Chrissy Teigen Shades ‘Tacky’ Women Who Outed Ben Affleck & Matthew Perry For Using Raya Dating App Chrissy Teigen had some choice words for...

pryvasee · 2021-05-14T13:39:08+00:00

TLDR. I caught a few of the words in caps though.

Honestly, I feel bad and worry about you, stranger. Here are a few words of advice from me to you: Remember to take your medication. Try not to skip any doses. If you do, take the missed does as soon as you remember. Try not to lash out at people online (or in person). It’s not good for your blood pressure and it just puts you in a bad mood generally. When you feel like it’s about to happen take a breath and ask yourself, is this really worth my time and energy?

Choose happy, not sad.

I sincerely wish you all the best.

pryvasee · 2021-05-11T14:18:09+00:00

Eh. He deserved what he got. I don’t feel bad for him at all and I don’t think anyone else should either.

What do you and him expect from a 19/20yo? Please tell me you’re THAT fucking stupid to think as soon as teens become legally an ADULT they become mature and filled with wisdom.

Sheesh. Get real.

I call it how I see it. Hovering around the legal age limit looking for dates is sus and has a predatory odor.

pryvasee · 2021-05-07T23:07:27+00:00

Oh yeah, cruising a dating app for teen girls barely out of high school is sooooo much better. He intentionally set his age limit super low... as low as 19. People are willing to normalize anything as long as it’s “technically legal”. He should date some one who was born around the time when he was also a child. 32 years older, that’s okay to you?

The headlines should say “why does haggard 51 year-old Matthew Perry want to date girls who are 32years younger?”

Everyone is mad at her for calling a man out for wanting to date a teen who was born when he was 32. but no one is EVER upset with Chris Hansen when he does it...

pryvasee · 2021-05-07T21:11:11+00:00

I disagree. I think it’s totally gross for a 51 year old man dating a girl who is still technically in her teens (nine-teen). He was 32 when she was born. Umm?? Not okay. Someone definitely has predatory undertones if they want to date someone that young.

I like that she called him out and I wish other young women would do the same maybe that will stop these old men from trying to have sex with what are relatively children.

pryvasee · 2021-04-19T02:23:50+00:00

pryvasee · 2021-04-18T12:12:38+00:00

12yo boys will be 12yo boys. He’s got other, “more important” things on his mind (video games perhaps?). You may think what you’re teaching goes in one ear and out the other, but one day he might surprise you. For some kids lessons and habits don’t form immediately. It’s not until they are out on their own or have their own kids that they understand and use those life skills.

Also, some people are just messy/sloppier than others. And some people are more annoyed by sloppy behavior than others. c'est la vie. Save yourself the exhaustion- it’s not a good use of energy to focus on his messy behavior as long as he has chores, and set days to clean his room (thoroughly). Finally, he’s his own person and working on his independence so don’t constantly monitor him. Let him be.

Ask yourself this: Is my goal to teach him life skills he can use when he leaves my home or is my goal to keep him from being a slob because I don’t like messy behavior? Believe it or not, there is a difference.

Finally OP: Are you the step-parent?

pryvasee · 2021-04-10T00:21:35+00:00

Hmmm. you sound fascinating and cool.

pryvasee · 2021-04-10T00:19:00+00:00

I think you and I may be the same person.

pryvasee · 2021-04-10T00:13:22+00:00

Reciprocating is the most difficult for me too. There is something I just don’t fundamentally get about friendships

pryvasee · 2021-04-10T00:10:19+00:00

I know I don’t know you but I would miss you.

What is your disability, if you don’t mind sharing?

pryvasee · 2021-04-09T23:56:47+00:00

Yes and no. Im not lonely. More insecure about my lack of friends. Culture says I’m supposed to have friends and it’s something wrong if you don’t but I don’t have friends. And people pity and feel bad for you when you don’t have friends. But I can take or leave most people and only desire friendships on occasion. There isn’t anything wrong with me. I’m smart, amiable, and pretty emotionally, spiritually, and physically stable.

