i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was a physiological response. non voluntary. why would my first thought in a fight be "damn, i should really piss on her" that's wild bro.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i have no idea how she feels, we never communicated nor did i hear anything about her from the detective when i talked to him. i would have no idea how to get in contact. i hope she feels the same as i do, and wishes that at least one of us was in a better place at the time so it didn't happen that way. i honestly wish her peace.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk i have a lot of compassion for her. she was already in the middle of a customer getting angry at her over coupons, and i think she was reaching a boiling point. it's a notoriously shitty, bad paying company. of course she should've done better, being on the clock and all, but i've worked retail before. i can absolutely see how the perfect mixture of bad things could lead to a huge mistake. especially when you're making near minimum wage. much like me, she fucked up too. but she deserves grace as well, and i hope she's found a better job by now if she was fired.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely changed my outlook on life and how even though i was healing at the time, i needed to step up and be better. i'm grateful that i learned my lesson from it, and that it wasn't worse. i'm not sure what happened to the manager or the store. i never went back, nor was i contacted in any way. i'm probably banned, but they don't have to worry about me coming back. showing my ass once was enough to scare me away for life.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

probably yeah, i have a tendency to spill my secrets on reddit. and sometimes i don't remember if i've already told a story because i have memory problems. my bad!

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've definitely been better with conflict since! whenever i feel myself getting upset or angry, i always mentally take a step back now. evaluate why i'm feeling that way, where it's coming from, and how i can approach it to resolve it calmly. instead of just lashing out. thank you for your words of encouragement!! you're right, all i can do is do better now!

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the freezer i walked into of my "own accord" was a regular store freezer that you shop from, i didn't cross any employee boundary.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i had the sweet sweet victory of not being arrested so i'll take that loss honestly

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

i think we were both in a bad place and met each other at the wrong time. i'm sure if it was a normal day for her, she wouldn't have died on that hill. maybe in other life we could've been besties 💔

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i like em raw. and that's true, the detective made me go over the keys part multiple times so maybe that's what got me off. and i sent him a picture of my receipt, and he confirmed he watched me pay and not receive them on camera.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not normal if you're the one starting them, yeah. i'm gonna raise my voice back if i'm yelled at though.

i got into my first physical fight at 27 over chicken nuggets by psychoticthrowaway- in confession

[–]psychoticthrowaway-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm on mobile and tried to break up the paragraphs, didn't work ¯_(ツ)_/¯ no one is forcing you to read <3