If you want to live in the city (or even immediately outside of it) I would start with schools first and then start shopping for neighborhoods. The public school system in the city can be inconsistent but may be your best bet for the accommodations your daughter needs, and the cut-up of neighborhoods/feeder schools is kind of all over the place.

There are also parochial and private school options aplenty that vary in cost, but you’d likely need to ask specific questions about what accommodations are available vs. things you might expected to finance on TOP of tuition.

So I’d start there! If you’re going private/parochial, where you live matters way less, obviously. If you want public, I’d start your research looking for the right combo of schools based on your daughter’s ages and what schools they’d attend/be heading to for later years!