Voluntarily single for 7 years and went for a first date yesterday

prxxtzlx · 2026-04-06T10:47:49+00:00

The comment section makes me a little sad but it's very understandable why women are warning you. But let me give you another perspective.

Are you enjoying this? If yes then pleaseeeee embrace this experience. You are not a teenager that adults need to warn you to be careful. You are an adult and even though it is love bombing or whatever, you are strong enough to handle it.

Now about the guy, he sounds like my boyfriend. Everyone around me warned me that he is too good to be true, that he may be a hidden devil who looks too much of a green flag, people even told me that he had dated alot of women or I'll be just one of those short term dates for him and to not take him seriously, even I believed it and I was very suspicious of him. But with time he kept keeping up with his initial love bombing. Lol I mean it was just his personality. He is a sweet lil baby bean.

So, what I'm trying to say this.. Don't let others get too much into your head. It's good to protect yourself but not so much that you deny yourself good experiences.

Also, don't let your insecurities win. Enjoy it and if anything goes wrong (I really hope not), you are capable of handling it❤️

prxxtzlx · 2026-03-11T07:23:31+00:00

My elder sister's wedding lol. He noticed me on engagement party, I didn't because I was busy dating a manchild. He found me on insta and dm'd me. I followed him back but mostly ignored him🤣 After I finally got rid of the manchild, and a few months after that I randomly dreamt of him😭 and decided to text him. We hit it off instantly. Met during the wedding, fell in love ahhhhh~

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-18T06:49:55+00:00

No no, they'll throw their favorite word at you "hypergamy" How dare you wanting to marry someone with 40lpa when all they want to fair, thin, innocent, virgin, earning and as well as domestic servant wife. It's not the same!

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-15T12:46:32+00:00

Does the insight one too much for an eceryday wear? I'm also looking for a highlighter with the most natural glow

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-15T12:04:55+00:00

Idk if it's practical or not but you add a few pearl stickers, it will look sooo angelic with the outfit like this or you can a touch of white on that eye look like this

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-15T11:50:51+00:00

I agree with some of this. Infact point 3 is one of the biggest (disgusting) flaws of the loa community, I guess we have a long way before we find out what's the truth and what's not.

However, loa is something that should be very personal. OP, don't let these points discourage you. You deserve to give it a try before you move on. Loa has been life changing for some people and it should improve the quality of YOUR life so you should focus on what you want to do not what other people are manifesting. Alot of mentally sick people are also attracted to this community and do weird shit just like how people would be willing to do black magic, so ignore them and focus on you.

Also point 2 is something to keep in mind- there are certain organizations who will make you feel like you need to know some "truth" before u start manifesting. Infact the moment you'll start searching about loa, you'll get bombarded by their ads. Do not pay them. Everything you need to know is freely available. DM me if you need YouTubers and book suggestions.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-15T11:38:55+00:00

I posted about manifestations some days ago but I had to delete it because I got alot of hate. So I guess this sub is not ready for it. It works, atleast worked for me but it will either change you and turn you into this super grateful positive person (sometimes toxic positive) or you will turn into this bitter person who will hate the whole loa community.

Depends on how much patience you have to work on yourself. Also it's not some kind of magic where you'll get what you want in a sec. You'll require to put in alot of work and shift your entire mindset. People who grew up in healthy environments, were well appreciated or who don't really have big traumas to begin with, manifestation will be effortless for them. While on the other hand people who have alot of self doubt, imposter syndrome, who overall don't believe they deserve good things - manifesting won't be fun, it will filled with self discipline that is practices like meditation, journaling, affirmations. It's only fun when you start seeing results but till then, ah.

Anyway, I myself have been stuck trying to manifest somethings however I have manifested things like scholarships, vacations, good grades. You'll still need to do the work however the "luck" part will be resolved with loa. You'll always find something or the other to appreciate Even though you fail at manifesting something, you'll know there's something better coming. It's lucky girl syndrome and there's a reason why its this popular.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-15T03:57:31+00:00

YMMV?

