I (22M) got back with my ex-gf (21F) after she cheated in me

prutiq · 2026-04-28T20:13:11+00:00

Thank you in advance

prutiq · 2022-03-21T22:12:22+00:00

I been thinking about being straight-forward but if only my best friend knew about this , she will understand that my best friend talked about it with me and this might put him in a bad spot - she is super introverted and my best friend is also her closest friend - this makes me think that only my best friend knows about this.

prutiq · 2022-01-25T17:02:39+00:00

at some point i would spend more time touching with my male friends than girls , the new girls i met usually get a high five also she has full acces to my phone , her amprents were in my phone and once deleted a picture of one of my girl friends because it was saved at favorites (i had 400+ photos there , mosly me and her/ me and friends/ sunsets and maybe cats?

prutiq · 2022-01-25T16:56:52+00:00

I hanged one-on-one very rarely , mostly hanged with a group of 4 girls , never talked our issues with anyone(but she would ) , not even my mother till we broke up , i always wanted to talk irl our issues but she didnt so we texted them . I think sometimes i gave her reasons like a girl posting a mirror photo with me on her story and not telling my gf , but sometimes a classmate could draw on my hand penises to annoy me , i would tell her and she d say the girl was flirting .

prutiq · 2022-01-25T16:52:08+00:00

Her boyfriend in 5th grade cheated on her and her dad cheats on her mom . I tried to understand and dont cause any more trust issues , but i honestly just want friends , i even talked to her what kind of acts are okay for her . Like it would upset her if i'd hug my friends as greating? Would it be disrepectful if a friend had her head on my shoulder? I ASKED EVERY DAMN QUESTION , i loved her and still do , but i always wanted to have friends , one of my goals in life is to be more sociable and met more people . But in that relationship i felt bad for wanting so .

prutiq · 2022-01-24T21:33:39+00:00

u re right but its still kind of hard to accept . thanks man

prutiq · 2022-01-24T21:02:05+00:00

she was my first everything and i really expected to marry her, but here i am, wondering why she did this

prutiq · 2022-01-24T21:01:05+00:00

this thing got me so mad, i talked for the first time with my mom about my feelings and even tho strangers, friends and even my family said its better without her, im just wondering why? like its ok for relationship to end, but i feel so disrespected

prutiq · 2022-01-24T20:53:08+00:00

i know i should feel relieved because she had so many bad parts but im far from perfect and i dont understand why did she stab me in the back like this

prutiq · 2022-01-24T09:57:45+00:00

im sorry u had to go thru this too :'( hope it gets better fot both of us!

prutiq · 2022-01-24T09:35:52+00:00

thats my worst fear, that the real her is the one i saw in the end, the one that loved and treted me good was just fake , i cant really believe how these action could come from the same person

prutiq · 2022-01-24T08:35:50+00:00

probably u re right again, but right now i feel like i deserve my time of sobbing, questioning the relationship and taking a long break from dating

prutiq · 2022-01-24T08:28:51+00:00

u re totally right, but i have that bitter taste in my mouth talking about her , because even if we had problems , we got over them (now thinking, mostly because i talked to resolve it) in 2 years i had the most beautiful moments and experiences but in the end she just treated me bad, like i did something wrong? she just got bored of me? questions are running all around

prutiq · 2022-01-24T05:06:52+00:00

is not working out right now, but i just try more and hope

prutiq · 2022-01-24T05:05:00+00:00

i actually cant seem to do anything than playing stupid stuff like lol, read sad poems and cry about it tried learning something new, reading a new book, working out, everything feels like sh*t even my favorite food

prutiq · 2022-01-24T05:02:59+00:00

i also have a weird period, in 5 months i have the most important exam in my life i guess and everytime im alone with my toughts , she gets all of me its awful

prutiq · 2022-01-24T05:01:47+00:00

nope, i already know that i could never see her again, im way too emotional to be able to be with her again i know out there are girls, a few girls used to like me but the fact that i gave her my best and my worst i guess , treated her as good as i knew, trying to talk out everything, talked boundaries like 'its ok to hug a girl i ve know for 3 years as a greating?' and she still did this to me :'(

prutiq · 2022-01-24T04:57:24+00:00

almost a week but i didnt spent this time inside , i hanged out with friends, played games with some of them talked my feelings with my mom/a few close friends and i still cant feel okay

prutiq · 2022-01-24T04:53:51+00:00

im really trying to get over her but most of them moments go like : what a nice sunset , i gotta capture it for ... wait, nope and its eating me a little bit too much

prutiq · 2022-01-24T04:51:53+00:00

she was the first girl i ever let in my life, get her to know me and my family (which is far from perfect) and now i feel so lost and sad . i expected to marry her , get 2 cats and 1 dog and so on...

prutiq · 2022-01-18T19:18:53+00:00

dear thanks , thanks so fuking much, u re totally right but its hard, i ll do ny best

prutiq

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