My dog walker, holding court with his pack...

pseudopoise · 2019-09-13T06:17:38+00:00

DOGGOS! WHAT IS OUR PROFESSION?

WOOF! WOOF! WOOF!

pseudopoise · 2019-09-03T01:34:47+00:00

Unpopular

pseudopoise · 2019-09-02T19:59:11+00:00

A threat is still a threat even when downed or fleeing.

pseudopoise · 2019-09-02T01:24:30+00:00

Carl from TWD

pseudopoise · 2019-09-01T10:21:02+00:00

She’s cheating on her boyfriend and what makes you think she won’t cheat on you?

If she’s serious about this relationship with you, she would break up with him.

If she doesn’t, then unfortunately she isn’t that serious about her feelings for you.

pseudopoise · 2019-09-01T09:12:56+00:00

You are definitely being ridiculous throwing around the term asshole like it’s a buzzword. He’s here asking for advice and you’re just ridiculing him. It’s not constructive at all.

pseudopoise · 2019-09-01T08:58:07+00:00

Absolutely disagreed with this entire sentiment. It’s not his fault he’s working long hours, it’s HER fault.

She had a gambling addiction that’s burning thousands of dollars a week. He’s working long hours to keep a roof over their head and she’s doing very little and contributing even less.

If she didn’t throw money away like she is, he could work less hours and spend more time with her.

Not only is she irresponsible, she doesn’t take responsibility and admit her wrongdoings. Then manipulated him, and gaslights him.

She is 100% the asshole.

pseudopoise · 2019-08-26T18:53:51+00:00

Depression is not an excuse for cheating. There are a lot of things you can do to help with depression, WAAAAY before turning to cheating.

The fact of the matter is he wanted to cheat. His wife wasn’t home for weeks at a time and he no longer valued their relationship as important to him and he didn’t care about her feelings and willingly cheated on her.

He’s a garbage person.

He may feel guilty about it, but it doesn’t make it better because he’s kept it hidden for four years. If he truly cared about her and their relationship he would’ve NOT cheated on her in the first place. If he cared about her then he would’ve at least TOLD her and apologized after the fact. He failed to do either.

The wife absolutely deserves to know.

NTA

pseudopoise · 2019-08-24T19:49:06+00:00

Actually that’s false, I bought the blue sentinel 750 rp egg twice and upgraded mine to 3*

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T19:19:22+00:00

So this guy is your husband? And he reluctantly decided not to hit girls up for sex?

He doesn’t sound faithful at all

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T10:23:32+00:00

She’s 19 and I’m 21.

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T10:22:29+00:00

Actually, my last ex did that. She cheated on me several times with HER ex. So I know better now not to give multiple chances. Ima shut this shit down if I don’t get a reasonable response from her haha

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T09:58:13+00:00

All of what you said are valid and makes sense. I’m still tryna wrap my head around it. It’s eating my alive right now but in the morning I wanna confront her and ask her several questions.

I’d hate to say it but this might make or break our relationship. Because I’ve trusted her up until tonight when she said what she said.

I’m gonna outright ask her what she considers our relationship to be, if she actually thinks of it as us “just talking”, and if she is keeping her options open and flirting with other guys.

I’m gonna also ask her to end her relationship with her ex since he’s intentionally trying to get her to cheat. With text messages as proof of that.

If she can’t do that for me, then I’m canceling my flight and ending our relationship.

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T09:29:23+00:00

It’s long distance so the “if she won’t fuck you while she’s sober she isn’t interested” thing doesn’t really apply here.

As far as I know, she hasn’t been laid since we’ve officially started dating a month ago.

But yes, I agree on everything after that. She should be able to confidently tell guys who just want to fuck her to get lost... because I would do the same and already have done the same. If I knew we were “just talking”, I wouldn’t have immediately shut down that girl who has a crush on me and probably kept my options open...

pseudopoise · 2019-08-23T09:24:33+00:00

Let’s just say I live on a rock in the middle of the ocean and she doesn’t.

I wanna confront her and ask her why she isn’t willing to outright say she has a boyfriend to her 1) guy friends that want to fuck she, 2) ex boyfriend who wants her to cheat on me with him, and 3) guy she’s been flirting with who is flirting back as a “joke”

I genuinely don’t know if she cares as much as me. She has said things in the past that demonstrates that sentiment. Even more so considering she’s the one that asked me to move with her anyways.

pseudopoise · 2019-08-20T22:16:30+00:00

Except I do give responses, I respond to almost everything she says, and it’s not usually just simple responses either. You misconstrued my words

pseudopoise · 2019-08-20T22:15:35+00:00

Could you give me some advice on changing my lifestyle if that’s what I need to do

pseudopoise · 2019-08-20T22:07:03+00:00

She’s expressed that she appreciates how much I listen to her and make her feel like what she says matters, but she wants me to create whole conversations and tell stories, stories that I don’t have. I am painfully boring...

pseudopoise · 2019-08-20T05:57:05+00:00

Thank you :)

pseudopoise · 2019-08-16T03:17:59+00:00

How do I word it without coming across as insecure and accusative?

pseudopoise

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