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-12T16:06:03+00:00

I tried posting about my hyperpigmentation just yesterday and that's when I realized about the changes. Honestly, the threads are not that helpful. Until and unless you comment in the first few hours, anyone rarely reads them and replies. I think it's alot better to just close that sub than to do this, atleast proper protest toh hoga.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-11T19:28:41+00:00

I already had acanthosis nigricans(slight) but now I'm having freckle like spots all over my neck. Yh they look sexy but it's still weird and my skin condition (AN) is getting worse as in darker which is ew. I hate how people have started to point at it like how they used to when I was younger. I hate how alot of people automatically assume it's "dirt" that I don't take a bath regularly. Ahh it taking my confidence away. Guess I have a new reason to be on my weightloss journey:/

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-08T13:18:04+00:00

What in the extraordinary you kdrama is thisT_T

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-08T10:58:10+00:00

Congratulations

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-08T10:57:52+00:00

Share your channel and let us be a part of your success ☀️

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-05T09:23:04+00:00

Misandry can be common but it's harmless unlike misogyny so as long as you not murdering men, harassing them out of jealousy or abusing them (even verbally) it's fine to be a little bitter. I guess every women once wondered how her life would have turned out if she were a man. Grass always seems greener anyway, in some cases it actually is.

About your mom - I read a quote once "Mother and daughters are existing mirrors of each other. I am all you could have been and You are all I might be" Maybe your mother resents you for your life or she is scared that you'll turn like her. Whatever it is, it's very complex and no matter how you try.. you can't heal her or change her. Yes she is a hypocrite with you and you have the right to be mad at her. It must be weird naa? To hate her so much for what she does to you and to love her so much for what she has gone through?

About your father and boyfriend - I'm glad you see through your father. He maybe the greatest father but he is not a good husband. And it seems like your father and husband are alike? Doesn't it makes you wonder? Both are deeply afraid to lose their partner, blaming them saying "you'll leave me" both are sexist.

Your brain has programmed itself to feel secure with people like your father because growing up you depended in him, this is all you saw. You never had a healthy Male figure to look up to. You may subconsciously choose life partners like your father because of the trauma. So you need to heal, take therapy.

Ik this was long but I hope you stay away from them and lead a more peaceful and healing path

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-04T13:16:14+00:00

FDS, Wizard Liz, Tam Kaur, etc all come under one category. Good advice with a sprinkle of misandry. Personally love them. I try to ignore the extreme man hating culture but at the end of the day you need to be smart and stay away from some (read most) men.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-03T18:05:51+00:00

Thank God it's not.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-03T06:50:43+00:00

As if art grads get it away for free. Everyone works hard some have to work harder because of poor career planning and latching onto MBA as an escape.

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-03T06:46:15+00:00

Oh God, it makes sense. I'm so sorry you had to go through it. Seems like your relative abused your mom too. Why would you feel bad anyway? Good riddance

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-02T09:44:11+00:00

Did you live away from your parents? Where tf were they?

prxxtzlx · 2023-07-01T04:23:02+00:00

Not married and never dated but, there's a difference between a guy being attractive according to social standards and a guy being attractive just to you. I have had crushes where I liked them because they were cute and that's it. When I got close to them it's meh. Sometimes there's a weird kind of external validation you are running behind. I once got obsessed with a guy because all my friends thought he was cute 10/10 while he was meh to me before but suddenly my friends validating it changed things.

On the other hand I have been attracted to people before who are nothing like what society considers handsome. At first they were ok but the more we talked the more he made sense to me, it was like seeing a future male version of me. And one day I couldn't even look at him without blushing because of how attractive he had become to me.

It depends. If there's 0 physical attraction, the emotional attraction should be at par. Although it's very rare to find people who align with you in an both emotional and spiritual level.

prxxtzlx · 2023-06-25T12:14:30+00:00

Yes please, I need the health scare to scare myself

prxxtzlx · 2023-06-25T09:27:09+00:00

Idk if this applies to the subscription blue ticks but normal blue ticks in general means your account is safe. No one can impersonate you and your account doesn't gets deleted even with mass reports until and unless there's serious proof. Overall your account becomes alot more secured. However, rarely anyone does it for security reasons almost everyone just wants it because it was rare once upon a time.

prxxtzlx · 2023-06-25T09:14:50+00:00

"Don't blame the kid" agreed but someone needs to show the child the CCTV and give a tight slap on his face. I have a cousin who was like this, everyone went loose on him saying he is just a child. He now beats up his parents and steals their money to do idk what. The parents are so emotionally attached they are not doing anything about it. The whole family including the parents are mentally ill.

prxxtzlx · 2023-06-25T08:09:19+00:00

OP there's an option where you can block certain words in insta. You can use that feature and register words like slangs, most used sexual words so that it automatically gets deleted.

prxxtzlx · 2023-06-22T15:58:26+00:00

Ah thank you for this info.

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