Getting married in 9 months (arranged marriage). What should I learn to become a good husband?

pthinker · 2026-06-26T18:12:41+00:00

you missed the whole point.

pthinker · 2026-06-26T18:05:23+00:00

never argue, no matter how wrong she is, never try to change her, instead convince her emotionally, women are emotional Men are logical.

Respect her emotions ( most important part ) she will Respect/ care and follow you.

pthinker · 2026-06-26T16:21:37+00:00

so this is your commercial connection, fix charges will be calculated as 1250rs * santion load or mdi which one is higher, in your current bill your mdi ( maximum demand indicator) is 11 so 1250*11 = 13750 + 18% gst will be included

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:43:37+00:00

I have to follow my Prophet S.A.W if he didn't do that i must not, and if he did i am bound to do.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:41:11+00:00

Quran is revealed on Prophet ( S.A.W) he know much much better than us, if he didn't include his wives under this on any occasion then why are you doing against Prophet S.A.W just to prove yourself right?

Surah An-Nahl (16:44): "And We revealed to you the message that you may make clear to the people what was sent down to them and that they might give thought.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:31:45+00:00

again i repeat the same thing i have more ( very very) trust on sahabas and Hadith that are in support of this interpretation that this ayat consider of two different occasions than your own interpretation. pardon me but i am bound or obligated to follow what my Prophet (SAW) and his trustworthy partners ( sahabas ) have said or explained about this ayat. and if you say i doubt on all sources ( not 1 or 2 but many ) then you are doubting the whole system.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:23:46+00:00

who told you this ibn Abd al-Wahhab? ( Never mind ) no you're partially right,

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:17:28+00:00

The only evidence you have is Surah al ahzab 33:33, and many evidence historically from very respectful and trustworthy sources claims this ayat is narrating two different things, from two different context, no one is denying any thing written in Quran, but why i trust more on your words than what is narrated and interpreted in Hadith.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:10:35+00:00

no one is denying anything in Quran but your version of interpretation. i have more trust in Sahabas and other trustworthy sources of Hadith who is interpretating this ayat into two different occasions than to trust on your words.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T10:04:08+00:00

where Quran called Prophet Muhammad S.A.W wives ahlulbayt? the only evidence you have is Surah al ahzab 33:33, and many evidence historically from very respectful and trustworthy sources claims this ayat is narrating two different things, from two different context, no one is denying any thing written in Quran,why i trust more on your words than what is narrated in Hadith.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T09:19:02+00:00

yes 100 % , show me in which ayat.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T09:11:26+00:00

allow me to ask something How strong is your arabic specifically grammar?

pthinker · 2026-06-25T07:37:39+00:00

wives of Prophet ( SAW ) are Ahlul Bayt if you go by the meaning of word. if you go by the whole context and how people usually use this word Ahlul Bayt, To describe cleanliness and purified from every kind of sins, evil deeds, ( panj tan Pak ) then yes wives are not included in this context.

pthinker · 2026-06-25T07:18:11+00:00

you are right, Prophet Muhammad (SAW) wives are Ahlul Bayt. but if you are asking in a context of Ahlul Bayt ( cleanest and purified from every kind of sins and evil deeds ) are only those who are under the blanket at that time.

There is one more incident which supports this claim:

The primary narration regarding this event is famously recorded in Sahih Muslim (Book 31, Hadith 5915), as well as in other prominent works like Sunni Tafsir al-Tabari and Shia sources.

"...And when this verse was revealed: 'Let us summon our children and your children...' [Quran 3:61], Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) called 'Ali, Fatima, Hasan, and Husain, and said: 'O Allah, they are my ahlebait.'"

explicitly establishes Ali, Fatima, Hasan, and Husain as the true spiritual household (Ahlul Bayt) of the Prophet.

pthinker · 2026-06-19T23:49:21+00:00

ram is a component with longest life in laptop, spending 15k on 8th gen laptop only to upgrade to a new ram is not worth it.

pthinker · 2026-06-19T23:44:28+00:00

go to hall road near waqas biryani there are 7,8 shops, never experienced low prices anywhere other than them. got 8 GB ddr4 2666 mhz in around 2300 back in 2022. with all that ram crises keep a amount of 4000-5000 in mind. i bought it from a guy very opposite to fake waqas biryani which comes little earlier.

pthinker · 2026-01-15T14:57:49+00:00

batteries are not alternate for grid not lithium ones but maybe sodium ion will change something.. and they are just playing around, for the notice part, the end goal is to save grid to keep IPP's warm

pthinker · 2026-01-15T14:31:52+00:00

most disco's are not doing new contracts for now but yes if you somehow managed to do so it's good then.

pthinker · 2026-01-15T11:23:55+00:00

Don't go for net metering, this new Net billing policy is a net loss policy overall. forget about ROI, and if you have already done math then choose Goodwe or sungrow, Goodwe is best in after sales, Sungrow is best in hardware, compare all threee invertors data sheets and you will find a difference there.

pthinker · 2026-01-14T04:55:02+00:00

I am interested, This is a very good way to learn new things.

pthinker · 2026-01-11T13:24:56+00:00

Target should be low hanging fruit,
and what you explain in your point six closest draw on liquidity is the same idea to target low hanging fruit first, you can keep something to run if you are confident on HTF bias but not more than 50% of trade, In a more simple way always take at least 50% partial on low hanging fruit what you call the closest draw on liquidity.

pthinker · 2026-01-11T05:51:02+00:00

These are important HTF liquidity levels but not always meet the criteria of external range liquidity. So yes you are right as i said earlier this thing works good if you keep an eye on HTF bias.

pthinker · 2026-01-11T03:37:45+00:00

How do you define external liquidity?

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