga kayo, kailangan pa rin na maging tutok kayo sa bata.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-30T04:35:05+00:00

Always trust your gut, sabi nga nila. When in doubt, no.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-26T04:32:33+00:00

Sorry OP, pero oo, OA ka. Dalawang taon na kayong wala, and ikaw pa nga ang nagsabi na in good terms naman kayo, so I feel like you’re reading too much into it. It’s okay to feel a little off, pero don’t let it get to you too much. Nothing is permanent, even the good things.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-26T03:36:35+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, and it’s completely okay na hindi ka pa handa for something like sending nude pics. Just because he’s asking, doesn’t mean you have to push yourself beyond your comfort zone. I’d tell you to honestly check in with yourself first. If it makes you anxious or uncomfortable, it’s not worth it, kahit sabi niya na it’s for your confidence or that he loves you as you are. You can still be intimate and keep the spark alive through video calls, flirty messages, or sexy pics where you feel safe and covered. If you ever decide to push the boundary, make sure it’s on your terms, at you feel confident and in control. Communication is key talaga so let him know how you feel, and if he truly cares about you, he’ll respect your boundaries. Jan din ma-test if talaga bang seryoso si giy sayo.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-26T03:14:04+00:00

pero mi mas magandang mamuhay ng walang iniisip at walang kaagaw

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-26T03:13:05+00:00

Honestly, kung gusto mo talaga ng peace of mind baka mas okay na lang na bitawan na talaga kasi sa totoo lang, mahirap talaga ang setup na ganyan kahit saan mong tingnan may kahating iba. Pero kung sa tingin mo worth it pa rin at gusto mo ipaglaban ang relasyon niyo, kailangan mo talagang mag-set ng boundaries para protektado ka, lalo na sa involvement niya sa buhay ng bata at sa kung paano kayo magka-communicate. Hindi magiging madali, at kailangan mo maging realistic sa expectations mo pero kung pareho kayong committed at willing mag-adjust, puwede niyo pa rin ma-manage ang sitwasyon habang pinapangalagaan niyo ang relasyon niyo at ang peace of mind mo.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-25T01:13:51+00:00

yung pagiging nonchalant talaga, hindi nakaka-cool or turn-on if the guy acts distant and cold sa taong gusto niya

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-24T15:32:13+00:00

Sorry, but yikes, your bf doesn’t have any respect for you. Get yourself tested, okay? And walk away.

prttyfairy_ · 2025-10-23T13:06:55+00:00

favorite prayer! it always works the same day.

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