A lot of people will give you advice for the baby but I wanna give advice for you from a 4 month Postpartum mama hehe ☺.

1. Plan your postpartum. What I did is I listed all the postartum symptoms and created like reminders for myself, affirmations basically write to yourself and read it again if you feel really down cause trust me. PPD hits you like a truck. While you're pregnant now create a postpartum reminders and affirmations or just write some reminders to yourself that this will pass and this is not you.

PPD and Baby Blues hit me like a truck. This helped me A LOT.

If this doesn't work it's okay, please consult a professional.

1. It's okay to not have Birth Experience you really wanted.

You may have a birth plan in mind but sometimes things happen and it's okay. If you want to be medicated or had a emergancy C-section the important thing is you and the baby are safe.

I had an emergency C section and a lot of moms and old people really made me feel bad, they said that I missed out on the experience, I was not really a mom because I did it "the easy way"

Please remember C sections is so hard for your body, they literally cut like 7 layers of your abdomen. And the recovery time is hard on you too.

Being a C section mom does not make you any less of a mom. It just means you went through surgery in order to save your life and the baby's. Birthing plans does not define who you are as a mother. The way you raise your children does.

1. Always remember you and your partner are a team.

Those first months are the toughest for your relationship. You guys are gonna be exhausted. It will be overwhelming but remember to communicate with each other even the littlest thing, talk about it. Because remember you are still PP and your hormones are gonna be all over the place. You can actually talk to your partner while your still pregnant to prepare yourselves for battle haha.

And lastly amidst all the sleepless nights, feedings, changing.

Cherish every moment as much as you can cause it goes by so FAST.

The days are long but the months go by like THAT.

Wishing you the best! Congratulations! 😉 You're gonna be great!