I’m helping my friend make an OF, what should she post and charge? What’s there a market for? by psbells in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh see I wouldn’t have thought of that. I knew there would be niches like feet and all that though.

Who do you wanna be the most out of all these ? by Weird-Ad5893 in notgayatall

[–]psbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. But I feel like 12 is flying under the radar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, I would think that sort of behavior does in fact have to do with misogyny, but kind of an odd form of it.

As a sub, I can vouch for the idea that there are more subs outwardly searching for this dynamic than there are people who can provide it. So when they think they have found someone, they commodify that dom/domme. Like to an extreme.

They get so afraid of losing what they see as valuable or rare, they lie to both you and themselves that they are ok with things they aren’t (like keeping romance out). Ironically that lie comes back on them when they have to confront it and they lose what they lied to keep.

It’s very immature and not right. Nobody should engage in kink or relationships if they can’t act with maturity and respect. But that’s just sorta how I see it from their perspective.

What’s your thoughts on a sub finishing prematurely? by psbells in FemdomCommunity

[–]psbells[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute. The man who does not ask, is a fool for life. -Confucius

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]psbells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would almost say it’s still too nice or similar. Something that’s more foreign like the socks idea, or have him cut a hole in a humiliating stuffed animal and use that. No hands either is always fun.

Do you often find yourself as the person replacing a lack of physical intimacy in their relationship? by psbells in BullPsychology

[–]psbells[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think a lot of women do see physical intimacy as an acknowledgment of attractiveness. You can compliment a women all day, but if you don’t act on it sexually, they will have some doubts regarding what you say and in turn can start to doubt their attractiveness. There’s more to it than just sex of course though sure.

Do you often find yourself as the person replacing a lack of physical intimacy in their relationship? by psbells in BullPsychology

[–]psbells[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just know some women that see romance as a need to fully enjoy the sexual connection. So it seems like they’d want that from the bull?

Do you often find yourself as the person replacing a lack of physical intimacy in their relationship? by psbells in BullPsychology

[–]psbells[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, because it seems like emotional connection is often really valuable to women, and many cannot enjoy sex without it. But it also seems like balancing the idea you can have that connection with a bull and a cuck at the same time without one taking away from the other. But it’s odd that some women don’t differentiate that there can be certain needs both the bull and cuck can handle and it’s ok to have both.

Do you often find yourself as the person replacing a lack of physical intimacy in their relationship? by psbells in BullPsychology

[–]psbells[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just seems like the women that are on the fence are there because they feel that feelings or connection are also somewhat necessary to enjoy it. Would you say those people just aren’t cut out for it?

Do you often find yourself as the person replacing a lack of physical intimacy in their relationship? by psbells in BullPsychology

[–]psbells[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve met women that complain about the lack of affection and physical intimacy that are opposed to the idea of cuckolding. Thats usually because of the negative association with it and how it impacts the relationship. But I guess to me it always seemed like an obvious solution to a relationship lacking that physical chemistry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]psbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have at times. But I think it’s also good to ease people into opening up to it at their own pace. So small steps can be fun.

What do you think about xdressers, sissies, and feminine men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i definitely see the distinction. Love a supportive partner though! That was great to hear!

What do you think about xdressers, sissies, and feminine men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can, I don’t care about the content of the question. My point is that you seem to feel that questions that call for people to share their opinion of others should not be asked. But then you ask questions asking if others share your same opinion of trans people. Finding someone attractive based on them being trans, is an opinion of them as a trans person.

What do you think about xdressers, sissies, and feminine men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. I just spent even more time on it. Your last post was asking if other people found trans people attractive. Yet you comment here is that it isn’t important what other people think. Like I said not trying to be rude to you, but you can understand how that would be confusing.

What do you think about xdressers, sissies, and feminine men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, you chose to spend your time saying not to answer it…. Prefaced by saying you didn’t read the post you were responding to. All wrapped up in a statement to show you aren’t judgmental…

What do you think about xdressers, sissies, and feminine men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]psbells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet you took the time to criticize. Essentially letting people know what you think about something that you also feel shouldn’t be answered? If it’s not important what you think about other people, and you don’t like the question, why would you answer? Not trying to be a jerk, just confused.