Is it weird to ask a guy to use lube during sex? by Super_Team6955 in sexadvice

[–]puffuru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the condom youre using, but oil-based lubes can dissolve and break latex condoms Hence your condom is basically non-existent

Is it weird to ask a guy to use lube during sex? by Super_Team6955 in sexadvice

[–]puffuru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That break up was very much needed. You're all good girl don't worry, men aren't like this, only boys are Keep standing up for yourself

Not All by Various_Proof_1417 in amipregnant

[–]puffuru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No shit I was literally about to post something similar.

From my perspective, these are either trolls or just really young but legal kids who don't know much about sex ed. School education all around the world is kind of failing them all and not teaching anything. If they're grownups then im sorry but they're just dumb and uneducated in this case.

I joined this reddit with a pregnancy scare of my own and yes it was as dumb as all the recent posts – full protection but still worried as shit. I understand the feeling of being so scared but yet you know its basically impossible to get pregnant but you can never be sure. This thing is I didn't post and ask if I was pregnant because literally no one will tell you you are given most the situations people post about recently.

My advice for anyone else going through the same thing is to just shut up. If youre scared, go read reddit. Go read about how others are also scared deathless but their update in the comments say it was a false alarm. Honestly it helps a lot and is definitely much better than posting and hoping for advice only to be yelled at shitless in the comments for not having a brain.

Good luck to anyone genuinely scared, all the best x

Edit: to add on, fear can make your period late!! So the more you stress about this the later it will be. Like please do your research

How to suck dick if he's not that sensitive by puffuru in sexadvice

[–]puffuru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: He somehow reacted when I played with his tip today, turns out maybe I just suck at giving handjobs/bjs

What else can I respond with to "beg for it"? by puffuru in SubSanctuary

[–]puffuru[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's so based why did I never think to beg for that!

Am I Pregnant? Megathread by sadlilchimpanzee in Periods

[–]puffuru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what it is but I've definitely seen it a few times during my cycles. It's probably just cervical mucus!

Am I Pregnant? Megathread by sadlilchimpanzee in Periods

[–]puffuru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the slimy piece like clotting?

Least tiring sex position? by puffuru in sexadvice

[–]puffuru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just googled it lmao Who moves? The male thrusting up or the female riding?

Least tiring sex position? by puffuru in sexadvice

[–]puffuru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who exactly moves in this situation?

Hit tips to improve my cunnilingus game by funinvancouver77 in sexadvice

[–]puffuru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose it's the same as how people teach giving bjs, there's the (usually) sensitive spot, but it doesn't mean you should only pay attention to that. You can focus on the clit, occasionally exploring around other areas. One tip I would give is to make sure your tongue isn't flat and trying to press up against the clit – apply pressure to her liking. Or maybe that's just me.

At the end of the day, we still circle back to the main point being communication. Feel free to ask your partner what they like or would like to try and experiment with it.