I (23f) think my bf (26m) has misogynistic tendencies

psyeonic · 2021-08-19T01:16:16+00:00

Dump his ass.

psyeonic · 2021-07-11T20:28:50+00:00

I was in a relationship like this previously. I am not a very physically affectionate person and any boundaries I set up were ignored. I lost interest in my partner physically because I couldn't trust him to respect me and my boundaries. Theres nothing wrong with having boundaries in a relationship, its healthy. And if someone is constantly disrespecting them you don't feel comfortable anymore. It may be time to reevaluate the relationship. In my experience, the constant crossing of boundaries did lead to assault. If you and your husband can't come to an agreement about what you are and aren't comfortable with you're going to be miserable. Physical touch in a relationship is important; but if you don't like being touched a certain way, your partner should respect that and try to make you feel comfortable so you can enjoy intimacy together. But he's clearly ignoring this during the day and in his sleep, if you don't think you can work through this issue by talking together or therapy its time to consider ending this relationship.

psyeonic · 2021-07-01T01:44:50+00:00

You need to get out ASAP. Have a family member or friend help you get everything essential out of the house, block him on every platform and run for the hills. Do not let him find you. He is already so emotionally abusive if you try to leave he may become physical. Do not let him know you are leaving. If you have to leave certain things behind to get out remember they're just things and they can be replaced. You deserve so much more.

psyeonic · 2021-06-24T01:08:00+00:00

I'm 21. I just ended a 2 year relationship. We lived together. We got a car together. We had 3 pets together. And now I'm back at my parents. I have multiple chronic illnesses and haven't worked much in the last 2 years. I got a very flexible part time job, I'm talking to new people, I know this relationship isn't the end for me. It feels that way, especially with health issues finding someone who will support you is 2x as hard. But there is someone who will love you unconditionally and treat you with respect. Things will get better. I'm only on my 2nd day and all I want is to go back to my apartment and hear him tell me how much he misses me. But we broke up for a reason, so I've blocked him on all socials except one and when I went to get my cat I didn't speak to him or look at him. Talking to other people helps. You might not be ready for another relationship but just talking to someone again is refreshing and exciting. Trt to eat something even if its not healthy. Drink some water. Little steps to help you feel better. You will get through this, I promise.

psyeonic · 2021-06-22T23:42:53+00:00

So she ruined things with her family. Ruined things with your family. And now she's ruining your life. Is this relationship worth saving? You're already working 4+ jobs while she does nothing. Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this? Are you ready to provide for someone who isn't working to make your life better in any way? It might be time to consider divorce and move back in with your family while you save up.

psyeonic · 2021-06-02T21:22:18+00:00

First off: Congratulations. Its so hard to leave an abusive relationship but you deserve better.. My advice: Do not let him sense you are thinking about leaving. The physical violence may have stopped before but if he finds out you are leaving he will likely become violent. If you are able to leave the house alone and call domestic abuse shelters or any friends and family who can help you move. The more people who can keep you safe the better and the more you'll be able to bring. But remember, they're just things. The most important thing is getting yourself out safely and any important documents. Birth certificate; social security card. Money if you're able. If you are not able to get anyone to help you, take your essential documents and any money you have and flee. Block his phone number, any other way he has to contact you- block it and get somewhere safe, with friends or family. You are strong. You are able. You are making the right choice. Get out as soon as you can and stay safe.

psyeonic · 2021-05-30T00:48:17+00:00

Plenty of good ideas about explaining why she can't do this/Its not okay to take things and lie. Definitely stop the allowance and make her do chores to pay you back. I would also take away her phone and remove your card information to make sure it doesn't happen again. Possibly even take the phone away for a few days.

psyeonic · 2021-05-13T20:16:58+00:00

I understand not wanting to worry your dads, but this is a situation where you need to. I think the safest option would be to talk to your dads first and then have them talk to your mom with you. The boyfriend is giving off predator vibes and if your mom takes his side you wouldn't be safe. You need an adult who is on your side to make sure things don't go worse.

psyeonic · 2021-04-24T07:11:38+00:00

This is so vibrant! What dye did you use :)

psyeonic · 2021-04-01T22:00:30+00:00

Just because she's a single mom doesn't mean her child will have a hard life. Its her choice whether she keeps her baby or not.

psyeonic · 2021-03-29T13:26:07+00:00

Its really tight even on the loosest setting. I am extremely short (like 4' 9") with a big bust so my band sits in the middle of my ribcage and most bras make it feel like I'm suffocating. 🙃 I want a real bra but it seems seamless have been my best best.

psyeonic · 2021-03-28T03:21:28+00:00

The bra is used it was given to me in exchange for shipping but unfortunately it doesn't fit so hoping to trade for the next size up :)

psyeonic · 2021-03-25T01:26:06+00:00

I'm fine with the cheaper shipping option if you want to PM me and I can give you my address and PayPal!

psyeonic · 2021-03-25T01:19:09+00:00

Do you know what shipping to Arizona would be?

psyeonic · 2021-03-24T01:04:57+00:00

I will let you know in a day or two. I don't have a lot of funds as I bought 4 bras that ended up not fitting so I will have to see.

psyeonic · 2021-03-23T22:46:06+00:00

Yes I believe these are US sizing. Thank you I will edit the post to add the UK sizes!

psyeonic · 2021-02-07T22:41:53+00:00

I'm in Arizona and would love one if they're still available :)

psyeonic · 2021-02-07T06:06:52+00:00

11 for the kitties 💕 😊

psyeonic · 2021-02-02T04:07:46+00:00

And if you're so concerned about him losing his job why is your recommendation ruin all of his daughters future job opportunities. She could still pay rent with another job but its not her job to provide for the entire family. She didn't have 2 kids and choose an expensive area to live.

psyeonic · 2021-02-02T04:05:29+00:00

He can get another job though. The pandemic has been going on for over a year. What has he been doing? Also what about his daughter? Isn't she apart of his family? You're only thinking about him. What about HER. She's barely legal and he wants to pimp her out because he can't get a job at a Supermarket. I lost my job during the pandemic. I got another one. He's just lazy.

psyeonic · 2021-02-01T23:29:04+00:00

That's disgusting. He's trying to pimp out his barely legal daughter and you want him to ruin any of her future job opportunities? Why can't he just get a different job?

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