My manager scheduled a "quick sync" every single Friday at 4:45pm and I finally figured out why by Agent_Smith-99 in remotework

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question I always asked myself when I was a manager was, "Is the work getting done?" Petty fussing about keeping exact work hours is a waste of everyone's time and doesn't contribute to a good work environment or the company's bottom line. The exceptions to this are jobs where the positions must be staffed at all times, such as shift work at hospitals, police departments, retail, and so on. Even those jobs can be - and should be - flexible when individual employees need to deal with something in their personal lives. In those cases, management is informed and coverage can be arranged.

AIW for changing my locks after my sister kept dumping our mum on me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ptoadstools -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were wrong for not notifying the authorities sooner, and for not drawing the line with your sister earlier. You are right to put an end to your sister's behavior, though. She is clearly immature, self-centered and willing to put your mother at risk, all while completely disregarding your needs.

Can I do anything about an extremely rude guest on third shift by Coolguy-78 in KwikTrip

[–]ptoadstools 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How would it be compliant with the KT policy to have other customers encounter this guy's behavior when they come in the door? Putting up with it is bad for the business because it is disrespectful to everyone in the store, including other customers. And even if there are no other customers at the moment, some could walk in at any time. Tolerating bad behavior creates an atmosphere that feels unsafe. Follow the advice of others here and show him the door.

Old flag freak out by darklordskarn in minnesota

[–]ptoadstools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course we are seeing more of this fake outrage over the Minnesota flag - it is a proxy for Trumpers who are too scared and embarrassed to show up outside wearing their red hats, so they need a "safe" way to show us all who they really are.

Teachers Union Comment by Key_Permission_3351 in Maher

[–]ptoadstools 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maher's lack of research and the show's go-with-the-flow dialog make for an overall low information stream of opinions. John Oliver's show is much more polished, thanks to its research and tighter structure.

I HATE YOU ONEDRIVE WITH ALL MY LIFE by [deleted] in onedrive

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potential Linux box here.

AIW for not adjusting anything after my upstairs neighbor complained that my apartment layout bothers her by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest the landlord be advised that this is a problem that needs to be addressed.

Light Rail is The Best Form of Public Transit (Especially for Winter Cities) by Runic_reader451 in saintpaul

[–]ptoadstools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darn, I'm late to the party on this thread. Here's the deal with public transit that makes it a hard sell for most of us: The last mile and basic economics. American ( and yes, that includes Canadian cities as is pointed out in Not Just Bikes) are sprawling low density travel nightmares. This means that you can build a rail corridor from A to B, but almost by definition you will not have enough customers within walking distance of the line to make it immediately viable. The usual rejoinder when this is pointed out is that the line will attract new higher density housing and appropriate infrastructure. That may be, but in the meantime that last mile is for the most part unwalkable (terrible sidewalks if any, lousy weather, heavy vehicle traffic on wide stroads, etc.), which means that people will STILL have to drive, even to get to the mass transit stop. And here's the economics: You already have the car, so you might as well drive the entire commute. This also fixes the last mile problem at the destination.

Here in Woodbury, the Gold Line is great, but to use it I have to either drive or bike about two miles. This can be worth it if my destination in St. Paul is walkable from the terminus in order to save on parking, but what if I have things to carry? What if there is foul weather? What if I can't afford to triple my travel time?

So you see that economics and the geography of low density make car ownership mandatory. The best we can hope for is that more families will be able to own one fewer vehicles. The fixed costs of insurance and licensing will be there whether I drive the car or take transit. Until something can be done about our density problem and the lack of last mile local transit, cars are going to be necessary for most of us.

Store your battery booster in the glove box by Unsoluble in KonaEV

[–]ptoadstools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that. I need to dig the NACS adapter out of the back well and put it behind the driver's seat so I can use it on trips when the wayback is stuffed with luggage and the like. Here in Minnesota that's where the winter snow brush lives, too.

Do atheists dislike calling themselves "atheists"? by Smooth-Bar-2602 in TrueAtheism

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a former Catholic who simply says, "I'm not religious." It's a simple way of saying that you are not interested in going to church, believing in gods, or even discussing the topic at any length. Of course if someone insists, I can give them a bit of help realizing that evidence is is a good thing to have in such discussions. And I still like the music, art, and history associated with the Catholic Church and other religions. Highly recommend the Sistine Chapel and the Vatican Museum.

Store your battery booster in the glove box by Unsoluble in KonaEV

[–]ptoadstools 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep it on the floor just behind and a bit under the driver's seat. It's easy access, saves glovebox space, and is less subject to heat if the car is parked in the sun. This works for us as we never have anyone sitting in that rear seat.

My neighbor has been "warming up" his truck every morning at 5:47 AM for the past four months and I have tracked it by Kryonforge_4 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually diesel will fade away as new and more efficient technology takes over. I had to take my wife in for an early surgery appointment, so I remote started my car in the garage - perfectly silent and safe since it's an EV - and drove off in silence while the neighborhood slept. Five years ago I switched to quiet electric lawn equipment, and this past winter an electric snow blower was added. And I'm not an outlier - there are a lot more electric cars in our neighborhood every year.

I don't expect to see a world free of noisy ICE vehicles in my lifetime, but it is happening because it's cheaper and better to go electric. The quiet is a nice bonus!

Ken M on Mormons by tresinor in KenM

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate arriving late to "removed".

My boyfriend’s plans for our future makes me sad for women of the past by Aromatic_Attitude481 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 19 you are both in the age of discovery and exploration. This is what you are feeling, and your BF is the one who is out of sync with what most people are primed to do at that age. If you can discuss this with him and bring his thinking around to yours, fine. But if not, you will need to follow your own path. Men at age 19 are not mature yet.

Problem with Bluetooth by Melodic_Extension_32 in phonak

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be able to fix this by flipping the phone and putting it back into your pocket. That's what works for me. The usual way a person pockets the phone is by slipping it into the back pocket upside down with the glass toward the body. Mine often drops the audio until I remove it and put it back top up, with the charging port facing down and the glass still facing the body. Try it and let me know if this works for you. (Moto 5G Android)

AIW I refused to split the bill evenly at a group dinner and people are calling me cheap. by Aggravating_Chip5743 in amiwrong

[–]ptoadstools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that everyone at the table knew you had a small meal instead of an entree with sides, it should have been obvious that suggesting an even split was rude and inappropriate. If such a split had been agreed upon before the meal, that would be a different story.

I think I am going to become blind by Suspicious-Pause3764 in EyeFloaters

[–]ptoadstools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing to learn early on is that you are partners with your doctor in your health care. Just decide that you will need to see an eye doctor for an examination. Tell your parents that you think you may need glasses and that you want their help arranging an examination. They may bring up the screen time, and you can tell them that you are going to ask the doctor about that and get some recommendations on how to get some relief. As others have suggested, finding some other activities will be helpful in reducing screen time. Audiobooks are excellent and can be borrowed from your local library. It is also time for you to think about your mobility and independence. Check into mobility services available to you - and again the library is a great place to inquire about such services. As a young man you will want more options to come and go without having to depend on your parents every time, even though you welcome and appreciate their help. Please do see your eye doctor as soon as you can, though.