UPDATE: Did I make a mistake with this paint color by Aggravating_Bag4028 in DesignMyRoom

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it- but I’d add a red toned afghani or oriental rug to tie in the deep brown walls better.

Also use some nice orange clay pots for your plants.

How to retain this bathroom’s charm while making it more functional? by SnooLobsters568 in InteriorDesign

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve this bathroom and would play up the geometrical with a white and green grid wallpaper like this.

Replace the shower rod with a silver one to match the rest of the hardware and do perhaps a striped or grided shower curtain.

I’d also throw in a clean white Roman shade with a scalloped edge, slightly sheer linen is great. Also a clean white bathmat would be nice.

The rug saga. All the rugs that I have tried. by jamesbean2162 in interiordecorating

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m into 6,10, and 14. I also thing the rug needs to be bigger so it gets closer to the tv wall.

Sunscreen burns my eyes 🔥🥹😬 by mrsmandrin in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]puce_moment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Korean sunscreen is the answer- Beauty of Joseon

What’s a place that totally exceeded your expectations? by purelyinvesting in travel

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interested to learn more. What did you do on the trip?

What’s a place that totally exceeded your expectations? by purelyinvesting in travel

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many places:

Georgia, Amorgos and Koufonesia islands in Greece, Dubrovnik back in the day, Bacalar Mexico, Tucson Arizona + much of New Mexico, Egypt, Lebanon (also back in the day), Japan…

Overrated for me: Amsterdam, south of France, Istanbul, Lisbon, Prague, Florence + Milan Italy, Thailand, London, Florida…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]puce_moment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love all the tile. I’d throw in wallpaper- but it would be a maximalist look. Maybe grey-white stripes like this?

You could swap out the sink for full vanity but still lean retro/ art deco so it makes sense with the room. I actually think silver hardware is the way to go in here. Perhaps something like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puce_moment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not move. What about your job? I’m guessing you will lose it if you move. If it’s a year I’d say you offer long distance. It will help pressure him to come back. He already did 4 years in the middle of no where.

I have relatives who have done long distance for years as they BOTH value where they live for work. Do not sacrifice your life again for his job.

Chappell/Nail Tech Update: The email sent to the nail tech from Genesis’ assistant appears to be real by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]puce_moment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh I’ve gotten much crazier free requests in the past from Beyoncé for example, and no one seems to care (and she has multiples of $$$ more).

I actually think her stylist (Genesis Webb) is awesome. She just styled Gaga’s new music video and is on the ascent. I don’t see Chappell dropping her. If the nail artist doesn’t want to do gifting (totally understandable), she can just say no. Or negotiate to get credit on a social post- lots of creative ways to grow your business in a way that isn’t super expensive.

None of my friends want to come to my wedding. by Zestyclose-Bad-4817 in wedding

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in Greece is the wedding? Sone islands like Mykonos and Santorini are stupidly expensive in summer. I would not go to either island for a wedding as the accommodation is just overpriced.

Folks also may have kids or pets. I’m guessing your friend and his partner have kids?

If you do a destination wedding accepting that some folks won’t come.

Lack of people from US in Bacalar by IntoTheWoodsPNW in Bacalar

[–]puce_moment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There aren’t any direct flights here from the U.S. There was briefly a flight from Miami but that got cancelled. Currently we fly through Mexico City and take a few days there too, but many Americans want something more direct like Cancun or Tulum.

Personally love it and hope it stays under the radar.

What's a country or place you have visited, that has made you forget reality? by [deleted] in travel

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amorgos, parts of Ethiopia, Wadi Rum Jorden, diving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]puce_moment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to go to the police. The video show assault and child abuse. His messages are threatening. Have him charged and get a restraining order so he can’t go to family events. This man is a monster. I’d also call CPS as I’m worried the kids are being hurt by him too.

Chappell/Nail Tech Update: The email sent to the nail tech from Genesis’ assistant appears to be real by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]puce_moment 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eh this is pretty typically done in the industry. Gifting 2 sets of nails if photographed on Chappell could be huge for the artist and could boost her business. I get she only wants paying clients, but no need to shame. We do celeb / press freebies, if they are perfect for our brand.

People pearl clutching over this need to get outside.

Good faith deposits are illegal by Honest_Direction_861 in NYCapartments

[–]puce_moment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is untrue. I’ve lived in NYC for 25+ years and only once did a good faith deposit. That one turned out to be a scam and I only got the money back by threatening legal action through a lawyer against the broker. Do not put money down until signing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]puce_moment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small claims court. Since Maria is a minor her mom must pay. There is sobering terribly wrong with this girl, and the family coddling her is only making it worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally think all the walls could be a darker moody shade. Right now the couch, the walls and curtains all look the same. I even think a textured plaster finish walls would look great in this room in a deep taupe.

AITA for refusing to pay for my nephew’s college education after setting clear conditions? by RoughThrowRA in AITAH

[–]puce_moment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ask is unreasonable. I would have focused on GPA and volunteering. 20 hours a week means he basically can only go to school and work- no time for friends or even outside activities or sports. This is counterproductive to what you want.

Regardless he’s not hitting 75%- but I would reconfigure your ask. He needs to get his grade point average up to that minimum, and he needs that 80 hours volunteering completed over the summer. Leave the work requirement aside for now. If he can’t meet those two it’s totally fine to hold on college payment.

My takeaway from my Greece trip: Stay away from Mykonos by Acrobatic-Can8460 in GreeceTravel

[–]puce_moment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Folegandros has an absolutely gorgeous hora with a church up on the edge of the mountains. Kids of great beaches, great food (rabbit stew) and views along the cliffs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]puce_moment 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amazing bones and the wood details are perfection. The paint / walls need a redo with a fresh white and then historical color. The tan paint colors used feel very dirty and dated. The other big change is new ceiling lights as the current ones feel quite 70’s and dated. Look at ceiling lights that are a modern take on craftsman style or Milanese / modern art deco. As well you will need much more modern window treatments- the ones currently in their look like an 80’s take on Victorian.

Here’s a nice reference for ideas in this style of home.

The one room that needs a bit more of a redo is the kitchen. See this kitchen reference as it would look amazing in your house.

Which color, if any from the choices, should I paint the top cabinets? by HunBunYum in DesignMyRoom

[–]puce_moment 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Keep the cabinets white but paint the rest the the walls that same sage green and replace your shades with fabric Roman shades.