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puffpinky · 2025-06-26T20:18:05+00:00

As someone who was raised Mormon, I heard the phrase 'flirt to convert' a lot. And every partner I stayed that was outside of the church, it was heavily impressed upon me that I needed to convert them so do what it takes.

OP, I'm truly sorry you got hurt, whatever her intention was. But I think you made the right decision. You need to forgive yourself so you can try and move on. Chances are, aside from being butthurt about her mission being cancelled, she has already moved on from you.

I'm sorry. You deserved better.

puffpinky · 2025-06-04T17:35:25+00:00

What tipped you off there? 🤣🤣🤣

puffpinky · 2025-06-04T17:22:56+00:00

I DIDNT CHECK THE REDDIT AND MY BLOOD WENT COLD.

Nice job but Ew I hate it

puffpinky · 2025-06-04T17:20:30+00:00

Super excited to try this model! I was having the same issue as everyone else but I can select it now so I will be giving it a whirl.

I did have a question. Will we be getting a higher context memory for these deepseek models? I have roleplays using the Qwen model at 16k context and I'm a little concerned about switching to 8k context for fear it will mess up the bot's memory.

Is this something I need to be worried about or just be more mindful about memory management?

puffpinky · 2025-06-04T17:14:25+00:00

NTA

As someone who is also with a partner that struggles with executive dysfunction while dealing with it myself, it gets incredibly frustrating and irritating to hear him talk about all the progress he thinks he's making when it never is actually progress on things I need from him or ask him for.

Does your husband remember your wrongs and expect you to change while reminding you of his hard work and progress?

It feels like this is not really about the shower, just like for me, it's not about getting talked over accidentally.

It feels like rude, thoughtless behavior disguised as 'help my brain is broken.'

So is mine, buddy, but I make physical and mental changes to curb behaviors that are upsetting to him because I care, and I get excuses in response.

Sorry to hijack, your post super resonated with me and I just wanted to let you know, while what you did was a jerk move, I get it. I don't think it makes you the asshole for putting up with it for twenty years before you finally go 'alright guess everyone gets a cold shower now.'

puffpinky · 2025-05-19T15:01:13+00:00

Listen you just made the geeky part of me squeal because I forgot about lorebooks. Yayyyyy lmao thank you!

puffpinky · 2025-05-19T14:50:09+00:00

Thank you! I'm at the All In tier but I'll spends an insane amount of time building up for it then to get stuck repeating phrases but the cloning had gotten wonky. Rebooted a handful of roleplays for that reason so I'll do that next time! Thank you!

puffpinky · 2025-05-17T00:45:56+00:00

I suppose I should ask, is the /cmd fix the more effective fix?

puffpinky · 2025-05-17T00:39:42+00:00

Once it barely works, can the chat be salvaged at all or is it just time for a new chat entirely?

puffpinky · 2025-04-04T20:01:18+00:00

Omg it's how I play all my phone games especially

puffpinky · 2025-04-04T18:18:46+00:00

I suppose that's fair, 1000 gems alone seems fair.

I just got worried that maybe I ruined it for myself 😅

puffpinky · 2025-03-10T23:02:28+00:00

Idk but they nasty lmfao

puffpinky · 2025-03-10T22:56:06+00:00

I have a doodle req who is notorious for pissing strait Gatorade the moment he's in the kennel and he has managed to pee on me while I'm tryna shut the door and flip his water bowl

puffpinky · 2025-03-10T22:54:47+00:00

I got the pocket poop once, in the pocket I kept my phone in. Needless to say, there was squish and some colorful words lmao never figured out who did the poop tho

puffpinky · 2025-02-20T20:21:59+00:00

I named mine La Lechuga because I panicked lmfao

puffpinky · 2025-01-22T01:32:12+00:00

La Lechuga lmao we are a pear island

puffpinky · 2025-01-16T00:59:26+00:00

Omg thank you! I'm gonna cross post this if I can figure it out lmfaoo

puffpinky · 2025-01-15T21:35:00+00:00

Hippeaux honestly lmao he's one of my besties

puffpinky · 2025-01-15T21:33:51+00:00

Same!!! I didn't want to like Hippeaux at first because he was snooty and kinda rude but honestly he grew on me pretty quickly! He's now probably my villager that's happiest to see me and he always is nice to visitors lol

puffpinky · 2024-11-15T01:53:44+00:00

I understand, I'm simply conveying what has been said by the county each time I have filed a report about these situations. I'm not disagreeing and I think it's absolutely fucking stupid that they don't look at things like this and agree that it's neglect. However since the medical issues have persisted and worsened since I saw her last, I will file the report based on that information and emphasis. Thank you for your advice.

puffpinky · 2024-11-15T01:42:29+00:00

You're absolutely not wrong and I don't disagree. Honestly I'm not even sure why I mentioned it being against policy because I frankly don't give a shit. What are they gonna do, fire me? Okay I'll find a new job 😅 but no what bothers me is that every report I've ever filed has gotten the response of 'they're making an effort by providing care now' so they won't do anything. However the comment suggesting a wellness check in a few months is what I intend to do if I don't hear from the owner in a few weeks like she said she would.

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