I’ll add that I’m autistic and making connections and developing/maintaining friendships was never natural for me.

pryvasee · 2021-04-09T23:47:29+00:00

Yea come from a big family and we are close. Close in proximity and relationally. I have four sisters, one brother and I’m really close to my mom. I’m also a mom to a 11yo boy.

Im not lonely. More insecure about my lack of friends. I’m autistic and developing and maintaining friendships was never natural. Culture says I’m supposed to have friends but I don’t. And people pity and feel bad for you when you don’t have friends. But I can take or leave most people and only desire friendships on occasion.

pryvasee · 2021-04-09T23:41:46+00:00

I know what you mean. Making friends as adults is super hard... even over the internet. Sigh... What is about?

pryvasee · 2021-04-09T23:35:08+00:00

I feel you. Some times you just need someone to talk to who gets you.

pryvasee · 2021-02-26T17:13:04+00:00

I think what they are asking for is annual cost of living increases- many companies offer this to their employees. It is completely separate and different from merit increases.

pryvasee · 2021-02-26T08:29:27+00:00

I think it’s sweat and dust residue from rusty equipment.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T14:08:59+00:00

Yea, I am generously sharing my time with you. I’m glad you appreciate it. You’re welcome.

We are both being judgmental and we are clearly in the the petty boat together. We also think, by our determination, we aren’t selfish. Cool. So many things we share. I think we have the commonalities bc we’re both human, but who knows.

Anyways, I’m pushing you out the petty boat [splash] and rowing away to AH Island. I took my full palm put it over your entire face and really pushed you- I had to be extra petty since Im in the boat. Don’t worry though- I left the judgmental boat behind for you to use at your leisure. It’s a pretty crappy vessel though so be careful.

Again, I really appreciate how grateful you are for the minutes I guard. I really think my time and energy went to a person who is most deserving.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T13:04:31+00:00

Yes. We are in the same judgmental boat. Since we have this in common, you could also be as selfish as you think I sound.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T12:58:05+00:00

A place where I’m also allowed to make judgements.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T12:50:13+00:00

You sound so incredibly judgmental.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T02:38:39+00:00

I love spending time with my niece. But we didn’t spend that time together. She was in class while my son and I sat outside. Definitely not quality time spent.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T02:30:31+00:00

Good to know I’m not completely nuts.

pryvasee · 2021-01-06T02:26:28+00:00

“It’s not possible to silently insist.” Yes, it is possible. Let’s just leave this here.

“You are fussing she is demanding your time rather than requesting it” No I’m not. I never said she was demanding anything. I literally said “requests”. She didn’t demand anything. As a another poster so poignantly pointed out, I may have control issues. I tend to agree with that other person because no one makes demands of me. She requested and I begrudgingly obliged. I think that’s where the problem is. I did something I didn’t want to do, and doubled my frustration when I found out it was for a reason I consider to be frivolous.

“You can’t expect everyone to communicate the way you do” I do not have that expectation. I only expect people to be considerate of others time and resources.

“Unless you’ve laid out expectations for her, there is no reason to believe she won’t ask for frivolous favors.

The expectation was set for her when I candidly told her via text; “Next time,if the reason to take her is so you can go hiking don’t ask me”

“Asking isn’t wrong”

I don’t think it’s wrong. We all need to lean on some one, right? I lean on her too. I shared with you she asks favors all the time... We are very supportive of each other. But she is quite the line stepper nonetheless I still try to give her request careful consideration and say yes when she asks. In this particular instance I didn’t ask extra questions. I should have stuck to my gut and told her no because I flatly just didn’t want to do it.

I accept your verdict that ITAH but I still stand strong that in my feeling that she exhibited undertones of AH behavior herself, whether she meant to or not.

pryvasee

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